FabSwingers.com forum: does anyone else starting to give up on this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like ive been on this for nine or more weeks yet still no meets at all ive been doing my best by being polite and reasonable and like i do get replies but thats what they all end at any suggestion on how to improve or anyone else having similar struggle

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It took me a few months to find the right first meet. It takes time. And trusting your instincts.

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Like ive been on this for nine or more weeks yet still no meets at all ive been doing my best by being polite and reasonable and like i do get replies but thats what they all end at any suggestion on how to improve or anyone else having similar struggle "

You say in your profile that you are not new.

Were you on here before?

What was it like last time for you?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile tells me all I need to know.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*sets clock ticking 'till UNLOS*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile picture, could mean an instant delete, in a over crowded inbox. You need to think about what it would be like to have to search 100s of messages a day. People just have a way of filtering.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea i see where your coming from but like still some people here are like oh i only look for good hung guys and then your like sorry but bitch please your far from fit yet you expect something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes i feel like giving up when i can't find what i want on here. i just dont come on here for a bit and find better things to do instead, then come back when i'm feeling more enthusiastic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was here before but no meets so i gave it a break yet still nothing it might just be me having bad luck

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Firstly cock pics rarely impress the majority of women however some want to see them so I'd suggest keeping them private and show them upon request

Secondly, your profiles says nothing about you no one is going to message you to ask so think about what you want and what you can offer

Lastly, is something you can do nothing about, age may be irrelevant to you but to many (not all of course) yours will be a big factor as to why your struggling, fact is most got want to fuck someone young enough to be their child or old enough to be their parents. I'm

Only 31 and you'd be too young for me as you're younger than my little brother and I personally find that a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea i see where your coming from but like still some people here are like oh i only look for good hung guys and then your like sorry but bitch please your far from fit yet you expect something like that "

don't message them if yoou dont fancy them?

got a feeling you'll be unlos anyway soon.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Ah. I rescind my earlier advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Like totally this like innit

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I'd start by making a profile.

Your one cock pic is never ever going to get you laid.

I wouldn't even read your message after clicking on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to being polite and reasonable?!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Maybe this kind of attitude is the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, call us bitches, that always works

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies i really appreciate it for the feedback

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

What happened to being polite and reasonable?!

Apperently it only applies if he agrees with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say this op,but when i was your age,i was out with mates meeting people in pubs and clubs,not on a swinging site.Theres plenty of time for this in the future,get out there and enjoy yourself because believe me it flies by.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do think some guys come on here, and see that most of us aren't model material and are 'average', then think phwaor bet their desperate for cock being that fugly.

so all they do is shove their cock at us.

then find out we aren't as desperate as they first thought but think there's something wrong with us and never think they are the problem themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Alright im sorry for the bitch part i dont mean everyone its just you do get those and again sorry if i hurt someones feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh, the dulcet sound of knickers dropping nationwide....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Alright im sorry for the bitch part i dont mean everyone its just you do get those and again sorry if i hurt someones feelings "

You haven't hurt anyone's feelings but that one post spoke volumes about your attitude towards women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alright im sorry for the bitch part i dont mean everyone its just you do get those and again sorry if i hurt someones feelings "

I have no feelings. I just think you revealed at least part of the reason you may be struggling if that's how you see women on here

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Alright im sorry for the bitch part i dont mean everyone its just you do get those and again sorry if i hurt someones feelings

You haven't hurt anyone's feelings but that one post spoke volumes about your attitude towards women. "

Yes to me all it said was its ok for me to come here and fuck whoever Im attracted to but those damn women can't do the same.

Heaven forbid women have standards too hey

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

At a guess OP, this isn't going the way that you were hoping for.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but love the forum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No sorry if thats the way i said it and that it pissed you off all im saying is that maybe dont always look for the looks like hey aint saying im innocent but i try thats what i was trying to say and again probably whatever say now will back fire so i truely apologise to everyone who doesnt agree with what and how i said something earlier on

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not here.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"...Yeah, call us bitches, that always works

I'll call you that if you want IT.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Ahhhh, the dulcet sound of knickers dropping nationwide.... "

I couldn't decide on which reply to the OP had me smiling the most..

I think this one.. By a knicker elastic

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Op, you're 18 that's not a crime we've all been there but it does mean that you're unlikely to have the life experience that allows you to realise that there really isn't a web site that you can sign up to and get sex handed to you at the click of a mouse.

Your age will go against you here but if you're serious about making a success take a couple of decent photos, write a good profile and send out some nice messages. It will take time but maybe if you join in the forums in some positive way, show some maturity and persevere you'll make a go of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So because you are not what she is looking for she is a bitch?

And then they wonder why they can't meet anyone.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

So because you are not what she is looking for she is a bitch?

And then they wonder why they can't meet anyone."

They?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitch please is a common internet saying. what pissed me off is the women shouldn't have standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, well done on heeding the advice given to you... But Jesus, use some punctuation on your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, well done on heeding the advice given to you... But Jesus, use some punctuation on your profile!"

