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"New to this and looking for advice. I'm going to ask the billy basic questions others are afraid to ask for fear of looking like an idiot. But I won't know if I don't ask so here goes... I'm single and interested in going to a club or meet. Can single people go to them? And what's the typical experience e.g. what happens when you arrive? Do you undress straight away, where do you keep your clothes/belongings? How do you join in, what's the expectation? Give me an insight and any suggestions of places near Leicestershire. Thanks "Okay, of course singles can go to clubs. Single women can usually go on any night unless it's very specifically advertised as couples only, and usually get in on a reduced rate. If you explain it's your first time and you'll be coming on your own most clubs will take great care of you, show you round, explain who to speak to if you're unsure about anything and probably introduce you to other people there. Most club nights typically start in a bar / lounge area where people have a couple of drinks, check out who's there and start chatting. Remember you're under no obligation to do anything you don't want to do ..... you can stay in the bar all night if you want - and just because you've been talking it doesn't mean you owe them anything. If you do decide to move through to the play areas there'll be lockers where you can keep your clothes ... and where you can stash any change of outfit, bags, toys etc. Clubs vary, some ask you to 'dress down' at a certain time but in the ones I've been to you dress as you wish until you want to play ... and then nudity, underwear or towels in the play areas. Have a look at the club review pages here .... they all have links to the clubs' websites to give you a feel of them. The reviews should also give you an idea, and there's plenty of discussion in the club forum too. I don't know much about clubs in Leicestershire .... but went to Liberty Elite the other week (actually, have just Google and it's in Leics!) which I don't think would be too far from you and that was great IMO .... scrupulously clean, nice decor and atmosphere, good food (!) and well thought out play areas - both public and private. The other thing to look out for maybe is 'Newbie nights' which lots of clubs put on .... might be easier to get talking to people who'd be similarly nervous? You could always put up a meet if you're thinking of going to get in touch beforehand with others going the same night. Ms G | |||
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"New to this and looking for advice. I'm going to ask the billy basic questions others are afraid to ask for fear of looking like an idiot. But I won't know if I don't ask so here goes... I'm single and interested in going to a club or meet. Can single people go to them? And what's the typical experience e.g. what happens when you arrive? Do you undress straight away, where do you keep your clothes/belongings? How do you join in, what's the expectation? Give me an insight and any suggestions of places near Leicestershire. Thanks "Shame I'm a little TOO old for you, I could of escorted you to Chams, I went once on my own many years ago, it's lovely there. Xx | |||
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