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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder how many couples profiles on here are run by the male without the female knowing they exist? Seems to be quite a few with an attractive female asking for the seemingly easy but no verificafions months on. Could be a nasty shock if you found out!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be surprised how many are run by the female. Mostly with his knowledge I think though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many couples profiles on here are run by the male without the female knowing they exist? Seems to be quite a few with an attractive female asking for the seemingly easy but no verificafions months on. Could be a nasty shock if you found out!?"

Why do you think that?

There is much moaning from single males here (perhaps justified) but you are suggesting it is easier for couples to meet.

Actually, it can be difficult to find people who you think will be compatible. There are more people involved and therefore more tastes and preferences to take into account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible. Although, our profile is run by me (female), but he definitely knows about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ita mainly me that runs our profile/pics and does the messaging and it's always me in the forums. Hubby is well aware and does send messages every so often and I always mark our messages as unread so he can read them too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder how many couples profiles on here are run by the male without the female knowing they exist? Seems to be quite a few with an attractive female asking for the seemingly easy but no verificafions months on. Could be a nasty shock if y.

Why do you think that?

There is much moaning from single males here (perhaps justified) but you are suggesting it is easier for couples to meet.

Actually, it can be difficult to find people who you think will be compatible. There are more people involved and therefore more tastes and preferences to take into account."

I don't doubt it. It seems hard to find what you want regardless of who you are unless you are Brad and Angelina (sadly I'm neither!) What I seem to be coming across is couples profiles where there is a lot of chat and pic swaps. Maybe agreement to verify on Skype but then when it comes to it a no show from the fem. So I'm thinking some guys use a couples profile to get other women or couples (or guys even) talking , sending pics maybe even cam but then go quiet as they can't meet because the fem doesn't know...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ita mainly me that runs our profile/pics and does the messaging and it's always me in the forums. Hubby is well aware and does send messages every so often and I always mark our messages as unread so he can read them too."

To be fair that is clear and from your verifications nobody would doubt you were a genuine couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the verge of opening a couple's profile. Not sure this is the place though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to me some couples love it and some find it a frustrating nightmare! Couldn't tell you the secret to the success though! I'm the latter but as a single male!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many couples profiles on here are run by the male without the female knowing they exist? Seems to be quite a few with an attractive female asking for the seemingly easy but no verificafions months on. Could be a nasty shock if y.

Why do you think that?

There is much moaning from single males here (perhaps justified) but you are suggesting it is easier for couples to meet.

Actually, it can be difficult to find people who you think will be compatible. There are more people involved and therefore more tastes and preferences to take into account.

I don't doubt it. It seems hard to find what you want regardless of who you are unless you are Brad and Angelina (sadly I'm neither!) What I seem to be coming across is couples profiles where there is a lot of chat and pic swaps. Maybe agreement to verify on Skype but then when it comes to it a no show from the fem. So I'm thinking some guys use a couples profile to get other women or couples (or guys even) talking , sending pics maybe even cam but then go quiet as they can't meet because the fem doesn't know..."

Of course there are people here pretending to be couples or females. The majority though are genuine.

As for Brad and Angelina, I haven't spotted them - but then I doubt that I would be interested in them or them in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (male) tend to run our account more, but she decides what pics I can put up and we both decide what/who to message. Forum posts either of us can do on our own (although neither of us have done many).

I did join this site with her knowledge but at first she wasn't too interested in it, just because we're both new and nervous. The likes she had on her photos has boosted her confidence a lot and she now is much more interested and will look on the site on her own.

We don't have any verifications because, well, we haven't done anything yet. With kids, some health issues and then things like being hit by a bus last week just means we haven't had time. Soon, hopefully

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