And in your messages. You have not been out of school long - have you already forgotten all they taught you?!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Alright im sorry for the bitch part i dont mean everyone its just you do get those and again sorry if i hurt someones feelings

You haven't hurt anyone's feelings but that one post spoke volumes about your attitude towards women. "

^ this

OP, most of the women on here aren't daft. We can tell if you're only pretending to be, as you say, polite and reasonable to get what you want, but in fact have a totally different attitude to women. Of course, it makes it even easier when you announce it clearly and publicly, so thank you for that. We appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, your age is a huge factor as you're the same age as my son.

I think you'd have more luck offline and out in the real world or try tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the cock pic.

Put some nice tasteful clothed pic's.

You look angry on profile picture.

Negative attitude will do you no favours

I have been on here with the mrs for about 3 years.

Mate I haven't played with a single woman!

Start by asking for socials first, don't start the whole want to meet up Crap as soon as someone replies to a message.

Get to some socials and chat with people show you are not just a "want a fuck now" type.

Don't be just another cock pic in the endless stream of cock pic's.

Talk to people.

But personally I think your age is the biggest factor.

But it shouldn't be the only reason people don't meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to say this op,but when i was your age,i was out with mates meeting people in pubs and clubs,not on a swinging site.Theres plenty of time for this in the future,get out there and enjoy yourself because believe me it flies by."

yep exactly this -

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By *r Lover 1987Man
over a year ago

manchester m22

Don't worry about it lady an just keep doing what your doing I'm in the same boat but it will happen when you least expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, your profile is really poor, if that isn't improved then I don't imagine you will get far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh, the dulcet sound of knickers dropping nationwide.... "

This made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's why you're getting no where..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said my dear

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

How very rude !!... name calling will not get you anywhere .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 and on a swinging site, I guess a lot of people view swinging as a quick avenue to some easy sex. I'd suggest the local pubs and clubs would have easier pickings at 18!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Primeguy

I really don't feel you have anything positive to offer the site to put it bluntly.

The majority of us on here have lots of life experience and are relatively sexually experienced too.

Maybe go play the field, grow a pair and learn to respect 'bitches' then try again in several years time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Primeguy

I really don't feel you have anything positive to offer the site to put it bluntly.

The majority of us on here have lots of life experience and are relatively sexually experienced too.

Maybe go play the field, grow a pair and learn to respect 'bitches' then try again in several years time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your haircut OP

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

You don't need to meet many here, just a few quality meets to establish your

inner circle.....just use this site as a platform , parties are the way forward to

make connection

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Remember fella...one of these 'bhitches' might be your mum.

My usual advice ..

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives...happy reading .

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Advice one cock pic no matter how big the cock is not going to attract the ladies and couples

Also your age is a factor as well

I would say have a look at other guys photos and remember - Coke cans, Sky remotes and cucumbers and toilet seats are not attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, it's all been said but here goes...put your profile through Grammerly and get some punctuation.

Your profile pic reminds me of every facebook photo of my baby cousin's. What works on a seventeen year old girl isn't going to work on a swinging site. We all grew out of the moody pouting stage. So a slightly different tack is needed - smiling face shot, couple of torso shots, pop your cock shot into private.

Finally, yeah, age. Tough one. Like many on here, I was tearing up the pub/club scene at your age, working my way through the best looking guys and gals out there and having a laugh. (I believe the term for me was slapper

) You're not a bad looking lad - go out and enjoy yourself!

With regards your earlier 'bitch pleeze' message - it's a generational thing guys. It again read like a young lad fronting, as rejection isn't something you may have experienced much of yet. This site will certainly help you gain that experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punctuation

Age

Lack of pics

Attitude

You're one of a gazzilion blokes

All of these will be going against you in one way or another.

Serious question, what is it about fab swingers that actually attracts you? For most, us included, it's a lifestyle choice we made after years of being together and years of discovering ourselves and our likes.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"Love your haircut OP "
not just the women with bitchy comments on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was here before but no meets so i gave it a break yet still nothing it might just be me having bad luck "

Yep, you're right, I'm sure it's just bad luck.

That'd be it.....

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

The more advice given, the harder it will be for others to distinguish between the good and the bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave up long ago, Sorry to say this site has gone down in quality, There use to be some horny people on here with sense of humors, but not any more, Most have gone now this site is full of single males, overweight and crude people, Each to there own but not our thing really anymore. Even Fabs seem to be struggling to put innovative things on here now, To many fake profiles , 20 minute young girls, 18/19 with phone photos as profile pictures, I dont really think this will get posted, its meant to be a constructive criticism, There are lots of things they could do to liven up this site , they should have a Suggestion box, rant over Sorry if i have upset anyone,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, it's all been said but here goes...put your profile through Grammerly and get some punctuation.

) You're not a bad looking lad - go out and enjoy yourself!

Excellent advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, it's all been said but here goes...put your profile through Grammerly and get some punctuation.

) You're not a bad looking lad - go out and enjoy yourself!

Perfectly put... and very 'kind' too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without trying to sound like your older brother and in trying to give you some positivity after the deservedly rough banter you've had on here,here's my two penneth worth.

Your a single male,so you are going to have to work that much harder to even catch someone's eye in the first place.

So a decent profile picture and remember sometimes less is more,and get some cool threads too...clothes maketh the man.

Cock photos,they have their place,but in friends only(and not of your socks and pants in the same piccie-I'm a bloke and I cringed,imagine what the hot girl your lusting after is thinking!)

