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House meet etiquette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going to a house meet tomorrow for the first time, a bit hesitant but gagging (!) at the same time.

Don't want to offend the hosts,but would like to take a gift. That's OK, isn't it?

What else should I ensure I do, or don't do?

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

What makes you want to take a gift? Is it something that's come up in conversation with the person(s) you're meeting? Do you feel like you should or have to take something? I ask because it seems a bit odd to me, although mine is just one opinion so don't take it as gospel by any means!

In general just be nice, friendly, yourself, like you would (hopefully ) usually. Unless you've made arrangements for anything else to happen when you arrive, then that's all you can do really. Try not to overthink it, and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take a bottle of wine but I give everyone gifts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a shit before hand. Last thing you want to do is block their toilet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a shit before hand. Last thing you want to do is block their toilet. "

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Have a shit before hand. Last thing you want to do is block their toilet. "

Perhaps he could turn up with a plunger as a gift.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I'd always bring something if I was meeting in someone's house.

I've fab friends that bring bickies to mine if they're just coming in for a cuppa..

So bring a bottle of whatever you fancy and some sweeties or something like that.. Doubt you'll insult the hosts.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Don't forget your condoms xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone, you've put my mind at rest.

Plunger it is then...

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Thank you everyone, you've put my mind at rest.

Plunger it is then... "

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I like people who bring wine .....a nice proseco .... yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took two bottles of wine to my last meet and did not drink any too busy in bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like people who bring wine .....a nice proseco .... yum yum"

I will bear that in mind

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

I always take something. it's polite to do so as you have been invited to their home.

Have fun & stay safe

Bambi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always take something. it's polite to do so as you have been invited to their home.

Have fun & stay safe

Bambi xx"

i never like to turn up empty handed

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..


"I always take something. it's polite to do so as you have been invited to their home.

Have fun & stay safe

Bambi xx

i never like to turn up empty handed "

Whooo seeing your bag of toys would so excite me much more than a bottle of wine

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

About a decade ago, we had a meet come to our house with a cheap bottle as a gift, we smiled and thanked them. I think we took it to a party a few weeks later.

[TBH, we're a bit more sophisticated now, and don't think we could bring ourselves to take a bottle of Lambrini or a 1.5l bottle of Soave to a meet!]

It's the thought that counts!

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By *lice400Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Wine always a good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake? Always a winner

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest


"Took two bottles of wine to my last meet and did not drink any too busy in bed lol "

Etiquette for bringing wine is that it's a gift for the host and as such is not expected to be opened for the gifter to have a taste of the gift too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a 6 pack of ski strawberry yogurts is the perfect gift in these situations. Closely followed by a bag of sugar and some Jaffa cakes

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've always taken a half decent bottle of wine, always a nice ice breaker of sorts.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I'm a plus one for taking a bottle

As useful as a plunger is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd take a bottle of wine but I give everyone gifts "

Me too

I just think it's good manners

Nothing to do with sex, if somebody invited me over to their house for anything like cooking me a meal, watching a film etc I'd take a bottle of something but that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to take a gift? Is it something that's come up in conversation with the person(s) you're meeting? Do you feel like you should or have to take something? I ask because it seems a bit odd to me, although mine is just one opinion so don't take it as gospel by any means!

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To some people its just a way of saying thank you for opening their home up to them

I'm not talking expensive fancy gifts just a token bottle of wine so something similar

For me its just manner which a lot loose when 'its only a fuck'

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I'd take a bottle of wine but I give everyone gifts

Me too

I just think it's good manners

Nothing to do with sex, if somebody invited me over to their house for anything like cooking me a meal, watching a film etc I'd take a bottle of something but that's just me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You treat it exactly the same as if you were going to someone's house for a vanilla party. So yes of course you should take something like a bottle of wine.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We don't expect anything when people visit us, and don't generally take anything with us either.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What makes you want to take a gift? Is it something that's come up in conversation with the person(s) you're meeting? Do you feel like you should or have to take something? I ask because it seems a bit odd to me, although mine is just one opinion so don't take it as gospel by any means!

In general just be nice, friendly, yourself, like you would (hopefully ) usually. Unless you've made arrangements for anything else to happen when you arrive, then that's all you can do really. Try not to overthink it, and have fun!"

I've never turned up at anyone's home, friend, family, playmate etc without a gift. Something my parents always did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a bottle of wine - I think creates the right impression

And just sometimes breaks the ice for that first couple of seconds.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's a bottle of wine - I think creates the right impression

And just sometimes breaks the ice for that first couple of seconds.

"

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Going to a house meet tomorrow for the first time, a bit hesitant but gagging (!) at the same time.

Don't want to offend the hosts,but would like to take a gift. That's OK, isn't it?

What else should I ensure I do, or don't do?"

Don't wipe your cock on the curtains.

Don't wipe your cock on her hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone, you've put my mind at rest.

Plunger it is then... "

FFS what have you been eating? XXX

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I get cake and then teased when I don't share.

I always bring a gift to friends whether it's wine or something homemade.

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By *igandy123Man
over a year ago

old trafford

I agree it's more thoughtful then anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a bottle of wine - it just seems polite to me. If they know I am coming straight from work, I've had dinner cooked for me, which helps with the blood-sugar levels! Some people are only on here for a shag and it is a question of in, shag, home. I don't go back in those cases, but you can't know until you get there. Sadly.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A packet of haribo

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