FabSwingers.com forum: Too old when you are 50+ ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , I'm 55 and having loads of fun

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Some how I think there is more than your age hindering you.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Age shouldn't matter tho we all have our preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're never too old to do anything! - unless you think you are. Finding it hard with ladies does'nt have much to do with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's still young

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It won't be your age.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

You're not too old but it does get more difficult as you grow older. Keep an eye out for organised socials in your area they're a good way to get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not too old

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

54 and still doing reasonably well...it does help to have a good sense of humour mind!

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"It won't be your age."

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I'm 58 and hope to god I'm not past it just yet!!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Actually there is a tad more finesse.

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Hope too good we ain't pass it over 50 ..

Lots to learn from us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is 18 years younger, so i get teh leftovers ,

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By *opitinpeteMan
over a year ago

tipton

when I was in my twenties I would never of dreamed about what I get up to now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel hornier now than I did years ago...and really don't feel my age as it were...so I don't feel past it at all...tho sure..you have to be realistic that you may not much inyerest in young women...tho yhere are some who like an older guy. Thick skin and be optimistic...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer

It isn't true that all women want young, hung guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer

It isn't true that all women want young, hung guys."

I agree I wouldn't date anyone under 45 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a vast number of profile that state a maximum age of 50 . It appears to be a barrier , real or imagined . One of us is 50 and we look and subsequently do not message many profiles as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have verifications OP...

I don't see the.. oh hang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest fantasy is to have a play with someone 50+

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Why do you think it's your age op..?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

It's not your age!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some how I think there is more than your age hindering you. "

Yep!

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

My old man always said 'your only as old as the women you feel'. As much as I like the saying however suited him as was rather chauvinistic and terrible player.

I myself have age limits set however its all about mentality and how you conduct yourself. Its hard for men of any age to get meets no matter if they got nutts like kingkong or the smoothest talker.

Its best to just go with the flow, engage In the forums is the best way to be noticed.

Also if you are given advice when you ask please take it if its good, many complain but don't wish to change.

Best of luck sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

No it's not too old, I am 52 XXX

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"you have verifications OP...

I don't see the.. oh hang on

Some people simply lack self awareness!

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

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ha ha not a chance bro.am nearley older than china .and have a fantastic time .today was wild as the wind .and who knows about 2 moz ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

I'm 20 and i struggle as well! Must be one of those things

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

Just to cut a knife through all the hinting...think they might reckon it cos you are married?

Or am I wrong?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"you have verifications OP...

I don't see the.. oh hang on

This

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe the fact that you are married and looking for discrete fun and only willing to travel 10 miles from Rochdale is what is hampering meets, rather than your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just reviewed your profile. There are several reasons that women of any age would not be interested. Being 51 is not one of them.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Age gets the blame for a lot of things, but not your age x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'm also 51 and doing more than OK thank you

Us Silver Foxes can be quite in demand at times

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

"I'm also 51 and doing more than OK thank you

Us Silver Foxes can be quite in demand at times

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

Op your married like me playing away from home sadly this will put a lot of woman and couples off more than your age it is what it is .

But propops to you for coming clean about it in your profile you would be shock by the amount on here and other similar sites who are in some sort of relationship male and female who choose to omite that fact in there profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 in two weeks, and having a great time thank you very much...

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

67 here and having a grand time

growing old is compulsory

growing up is optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"67 here and having a grand time

growing old is compulsory

growing up is optional

You've made my day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah stop beating yourself up Rosie and I are both over 50 and have a fantastic time,you've got years left in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coming up on 63, and having fun, not as much as I would like, but still going, I have found going in forums and chatting lets people see past your age, and get to know you better. crack on.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm over 60 and still having fun

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Not your age, in my opinion, we have no problems and we are older. Others have already pointed out, many won't knowingly meet marrieds, also no pics, you don't have to put face pic on. We would pass you by, for these reasons, but good luck!

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

I'm the opposite - been getting way more attention in last few years. Maybe everyone thinks I'm desperate

Certainly not aware of anyone having any issue with age with any of my meets.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer

Not sure that's true. I like guys over 40, they have to be single though and open is married. I also love a slim guy who is fun.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

OP is married it should read !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer

Yes, blame your age, blame the women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, l'm 67. Very horny every day. Keep fit and dress smart. Don't do as well as I would like on here these days but still meet lots of people for fun. It's about being positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never too old for anything!! unless you think that you are! Think you stay young.

Positive mental attitude helps.

Good luck to us all for we all have birthdays coming up within a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.

I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!

I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some god damno, gorgeous 50 plus guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met some god damno, gorgeous 50 plus guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some amazing over 50's on fab.