Manners also make the man and speaks volumes to experienced women you are going to meet on here.

Perseverance and politeness will win the day for you.

Maybe don't see this as the only way of meeting those you wish to,just as an additional string to your bow.

Good luck buddy,take it on the chin and learn from the actually rather lovely people you'll chat to on here,because they really do know the score

Mr C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gave up long ago, Sorry to say this site has gone down in quality, There use to be some horny people on here with sense of humors, but not any more, Most have gone now this site is full of single males, overweight and crude people, Each to there own but not our thing really anymore. Even Fabs seem to be struggling to put innovative things on here now, To many fake profiles , 20 minute young girls, 18/19 with phone photos as profile pictures, I dont really think this will get posted, its meant to be a constructive criticism, There are lots of things they could do to liven up this site , they should have a Suggestion box, rant over Sorry if i have upset anyone,"

Filters. Filters. Filters. And filters.

Just exclude the people who you're not interested in.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback

I'll apologise in advance for not being horny or humerous enough for you.

Can't do much about being a single male, unless you'd like me to delete my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I strongly recommend that you remove your socks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This. Your only a young lad. Get out with Yeh mates. At your age I was having the time of my life. Wish I was young again. My god the memories

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not upset but why should the site be run just your way with people only you'd like to meet on it? Because that's exactly what that little rant sounded like you're saying so I'd say your the ones that are actually upset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the humour certainly has nt gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your status says 'this site is getting boring' - why stay? Why do something boring? Leave and do something more interesting. I would. Don't put yourself through it, if it's not fun, don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the humour certainly has nt gone

This.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's erm....

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Op

Without trying to sound like your older brother and in trying to give you some positivity after the deservedly rough banter you've had on here,here's my two penneth worth.

Your a single male,so you are going to have to work that much harder to even catch someone's eye in the first place.

So a decent profile picture and remember sometimes less is more,and get some cool threads too...clothes maketh the man.

Cock photos,they have their place,but in friends only(and not of your socks and pants in the same piccie-I'm a bloke and I cringed,imagine what the hot girl your lusting after is thinking!)

Manners also make the man and speaks volumes to experienced women you are going to meet on here.

Perseverance and politeness will win the day for you.

Maybe don't see this as the only way of meeting those you wish to,just as an additional string to your bow.

Good luck buddy,take it on the chin and learn from the actually rather lovely people you'll chat to on here,because they really do know the score

Mr C

Well said

Particularly about the socks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be rude about people though?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned..... "

To be honest this site, this time around has been complete rubish, only two socials and no physical meets in nearly a year.

I've made lovely friends through the forum but all are too far away to meet. No one local seems interested.

That said, Fab had been brilliant in the past and I believe that it will be again, which is why I stay, continue to enjoy the forums and the profile perving - keep the faith!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are on are funny their profile will say horny looking for meets but 9 months on veris not even photo veri. I think 80% of the people on here are on here as a fantasy not real swingers.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned.....

To be honest this site, this time around has been complete rubish, only two socials and no physical meets in nearly a year.

I've made lovely friends through the forum but all are too far away to meet. No one local seems interested.

That said, Fab had been brilliant in the past and I believe that it will be again, which is why I stay, continue to enjoy the forums and the profile perving - keep the faith!"

It's not the meets I have issues with - as a single female I get too much attention at times - it's other stuff I'm disillusioned with..... Having my pictures stolen and used on someone else's profile and the lack of concern about that happening was definitely a key moment though.....

I hope you find some more local meets - as you said you know it's not always the same - it's dips and troughs for us all - I'm sure it'll improve with patience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned.....

To be honest this site, this time around has been complete rubish, only two socials and no physical meets in nearly a year.

I've made lovely friends through the forum but all are too far away to meet. No one local seems interested.

That said, Fab had been brilliant in the past and I believe that it will be again, which is why I stay, continue to enjoy the forums and the profile perving - keep the faith!

I hope you find some more local meets - as you said you know it's not always the same - it's dips and troughs for us all - I'm sure it'll improve with patience x"

I've had photos stolen.

I found it a tad funny as I didn't think mine were "stealable".

Obviously it's irritating as that's my arse the person was claiming to have but yeah, could be worse!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned.....

To be honest this site, this time around has been complete rubish, only two socials and no physical meets in nearly a year.

I've made lovely friends through the forum but all are too far away to meet. No one local seems interested.

That said, Fab had been brilliant in the past and I believe that it will be again, which is why I stay, continue to enjoy the forums and the profile perving - keep the faith!

I hope you find some more local meets - as you said you know it's not always the same - it's dips and troughs for us all - I'm sure it'll improve with patience x

I've had photos stolen.

I found it a tad funny as I didn't think mine were "stealable".

Obviously it's irritating as that's my arse the person was claiming to have but yeah, could be worse!

People can use whatever photos they like but in my experience the more discreet you are with them the more likely they are to be stolen as they are less recognisable to others

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned.....

To be honest this site, this time around has been complete rubish, only two socials and no physical meets in nearly a year.

I've made lovely friends through the forum but all are too far away to meet. No one local seems interested.

