FabSwingers.com forum: Isn't that standard practice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

Unfortunately the shit is in you until it's ready to come out, I always walk around with shit in me until I need a poo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think of it like a used ashtray. You can 'wipe' it with as many tissues as you like but it won't be clean until you wash it.

Wipes are an option, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as with any anal play it is easy to wash but difficult to be clean for any length of time as the body knows the bowel is empty and starts to pass more through to it ,so constantly filling, not sure how porn stars do it xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

If a woman is over enthusiastic in cleaning her genital area it can lead to bv so isn't recommended to wash more than daily or twice at the most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

If a woman is over enthusiastic in cleaning her genital area it can lead to bv so isn't recommended to wash more than daily or twice at the most."

Excusing my ignorance, what is BV?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can get sore fanny,s if we wash every time we have a piss. Our fanny,s are delicate and don't much like too much soap. Are you telling us you wash your cock every time you pee? He'll...now I know why there is water in urinals, so you can flop your cock in it flick the foreskin back and give Johny a good wash.

No wonder so many men come out of the public license loos looking like they either pissed themselves or got lucky.

My mind boggles at the thought of you washing your bum with a paper towel at the handbasin.

We lady's carry wet wipes for that.

XXX

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

If a woman is over enthusiastic in cleaning her genital area it can lead to bv so isn't recommended to wash more than daily or twice at the most.

Excusing my ignorance, what is BV?

K."

Bacterial vaginosis. My last attempt auto corrected

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

If a woman is over enthusiastic in cleaning her genital area it can lead to bv so isn't recommended to wash more than daily or twice at the most.

Excusing my ignorance, what is BV?

Bacterial vaginosis. My last attempt auto corrected

Both attemprs equally appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that."

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays."

ooh you read my post.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays.

ooh you read my post.

I always try and read yours, you have a refreshing and original take on many things and you debate rather than turn to insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays.

ooh you read my post.

I always try and read yours, you have a refreshing and original take on many things and you debate rather than turn to insult.

i feel pressured now to have high standard posts, lol.

i like your posts because you really do come across as nice. when they had those award things on here i'm always tempted to put you in as members with the most appropriate name.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays.

ooh you read my post.

I always try and read yours, you have a refreshing and original take on many things and you debate rather than turn to insult.

i feel pressured now to have high standard posts, lol.

i like your posts because you really do come across as nice. when they had those award things on here i'm always tempted to put you in as members with the most appropriate name.

don't feel pressured and I'm a bitch when I'm hungry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bathe every other day (attually in the bath now). As your toilet hygine I wipe with toilet paper. Nine times outta ten I've made a clean job of it anyhow but if I do need an extra wash I'll use wipes. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays.

ooh you read my post.

I always try and read yours, you have a refreshing and original take on many things and you debate rather than turn to insult.

i feel pressured now to have high standard posts, lol.

i like your posts because you really do come across as nice. when they had those award things on here i'm always tempted to put you in as members with the most appropriate name.

don't feel pressured and I'm a bitch when I'm hungry

haha yeah not everyone can be nice all the time i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bathe every other day (attually in the bath now). As your toilet hygine I wipe with toilet paper. Nine times outta ten I've made a clean job of it anyhow but if I do need an extra wash I'll use wipes. Xxx"

Wow I shower twice a day !! If having anal I tend to douche. Porn stars have enemas x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We can get sore fanny,s if we wash every time we have a piss. Our fanny,s are delicate and don't much like too much soap. Are you telling us you wash your cock every time you pee? He'll...now I know why there is water in urinals, so you can flop your cock in it flick the foreskin back and give Johny a good wash.

No wonder so many men come out of the public license loos looking like they either pissed themselves or got lucky.

My mind boggles at the thought of you washing your bum with a paper towel at the handbasin.

We lady's carry wet wipes for that.

XXX"

For urine, wipes are acceptable for me, but for the no. 2 it has to be a proper wash.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand it may be slightly different for women. I do appreciate, and enjoy, the female body in it's entirety

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging."

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

The last time I used wipes my vagina was sore for days...just thought I would say

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The last time I used wipes my vagina was sore for days...just thought I would say"

I don't think gents realise that using wipes "down there" really isn't a great idea. Plain water according toy doctor is the best thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder so many men come out of the public license loos looking like they either pissed themselves or got lucky.

My mind boggles at the thought of you washing your bum with a paper towel at the handbasin.

We lady's carry wet wipes for that.

XXX

For urine, wipes are acceptable for me, but for the no. 2 it has to be a proper wash."

Can I ask?

Do the men look a bit oddly at you when you wash your arse in the sink in the public/office loo?

Do you dry it in the blower?

I wish I hadn't asked now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children. "

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x"

Me too. I'll take the risk of losing some friendly bacteria

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x"

I wouldn't be able to not shower either but I know it's bad for my skin

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

I can't jump into a shower every time I have a shit.nor is it practical to stand by a sink and rinse your cock after being in apublic urinal.

Obviously clean before going out to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x

I wouldn't be able to not shower either but I know it's bad for my skin

I use almond oil it really is good for your skin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am the almond oil and mustard oil massage specialist

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x

Me too. I'll take the risk of losing some friendly bacteria

Thats why free will is such a great thing and you can do what you like.......I swim and run often so inevitably shower after both. The article i read just gave very good for thought and was as much a caution for children too, excema problems etc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok i know im going to sound odd. But what happened to normal hygene levels. I have a shower every day i wipe my arse when ive been to the toilet. If im going out in the evening or have a meet i will have a bath beforehand.