My playmate is over 50 and he puts most of the younguns i ever met to shame.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We prefer older guys, met some lovely over 50s on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flippin hope not. Perhaps youtpre looking for women who are too young ? I like guys my age ..bit of experience and knowledge

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Paul is 58 and I'm 48 so I think it's fair to say that you're not too old.....but then maybe a woman of my age is too old for you?

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I'm 55 and I'm not getting as much as I'd like...... but I had a meet yesterday and I've got 1 tomoz or at the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some amazing over 50's on fab.

My playmate is over 50 and he puts most of the younguns i ever met to shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paul is 58 and I'm 48 so I think it's fair to say that you're not too old.....but then maybe a woman of my age is too old for you?

Not for me!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

54 and a relative newbie but site working fine for me so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are men who are over 50 regarded as too old to swing?? I'm 51 and am finding it hard to find ladies who are prepared to meet guys who are 50+ Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place who knows

get rid of the cock pic and show a torso chest bum ect

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"Nope , I'm 55 and having loads of fun

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

54 here and enjoying the site and what comes with it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Yup, time to hang up the restraints and clamps, the electro play units, the floggers and whips, restraints and ropes,

I've i missed some thing before I retire.

Oh, knowledge in how to play with them.

Drat, getting older has so many draw backs.......

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By *ilver_medallistMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm 58 and hope to god I'm not past it just yet!!!

You look gorgeous xx

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.

I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!

I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums.

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forbidden our two bums get out and get a grip at least you remember your twenties .the day will come when you dont .then chuck the towel in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

51 here and having a great time.

However I will agree that 50 seems to be a big barrier number. It seems to be by far the most common upper age limit used on Fab, so quite noticeable for those gents who have just passed 50.

But there is plenty of fun to be had and I'm happy to generally be in demand.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Some of the best sex I've had was with older blokes

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It seems that all the females wont on here are young hung guys, but us older guys are still able to perform and last longer

It isn't true that all women want young, hung guys."

Indeed it isn't.

And the young, hung guys who aren't having much success blame something different.

It's easy to blame something you can't change though, rather than actually making any effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cut off point is 45.

I'm 46, so nobody wants to fuck me on fab unless they'd already done so before my last birthday.

Luckily I was a slut.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.

I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!

I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums.

Your profile says 57

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure it's because the OP is married and cheating (or trying to) that's the main problem, not his age.

Talk to your wife, or get a divorce dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm 51 and doing crap on here, no one is interested in me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As from last week, I am now in my last year as a 50 something, and it's so depressing.

I remember the last of my 20's, that was bad enough!

I still love sex, but it's been forbidden to me. My only activity on here now is the forums.

Your profile says 57

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Yeah fab fucked up (cough cough)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the best sex I've had was with older blokes"
*waves hello*!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it's nowt to do with age. I met a guy off her who is 55. Above my usual age range but caught my eye. Met more than once and hope to again.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There are a few very hot 50-somethings on here I love/would love to meet.

Unfortunately one thing I have found is that men tend to be more liberal with the truth as they start approaching a certain age, (women may too but that's not an issue for me). A number of late 40's and 50-somethings, in person, look as though they've had *very* hard lives.

Knocking a year or two off might not seem like a big deal but it's still dishonest. What else would they be deceitful about? As for the ones who think they can knock 10+ years off without anyone noticing, that's just taking the piss.

They may persuade me to meet them this way but it's not going to get them anywhere and I'll be pissed off they wasted my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older (single ) guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doun't lie about my age, I'm 49, 50 this month, most people that meet me think I'm younger, that's always nice to hear, but I'm very comfortable with who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not too old, just out of most ladies age range lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

married - 'discreet'

okey dokey

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"married - 'discreet'

okey dokey"

And very, very limited area. That won't help either.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started swinging just after we'd first met, him just over 50 and her just below. Now in our 60s, we've had an incredible time and are still doing so. Things that were just fantasies have now become normal sex-play, so yes, you can still have wonderful swinging in your 50s and older. Age is just a state of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a few very hot 50-somethings on here I love/would love to meet.

They may persuade me to meet them this way but it's not going to get them anywhere and I'll be pissed off they wasted my time."

And the ones who are honest about their age, but the pics they use are from yrs ago!

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Âgé is nothing more than à number, its more about attitude and all parties having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowledge, manners, respect, security, confidence.

maturity is a great thing! x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Some numbers are much higher than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im in my mid 50s and i find 50plus men very sexy like fine wine they get better with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the very rare occasions we have spent time with single men, our preference is most definitely for a mature man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 67 and still getting plenty

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Maybe hope for me yet?!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both in our sixties and we do not feel too old

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