That said, Fab had been brilliant in the past and I believe that it will be again, which is why I stay, continue to enjoy the forums and the profile perving - keep the faith!

I hope you find some more local meets - as you said you know it's not always the same - it's dips and troughs for us all - I'm sure it'll improve with patience x"

Blimey HP, after all that, I'm impressed that you've stayed! I hope that you find the trust again in this site (and show your profile once more)

Fab is made great by the good people that use it and enjoy it.

I've all the patience in the world - my life is 100% sexless, Fab gives me hope! x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Try being on here 9 years!? You know how it works then, although currently very disillusioned.....

To be honest this site, this time around has been complete rubish, only two socials and no physical meets in nearly a year.

I've made lovely friends through the forum but all are too far away to meet. No one local seems interested.

That said, Fab had been brilliant in the past and I believe that it will be again, which is why I stay, continue to enjoy the forums and the profile perving - keep the faith!

I hope you find some more local meets - as you said you know it's not always the same - it's dips and troughs for us all - I'm sure it'll improve with patience x

I've had photos stolen.

I found it a tad funny as I didn't think mine were "stealable".

Obviously it's irritating as that's my arse the person was claiming to have but yeah, could be worse!

I accepted the compliment of having them stolen but what if they published them elsewhere and I didn't know? They could be anywhere right now..... Google and tinyeye hardly cover anything.

Maybe it's my own fault for having face pics on - but it really upset me. They took several and i started to think well if they have, has anyone else?! I've been page 1 of hot photos more than once so some people obviously think my pics are reasonable I guess!

I'm about to have some major surgery though and I think its making me consider a few things.... Right now I just don't think fab is worth it for me. I have regular partners and the bullshit is getting tiring

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By *un beforeMan
over a year ago

london colney

Been on over a year , but don't expect any meets as am overweight , and nearly fifty and only very average in looks . Not bitter at all , is always in life the ladies/couples choice .

Only disappointment is the amount of false couple profiles , pushy demand men/couples in chat , as give single men there a bad rep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from fit? Yet you were trying to meet them?

Just because you don't find someone attractive doesn't mean that others won't. I find a sour self entitled whiney attitude to be ugly and a turn off. No matter who it's from or how they look.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Been on over a year , but don't expect any meets as am overweight , and nearly fifty and only very average in looks . Not bitter at all , is always in life the ladies/couples choice .

Only disappointment is the amount of false couple profiles , pushy demand men/couples in chat , as give single men there a bad rep "

Bald and overweight guys can still get meets on the site, dependent partly on having a positive attitude, which is always more attractive.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Been on over a year , but don't expect any meets as am overweight , and nearly fifty and only very average in looks . Not bitter at all , is always in life the ladies/couples choice .

Only disappointment is the amount of false couple profiles , pushy demand men/couples in chat , as give single men there a bad rep "

Other people's opinions on single guys certainly don't shape my view of them so how exactly does their behaviour give all single guys a bad reputation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on over a year , but don't expect any meets as am overweight , and nearly fifty and only very average in looks . Not bitter at all , is always in life the ladies/couples choice .

Only disappointment is the amount of false couple profiles , pushy demand men/couples in chat , as give single men there a bad rep This we get 10 messages a day off single guys and sometimes only one of interest does nt mean we block them

Other people's opinions on single guys certainly don't shape my view of them so how exactly does their behaviour give all single guys a bad reputation? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can console yourself op that this thread has attracted comments from a large number of wise, witty and wonderful people.

Shame we can't all meet up.

We could call it the www club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alright im sorry for the bitch part i dont mean everyone its just you do get those and again sorry if i hurt someones feelings

You haven't hurt anyone's feelings but that one post spoke volumes about your attitude towards women. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 18 ffs... get going to pubs and nightclubs and chatting women up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I think the OP comes across as having a very poor attitude, I do take issue with these 'when I was your age' type comments.

1. You say that when you were 18, you were meeting people in pubs and clubs, not through swinging sites.

You list your respective ages as 47 and 51, meaning that you were both 18 during the 1980s. At that time, the Internet as we know it today DID NOT EXIST, so you wouldn't have been able to access sites like this, even if you'd wanted to.

Also, I think you'll find that a large proportion of 18-21 year olds are sick to death of being told to stick to going to pubs, or that they should meet people in nightclubs like 'normal' people their age. Not all 18 year-olds are interested in getting shit-faced on a Saturday night...

2. You say that the OP should 'get out there and enjoy himself' while he has the time, and that 'there's plenty of time for this' when he's older. Why should the OP's age mean that he has less of a right to 'enjoy himself' by getting involved in the swinging scene?

In fact, you advertise that you are looking for couples and single women who are older that 20, so your tactic of attacking the OP's age seems to be somewhat hypocritical...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 18. Get to town with your mates

Your status saying your bored is an instant turn off

Cock photo with socks on? Get some nicely done sexy photos ( look at lucasstrander) best sexy photos without giving too much away

Smile in your profile pic

Put some humour into your profile and less negativity

Don't come on forums spitting your dummy out

Get photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Internet sites the new "grab a granny" well remember my second sexual experience being with a 45 year old lady and she said "you re fit but a bit clumsy sweetheart "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 17 forgot to say

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

You say in your profile that you are not new.

Were you on here before?