I think i must poo different to everyone else cause i dont go into full body clean every time i go

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

If you know your going to do anal why can't you use a douche? ? I do if I know in advance ...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Hello,

Following on from the (disappeared) thread about messy anal due to poor hygiene...

Isn't it standard practice to wash yourself after passong stools/urine? I mean, how can you walk around with that s*** in you?

Not 100% sure what you are asking as I didn't read the original thread.

Messy Anal? Do you mean a mess after anal sex?

I mean I do clean up after having a shit but I don't douche every time. If I plan to have anal sex I douche in preperation but not as an everyday thing.

And no I don't wash after every pee, it could prove a bit awkward in a public toilet, I can see myself being banned from the loos in Tesco's, plus soap around the lady bits isn't a good idea on a regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I shower twice a day !! If having anal I tend to douche. Porn stars have enemas x"

I haven't got a shower.

wish I did have one. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging."

Thank you. Yes everyone comments on how soft my skin is. Xxx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Porn stars either douche or even have an enema before anal sex. What happens in porn is NOT "normal" and not practical. They prepare for up to two hours before a scene and a 30 minute scene can take 4 hours or more to shoot. What you see on the screen as as artificial as an advert for washing powder. Chances are the porn stars didn't even enjoy it....and yes, I count porn stars as personal friends...

I see nothing wrong with normal levels of hygiene. I shower every day, twice if it's very hot. But I appreciate some people's skin does not react well to being washed and some people don't need to shower that often. I wipe my bum after I do a number two, and if there's anything left I use a wet wipe or two. I would expect the same of any lady I was having sex with.

Any sexual health professional will advise a man to wear condoms when having anal sex (with either gender) because you cannot guarantee total cleanliness. Short of spending time preparing in advance with an enema, there's no way of ensuring 6 inches (or more) of anal cavity is clean....even washing with a cloth - which itself seems a little strange.

The whole male-generated idea that ladies bits "down there" are dirty is so damaging. As several ladies have pointed out, washing too often is bad for them. Do you not care about your partners enough to want them to be healthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x"

I really don't care either. I rarely go out and I rarely wear underwear just skirts and tops or nightys. Plus bar a small amount of daily housework I don't get sweaty or smelly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Porn stars either douche or even have an enema before anal sex. What happens in porn is NOT "normal" and not practical. They prepare for up to two hours before a scene and a 30 minute scene can take 4 hours or more to shoot. What you see on the screen as as artificial as an advert for washing powder. Chances are the porn stars didn't even enjoy it....and yes, I count porn stars as personal friends...

I shower every day twice so I'm not thinking of my partners health? Hey how do you work that out? I work and I'm sorry for wanting to feel fresh. My god am I getting told off now for having a shower a day. Ffs this site sometimes is strange

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think you misunderstand what I am saying in my last point.

Much of the pressure put on women to do things to their bodies which are actively damaging (such as vaginal or anal douching, using perfumes on the vaginal area).

I am in no way suggesting ladies should not shower. I am suggesting that there is too much pressure on women to smell like roses "down there"....the notion that it is somehow "dirty". And surely, if you really care about your partners health, a man would not insist on a lady washing her intimate parts so much that it causes infections, itching and so on.

Nowhere am I suggesting one should not shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off to get a shower now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i know im going to sound odd. But what happened to normal hygene levels. I have a shower every day i wipe my arse when ive been to the toilet. If im going out in the evening or have a meet i will have a bath beforehand.

I think i must poo different to everyone else cause i dont go into full body clean every time i go"

Well that all sounds perfectly normal to me and the actions of someone who is comfortable with their own body and its functions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prepare for anal sex and never had an accident. Having said that, on the odd occasion a tiny amount of faecal matter has travelled from my colon into my rectum. My response? Tough shit

Seriously though, you maybe squeaky clean after your washout but your intestines continue to do their job 24 hours a day. Get over it or don't partake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, I'm back in the forum and start killing threads, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I cannot hit the grinning face either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you're diet and bowels are healthy you shouldn't even need to wipe after pooping, never mind wash. it would be clean anyway.

might smell but there should be no residue or anything like that.

It's as you said elsewhere "normal" seems to be fetishised nowadays.

ooh you read my post.

I always try and read yours, you have a refreshing and original take on many things and you debate rather than turn to insult.

with lots doing a debate, is that now a massdebate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've never douched before anal, never left any mess, and even sucked the guys cock after and it didn't smell or taste like shit.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

No wonder so many men come out of the public license loos looking like they either pissed themselves or got lucky.

My mind boggles at the thought of you washing your bum with a paper towel at the handbasin.

We lady's carry wet wipes for that.

XXX"

That's really made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x

Me too. I'll take the risk of losing some friendly bacteria

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's much better for your skin, bathing and showering washes your acid mantle away causing dry skin problems and contributing to premature aging.

Here, here and recent research has been looking into how daily showers/ baths reduce the amount of healthy micro bacteria we have on our skin that we need to keep healthy too, adults & children.

I really don't care after a day working or running around after my kids etc and in the heat esp I shower twice a day. I like to keep myself fresh. Sorry but I couldn't not shower daily min x

I wouldn't be able to not shower either but I know it's bad for my skin

I use almond oil it really is good for your skin

I always use moisturiser after my baths. At the moment im using bio oil as its brilliant for the scar from my recent operation. I also use very gentle bath products too. My skin is in good condition and people often comment on the good condition of it.

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