FabSwingers.com forum: Do you prefer spontaneous meets or planned meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find spontaneous meets better, you don't have so much time to think about it, where as planned meets... I dont like that feeling of shaking like a shitting dog for days, wondering what it's going to be like..

Whats your _iews?

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By *RH and HRNCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Both have their place X

The anticipation of a meet can be really exciting and add to the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed with the post above xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on my mood. Spontaneous one off meets have their place and can be lots of fun

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I have to plan, I have kids, and bits to shave lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See ive had a spontaneous meet, ive not long joined, but I did have a planned meet sorted, but that got cancelled. I was alot more nervous thinking about the planned meet than the one just off the cuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bits to shave.. haha.. is that your bits and legs, or moustache? Haha.. only joking..

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

With my job it's hard to plan in advance, so spontaneous works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or. Though spontaneous are more difficult due to family and work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous! They are the best and usually when I am at my most horny!

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By *ittle Miss MuckyWoman
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Mostly planned for me! I'm a worrier! Xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much planning - I think tends to make meets not as excieting as what the should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always spontaneous ,....

Planned meets have a habit of being cancelled .

Fact

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Depends on the mood but mmmm love all meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do plans. It's just my way. So I look for what I want when I want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the build up and anticipation of a planned meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer spontaneous but life gets in the way :-/

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Planned mostly. I find most spontaneous meets are often disappointing and last 3 mins haha

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By *ouple_m_and_jCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

We have to plan, but have had a couple of spontaneous meets, all in all planning works better for us, we can make sure we're all on the same page in advance, and know that we're not going to be interrupted lol

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to plan mostly but some spontaneous have been real good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spontaneous all the time cuts the time waster out (well most anyway)and makes it more exciting at the same time

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

"I find spontaneous meets better, you don't have so much time to think about it, where as planned meets... I dont like that feeling of shaking like a shitting dog for days, wondering what it's going to be like..

Whats your _iews? "

My indecisiveness makes me spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any meet would be wonderful. With the right people obviously. It's been far too long! Life has really got in the way lately for various reasons.

Sods law we have had 3 free nights this week but my body wasn't playing. Not able to meet for a while now either due to family and medical commitments.

Will continue to daydream about horny swinging encounters for the foreseeable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either would do

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Planned, love the build, the cranking up of expectations, the anticipation, the knowledge of what is going to happen.

Plus, how would I know what to bring?

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Dubai / Manchester

Spontaneous all the way which is why I prefer clubs x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Planned or club for us or both together & if messages between us and another party carry on as they are it will be hard (literally) to wait until September

S&H

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Need to plan mostly but some spontaneous have been real good too."

Love your eyes Tilly

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Planned for me mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be the spontaneous stand in for previously planned meet that didn't happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually try for spontaneous meets!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I prefer planned meets, not really had many spontaneous meets.

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By *lice400Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Planned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any would be good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these 'meets' of which you speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these 'meets' of which you speak?"

no idea mate been here over a year not found one must be very eclusive club

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I prefer planned but life doesn't always work out that way

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

We can't do spontaneous, not even with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these 'meets' of which you speak?

no idea mate been here over a year not found one must be very eclusive club"

Fucking hell! 5'3! I thought I was playing the game on the hard setting, you my friend have unlocked 'Expert Mode'! I tip my hat, good Sir!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Prefer planned meets with someone I've got a good bit of rapport with. Via messaging, though I'll confess to having a few spontaneous ones Occassionally

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Planned meets that go tits up...#waster

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Planned meets that go tits up...#waster

What an idiot.. should have arranged one with me instead, id of turned up without question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both have their place X

The anticipation of a meet can be really exciting and add to the experience."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these 'meets' of which you speak?

no idea mate been here over a year not found one must be very eclusive club

Fucking hell! 5'3! I thought I was playing the game on the hard setting, you my friend have unlocked 'Expert Mode'! I tip my hat, good Sir!"

Lol maybe should say I could bring. Stepladder on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planning is good, the build up is better, the meet is... Well; ask the ladies

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