What was it like last time for you?"
his only 18 now so how old was he before

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As much as I think the OP comes across as having a very poor attitude, I do take issue with these 'when I was your age' type comments.

1. You say that when you were 18, you were meeting people in pubs and clubs, not through swinging sites.

In fact, you advertise that you are looking for couples and single women who are older that 20, so your tactic of attacking the OP's age seems to be somewhat hypocritical..."

You've just broken forum rules as this poster didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued

And while the Internet may not have been prominent in the 80s the swinging scene and clubs very much were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are on are funny their profile will say horny looking for meets but 9 months on veris not even photo veri. I think 80% of the people on here are on here as a fantasy not real swingers."

It's not always that easy though, we don't get many opportunities to play and find that the people we want to meet aren't free when we are looking, but we get lots of offers when we can't meet.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Been on over a year , but don't expect any meets as am overweight , and nearly fifty and only very average in looks . Not bitter at all , is always in life the ladies/couples choice .

Only disappointment is the amount of false couple profiles , pushy demand men/couples in chat , as give single men there a bad rep

Other people's opinions on single guys certainly don't shape my view of them so how exactly does their behaviour give all single guys a bad reputation? "

This is a tired old argument wheeled out by guys not doing as well as they'd hoped to on the site, usually with a two-line profile and dodgy photos taken in a bathroom, blaming everybody else for their lack of replies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're 18 ffs... get going to pubs and nightclubs and chatting women up there

Oh yes, because all 18-year-olds enjoy getting d*unk and picking up women in clubs and pubs.

This is what pisses me off about the current attitude towards teens and young adults.

On the one hand, the media portrays the generations born after 1990 as being comprised of unsophisticated yobs who spend their weekends getting pissed and desperately looking to shag themselves senseless.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"You're 18 ffs... get going to pubs and nightclubs and chatting women up there

Oh yes, because all 18-year-olds enjoy getting d*unk and picking up women in clubs and pubs.

This is what pisses me off about the current attitude towards teens and young adults.

It's their opinion and they're entitled to it

you do realise you can go out with mates and not get steaming d*unk and still enjoy yourself, also regardless of age, you're making just as much of an assumption about them as they are of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're 18 ffs... get going to pubs and nightclubs and chatting women up there

Oh yes, because all 18-year-olds enjoy getting d*unk and picking up women in clubs and pubs.

This is what pisses me off about the current attitude towards teens and young adults.

However, whenever someone under the age of 25 tries to make an effort to break with that stereotype, they're met with responses like this one. 'You're too young. Why aren't you out clubbing and getting d*unk Iike a 'normal' person your age?'"
lol no every 18 year old should be at university on an apprenticeship and definitely on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've just broken forum rules as this poster didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued

And while the Internet may not have been prominent in the 80s the swinging scene and clubs very much were. "

My point was that swinging sites such as this did not exist when the respondent was the OP's age, invalidating their 'when I was your age' comment.

I took it to be common knowledge that 'the swinging scene and clubs were highly active in the 1980s.' After all swinging has been popular since the 1960s, and has its roots in the Victorian and Edwardian era...

Also, i think you'll find that I did not 'critique' the respondent's profile. I merely observed that their stated age range for meets had it's lower bound set at 20, contradicting their implication that the OP should 'wait until he's older' to get involved in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so why on earth would you be interested in someone who is 'far from fit'. Or is that just the way you retaliate to rejection?

Secondly if women have rejected you because they 'only look for good hung guys', then take down the picture of your cock and they won't know how hung you are. There's no point in showing off you cock if women reject you because of it (I actually think it's a good size, but I always delete a message from a profile that is only represented by a cock).

And thirdly, I agree with other posters. I don't think an 18 year old will have much success on the swing scene. And it's easy for your age group to get sex elsewhere anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their opinion and they're entitled to it

you do realise you can go out with mates and not get steaming d*unk and still enjoy yourself, also regardless of age, you're making just as much of an assumption about them as they are of others "

My general point still stands.

Why does the fact that the OP is 18 years old mean that he should limit himself to meeting people in 'pubs and nightclubs'?

I was objecting to the 'you're 18 ffs...you should be behaving like this' attitude,

As I said, 18-21 year olds are constantly told that they should be 'going out to pubs and clubs like 'normal' people their age,' and then, as a result of the behaviour of a minority, they are stereotyped as d*unken louts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love your haircut OP not just the women with bitchy comments on here"

Actually, for once, it was a genuine comment, I do love his haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure how long I've had an account for , as I've used this site to meet new people due to my circumstances, at first I wansnt looking for sex, got to meet a few people who introduced me to other people and since then I've had meets and got more meets planned,

At your age one would like to suggest it's sounds like you fall into the category of every other youngster nowadays where you want everything given to you on a plate without you having to do anything yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol no every 18 year old should be at university on an apprenticeship and definitely on a swinging site

Appreciate the sarcasm, but I ask again. Why should the OP's age dictate their right to be on this site, rather than his attitude?

It seems to me, at least from the posts that I read on the forums, that there is still a strong belief that people under the age of 25 are 'too young' to swing, and that people over the age of 60 are 'past it.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their opinion and they're entitled to it

you do realise you can go out with mates and not get steaming d*unk and still enjoy yourself, also regardless of age, you're making just as much of an assumption about them as they are of others

My general point still stands.

