FabSwingers.com forum: What do I have to do to get a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would love to meet a couple ff or mf, single females also. Can't seem to get anyone interested. Any advice anyone can give me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come to think of it...what do I have to do to get a reply on here??

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Get to a social meet up or a club....guaranteed to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice. Perserver go to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess as I am new to this I don't yet have the confidence to go to a club. I would love to meet someone or a couple first then go to a club with them to meet new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that you were impatient after 9 minutes of no reply on here tells me all I need to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile and posts on here come across as a man in a hurry ,desperate almost you need to get your personality across more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that you were impatient after 9 minutes of no reply on here tells me all I need to know

Hahaha v. True

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

You've been here 5 weeks. Someone people have been here 5 months with no meet. Be pro active message people. Offer something that others dont.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

The tongue skills are often ignored as many guys claim to be brilliant.

You need to outline more about what kind of person you are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm guessing you're rewriting your profile at the moment but I say 10/10 for smiling face pictures, it makes a nice change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Have just re written it. I would love to know what you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer cake! That always works!! 100% of the time!.. and chocolate

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Thank you. Have just re written it. I would love to know what you think? "

it seems that you've just cut the tongue reference and that's it...

You need to say more about yourself.

A good profile takes time and can't be cobbled together in five minutes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you. Have just re written it. I would love to know what you think? "

Seems good to me. Hang around in the forums also have a look in the meets section and see if anybody's organising a group social you can get to, it's a good way to meet people.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a tough gig for men on here there are probably 70 guys to every couple or women i see it on the forums all the time but its true we get loads (and i mean loads) of messages from single guys that just say "hi id like to shag your wife" even though our profile clearly says were not looking for men yet so they dont even get opened anymore just deleted

Read profiles make sure you match up to what your both after and then send a polite message telling them about you and why you think you would be a good match is your best bet

Oh and be patient lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not complaining about not getting a meet is a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself, bide your time, don't be a twatt and offer something that interests your potential meets.

Good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers Mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a sex change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do you get sex on a regular basis in the non swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offer cake! That always works!! 100% of the time!.. and chocolate "

Bribery. Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offer cake! That always works!! 100% of the time!.. and chocolate

Bribery. Definitely.

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Hello gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not as often as I would like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer Pringles and nuts not really into chocolate

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By *hristine and MarieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Somewhere north of Spalding

Search me, if you figure it out let us know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that old thing "expectation" rearing its ugly head again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that do well are usually buff tuff and all that & then some.. if ya sexy in shape then it happens..if not you need a Mrs or ya pissing in the wind

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Look in the meets section and get yourself to a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not as often as I would like."

Try revealing your personality in your profile. It is somewhat beige.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Beige?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys that do well are usually buff tuff and all that & then some.. if ya sexy in shape then it happens..if not you need a Mrs or ya pissing in the wind "

Damn...... your a long ways away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beige?"

I am afraid so. It consists of a few uninteresting sentences saying what you are looking for. It is not going to attract any interest.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Beige?"

Beige is an adjective I used a few weeks ago to suggest boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not as often as I would like.

Try revealing your personality in your profile. It is somewhat beige."

Yup,beige.

Like the face pic, good to see a smile rather than a cock for change.

More about you,this is a sales pitch after all.

The forums have worked wonders for us as a couple,so in my (limited) experience,make yourself known as a nice guy to talk to in here and your personality will shine through,and that's what will warm people to you.

Have a look at our profile,We asked the same questions,because we were searching for elusive bi females. We did the research and then tailored accordingly.

And it really worked....some lovely new friends that we are already planning on meeting with.

Happy hunting fella

Mr C

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. There are some really nice people on here. I really appreciate the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you. There are some really nice people on here. I really appreciate the advice."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you need to read profiles too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A black van with no windows at the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A black van with no windows at the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a young attractive couple looking for a female to join us and without causing offense we should be in a better position than a single guy who lacks confidence. Saying that we still havnt met up with anyone yet although it is on the horizon so we would say be patient but it's not going to be something that just happens you need to put some effort in to make it happen x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok. Thank you x

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