Why does the fact that the OP is 18 years old mean that he should limit himself to meeting people in 'pubs and nightclubs'?

I was objecting to the 'you're 18 ffs...you should be behaving like this' attitude,

Why does it mean they're d*unken louts? You're getting a bee in your bonnet for nothing. Nobody said that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hopefully the OP will consider what's been said and decide if he needs to change anything.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's their opinion and they're entitled to it

you do realise you can go out with mates and not get steaming d*unk and still enjoy yourself, also regardless of age, you're making just as much of an assumption about them as they are of others

My general point still stands.

Why does the fact that the OP is 18 years old mean that he should limit himself to meeting people in 'pubs and nightclubs'?

I was objecting to the 'you're 18 ffs...you should be behaving like this' attitude,

Why does it mean they're d*unken louts? You're getting a bee in your bonnet for nothing. Nobody said that

He has an habit of getting a bee in his bonnet trying to defend people from twats while acting as much of a twat

himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We been on for 4 weeks we have talked to loads of really nice people(a few crazies lol) made freindships that i see continuing outside of fab for a long time have had a social meet and have a couple of meets planned, we have had loads of proposed meets that we have declined due to differing wants and needs but on the whole i think if you put yourself out there engage in the forums and above all be nice and respectfull this is a fantastic site with allot of fantastic people personally my only regret is that we didnt sign up years ago haha

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's their opinion and they're entitled to it

you do realise you can go out with mates and not get steaming d*unk and still enjoy yourself, also regardless of age, you're making just as much of an assumption about them as they are of others

My general point still stands.

Why does the fact that the OP is 18 years old mean that he should limit himself to meeting people in 'pubs and nightclubs'?

I was objecting to the 'you're 18 ffs...you should be behaving like this' attitude,

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sorry if thats the way i said it and that it pissed you off all im saying is that maybe dont always look for the looks like hey aint saying im innocent but i try thats what i was trying to say and again probably whatever say now will back fire so i truely apologise to everyone who doesnt agree with what and how i said something earlier on "

So u expect us ladies to fuck guys we aren't attracted to do u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their opinion and they're entitled to it

you do realise you can go out with mates and not get steaming d*unk and still enjoy yourself, also regardless of age, you're making just as much of an assumption about them as they are of others

My general point still stands.

Why does the fact that the OP is 18 years old mean that he should limit himself to meeting people in 'pubs and nightclubs'?

I was objecting to the 'you're 18 ffs...you should be behaving like this' attitude,

Why does it mean they're d*unken louts? You're getting a bee in your bonnet for nothing. Nobody said that

He has an habit of getting a bee in his bonnet trying to defend people from twats while acting as much of a twat

himself

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"You've just broken forum rules as this poster didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued

And while the Internet may not have been prominent in the 80s the swinging scene and clubs very much were.

My point was that swinging sites such as this did not exist when the respondent was the OP's age, invalidating their 'when I was your age' comment.

I think toll find that his critiquing his profile as that is evaluating the implications of his age range

Wether sites existed or not the scene still did and the poster obviously chose not to engage in it until he'd gained other life experiences that's essentially the point he was making to the OP

And of course the OP could get out and experience the scene first hand if it genuinely interests him by going to a clubs instead of relying on a website. It would help him to gain adequate experience of the scene and to get himself across hopefully better as he's already proved wording things online doesnt always do a person justice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol no every 18 year old should be at university on an apprenticeship and definitely on a swinging site

Appreciate the sarcasm, but I ask again. Why should the OP's age dictate their right to be on this site, rather than his attitude?

An 18 year has every right to pursue fun via this site, just as much as anybody else. And those that feel that 18 is too young for them, have every right to make that decision. It is harder for men under a certain age on this particular website.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

This is going well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is going well..."

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

yep exactly this - "

Seems that little snippet of advice has made someone else think.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Statement says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've just broken forum rules as this poster didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued

And while the Internet may not have been prominent in the 80s the swinging scene and clubs very much were.

My point was that swinging sites such as this did not exist when the respondent was the OP's age, invalidating their 'when I was your age' comment.

I think toll find that his critiquing his profile as that is evaluating the implications of his age range

Wether sites existed or not the scene still did and the poster obviously chose not to engage in it until he'd gained other life experiences that's essentially the point he was making to the OP

arent most clubs 21 and over so how would he get into one being under 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I find this whole post ridiculous and the OP to be quite irritating and rude towards women. Granted he apologised but he shouldn't call anyone on here a "bitch" even if it is young person vernacular it's still not polite.

"does anyone else start to give up on this site"

It made zero sense from the start and I don't think it's an age thing but a lack of experience on etiquette thing (which is obviously linked to age)!

Good luck OP and don't call people names.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"You've just broken forum rules as this poster didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued

And while the Internet may not have been prominent in the 80s the swinging scene and clubs very much were.

My point was that swinging sites such as this did not exist when the respondent was the OP's age, invalidating their 'when I was your age' comment.

I think toll find that his critiquing his profile as that is evaluating the implications of his age range

Wether sites existed or not the scene still did and the poster obviously chose not to engage in it until he'd gained other life experiences that's essentially the point he was making to the OP

arent most clubs 21 and over so how would he get into one being under 21"

Key word there being most not all he'd need to do his research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt say i gave up. i just realized what i wanted and Fab isnt the answer

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's also learning how to interact successfully. School's never out, OP

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Wow o.O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice one cock pic no matter how big the cock is not going to attract the ladies and couples

Also your age is a factor as well

I would say have a look at other guys photos and remember - Coke cans, Sky remotes and cucumbers and toilet seats are not attractive

.. Shadows are where it's at

Lol yep yep one cock pic won't win any women it'll just get you called a cock ....... Unless your Orlando bloom , his cock shot seems to be dropping a lot off knickers this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I said, 18-21 year olds are constantly told that they should be 'going out to pubs and clubs like 'normal' people their age,' and then, as a result of the behaviour of a minority, they are stereotyped as d*unken louts...

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts"

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is going well..."

Mystic Meg couldn't have predicted it any better....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion."

What's a newspaper?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion."

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol no every 18 year old should be at university on an apprenticeship and definitely on a swinging site

Appreciate the sarcasm, but I ask again. Why should the OP's age dictate their right to be on this site, rather than his attitude?

As far as I'm concerned, the primary qualification for membership of this site should be your attitude and approach. Obviously, the OP is displaying a poor attitude and needs to learn, but if he can amend his behaviour, why should he not have a right to be here?"
sarcastic yes the point is generalisation is nt fair on fab nobody has told him to get d*unk just get out and find fun

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further "

*stereo type damn auto correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has an habit of getting a bee in his bonne trying to defend people from twats while acting as much of a twat himself "

You can call me a twat all you like...I couldn't care less.

As far as I'm concerned, I'll judge the OP on his attitude and personal conduct, nothing more or less. I fail to see why, because he is of a certain age, he should have his behaviour dictated too him, and told to limit his activities to an approved list.

He has just as much a right to be here as you, and unless he causes offence, here he shall remain. 'Go he should if her were the devil himself until he broke the law.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct "

I wasn't using their take on the subject; I was pointing out why the OP might wish to avoid following commentators' advice and 'spending time in pubs and clubs.' Perchance he wishes to avoid being stereotyped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He did cause offence.. see above "bitch" comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has an habit of getting a bee in his bonne trying to defend people from twats while acting as much of a twat himself

You can call me a twat all you like...I couldn't care less.

He has just as much a right to be here as you, and unless he causes offence, here he shall remain. 'Go he should if her were the devil himself until he broke the law.'"

So "bitch" is now officially off the offensive list?

Thank God twat isn't.....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"He has an habit of getting a bee in his bonne trying to defend people from twats while acting as much of a twat himself

You can call me a twat all you like...I couldn't care less.

He has just as much a right to be here as you, and unless he causes offence, here he shall remain. 'Go he should if her were the devil himself until he broke the law.'"

I think you'll find he's already demonstrated the attitude stereotypical of his age range, and that though he apologised he did say something quite offensive to many yet you ceased to comment on that so you clearly aren't commenting on his personal conduct are you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"He has an habit of getting a bee in his bonne trying to defend people from twats while acting as much of a twat himself

You can call me a twat all you like...I couldn't care less.

He has just as much a right to be here as you, and unless he causes offence, here he shall remain. 'Go he should if her were the devil himself until he broke the law.'

So "bitch" is now officially off the offensive list?

Thank God twat isn't....."

Deoends on the context in which its used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

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over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect! "

That made me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

Doesn't matter he will be judged and stereotyped many types in his life as its human nature for people to do that he might as well learn that and how to rise above it quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

That made me

And that's a compliment, as you're quite witty Markoh...*quick witted persons should unite*

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"not homophobic and if your gay or bi thats fine by me as long as you dont try to involve me in it"

Hahah do you think gay/bi people force straight people to 'get involved'?

Hahah

Sounds like your in denial and sounds like you dream of sucking big willies my young friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

And why would most women want to sleep with someone young enough to be their kid or a younger relative or even to teach someone how to please them hence why some posters have suggested to go out and get experience etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

That made me

And that's a compliment, as you're quite witty Markoh...*quick witted persons should unite* "

It was intended as such.

We should have our own website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""not homophobic and if your gay or bi thats fine by me as long as you dont try to involve me in it"

Hahah do you think gay/bi people force straight people to 'get involved'?

Hahah

Sounds like your in denial and sounds like you dream of sucking big willies my young friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

That made me

And that's a compliment, as you're quite witty Markoh...*quick witted persons should unite*

It was intended as such.

We should have our own website.

Markoh and Harlot Show

too much?

*blushes at my name in lights*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it. The OP is just obnoxious.

Maybe my view is skewed by the lack of grammar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

That made me

And that's a compliment, as you're quite witty Markoh...*quick witted persons should unite*

It was intended as such.

We should have our own website.

Markoh and Harlot Show

too much?

*blushes at my name in lights*"

Maybe a blend, Marlot or Harloh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

That made me

And that's a compliment, as you're quite witty Markoh...*quick witted persons should unite*

It was intended as such.

We should have our own website.

Markoh and Harlot Show

too much?

*blushes at my name in lights*

Maybe a blend, Marlot or Harloh?

Like Brangelina......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you'll find he's already demonstrated the attitude stereotypical of his age range, and that though he apologised he did say something quite offensive to many yet you ceased to comment on that so you clearly aren't commenting on his personal conduct are you "

And I think you'll find that I have already acknowledged the fact that the OP has demonstrated his bad attitude and has offended people.

My point is that his behaviour alone should be sufficient to condemn him, and that it is irresponsible to claim that such behaviour is 'stereotypical of his age range.'

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

And I think you'll find that I have already acknowledged the fact that the OP has demonstrated his bad attitude and has offended people.

My point is that his behaviour alone should be sufficient to condemn him, and that it is irresponsible to claim that such behaviour is 'stereotypical of his age range.'"

By all means please bump up the post where I missed you're take on his attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate have you tried www.fitbitchesforacnekids

Pwoper sorts gagging for like any cocks

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

And I think you'll find that I have already acknowledged the fact that the OP has demonstrated his bad attitude and has offended people.

My point is that his behaviour alone should be sufficient to condemn him, and that it is irresponsible to claim that such behaviour is 'stereotypical of his age range.'

By all means please bump up the post where I missed you're take on his attitude "

*your FFS between tiredness and autocorrect I'm having a grammatically bad day today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I think you'll find that I have already acknowledged the fact that the OP has demonstrated his bad attitude and has offended people.

My point is that his behaviour alone should be sufficient to condemn him, and that it is irresponsible to claim that such behaviour is 'stereotypical of his age range.'"

In some respects I agree with this (ie his behaviour to be condemned and not just his age) but I wouldn't say it's irresponsible.. I think it's naive to expect all 18 year olds to understand forum / lifestyle etiquette (and thus act accordingly) compared to a 48 year old who's been on the scene since being 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why would most women want to sleep with someone young enough to be their kid or a younger relative or even to teach someone how to please them hence why some posters have suggested to go out and get experience etc"

I respect the fact that you personally would feel uncomfortable sleeping with someone 'young enough to be your kid or a younger relative.'

However, there are a great number of users who are perfectly comfortable with such a scenario; I myself have met and played with women and men or all ages.

I am not saying that anyone has a responsibility to 'teach' the OP anything, but the fact remains that he has just as much a right to be here as anyone else, and should be allowed to remain unless his conduct proves intolerable.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

It seems the OP has long given up contributing to the thread...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

And I think you'll find that I have already acknowledged the fact that the OP has demonstrated his bad attitude and has offended people.

My point is that his behaviour alone should be sufficient to condemn him, and that it is irresponsible to claim that such behaviour is 'stereotypical of his age range.'

No one is condemning him for his age though hesxmerely taken it to mean they have.

And for someone that doesn't wants people to make assumptions and judgements of others he's doing a damn fine job of being an hypocrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Growing impatient? Took me a long time to get one meet and even longer to get another meet after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems the OP has long given up contributing to the thread..."

Must be busy. Even though it's school holidays? (Haha joking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By who? yourself as you're the only one referring to the ops age range as him being a d*unken louts

I take it that you don't read the tabloid press...the Red Top papers are constantly stereotyping the OP's generation in just suck a fashion.

I do I just don't use their take on the subject to form my opinion and to emphasise the strep type by highlighting it further

*stereo type damn auto correct

step back

further

no bit further

lil further

can't see you....*squints *

perfect!

That made me

And that's a compliment, as you're quite witty Markoh...*quick witted persons should unite*

It was intended as such.

We should have our own website.

Markoh and Harlot Show

too much?

*blushes at my name in lights*

Maybe a blend, Marlot or Harloh?

Harloh....I'm saying it in a Jamaican accent for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By all means please bump up the post where I missed you're take on his attitude "

I have repeatedly stated that OP comes across as ignorant, displays a very poor attitude, and requires to amend his behaviour.

If I might paraphrase my previous point: "if he can prove himself able to learn and amend his behaviour, why should he not be allowed to remain on the site?"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It seems the OP has long given up contributing to the thread..."

Yes but most guys do after getting a bit of generic advice and more often than not, not acting on it, before coming back to make another thread on the subject further down the line

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"By all means please bump up the post where I missed you're take on his attitude

I have repeatedly stated that OP comes across as ignorant, displays a very poor attitude, and requires to amend his behaviour.

If I might paraphrase my previous point: "if he can prove himself able to learn and amend his behaviour, why should he not be allowed to remain on the site?""

That paraphrase still doesn't specifically point out the behaviour he needs to amend only now have you called him arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems the OP has long given up contributing to the thread...

Yes but most guys do after getting a bit of generic advice and more often than not, not acting on it, before coming back to make another thread on the subject further down the line "

Sounds accurate. See that kinda thing still happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is condemning him for his age though he's taken it to mean they have.

And for someone that doesn't wants people to make assumptions and judgements of others he's doing a damn fine job of being an hypocrite "

Oh, so the people on this thread making comments like: 'you're 18 ffs, you should be chatting up women in the pubs and clubs;' 'you'll have time for this when you're older;' or 'when I was your age, I wasn't on swinging sites, I was down the pub;' aren't making assumptions about the OP or stereotyping him according to his age?

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