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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy and I'm doing OK, problem is the ratio is so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should all be banned from the site. We're ruining it for everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a problem. Must be your attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because you're married. Meeting a cheater is not everyone's cup of tea

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish, we meet single guys. We've had private meets with 3 new guys this year. Considering we have repeat meets with all our male friends, plus attend parties regularly, surely that's enough to be getting on with? But I guess the guys we say no to, would say we don't meet.

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By *ovvzMan
over a year ago

trimdon

Ive never had one meet

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We meet plenty of single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem genuine guys have it the time wasting no shows put a lot of other folk from meeting single guys outside of the club party scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've has a few meets as a single guy, socials as well but I guess you just have to be genuine and polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never had one meet"

You are looking for women to fulfil your high sex drive and entertain you. Most women are looking for mutual pleasure I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"

But your not single :-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never had one meet

You are looking for women to fulfil your high sex drive and entertain you. Most women are looking for mutual pleasure I guess "

Talk about a Me Me Me profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here for five years and never had a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never had one meet"

Do you think you haven't had a meet because you believe women don't meet?

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

OP maybe ask your wife how she feels about 'single' guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP maybe ask your wife how she feels about 'single' guys "

Maybe he is just concerned about all real single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you claim you want more than vanilla check the clubs and parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never had one meet"
your pics and profile are dire tbh check out the other threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.

I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:

A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs

B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area

C) my hair is to much for people

D) I am to skinny

E) I have facial hair

F) I am married

G) I struggle to accom all the time

H) i am ugly to that person.

I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.

As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).

Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues with meeting people here. I get more messages than I send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find it's hard but if your honest and polite you get there eventually. Only issues I have is other single males unwanted my tend to hound you at times, so I totally get why women and couples are so annoyed. It drives me mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"

I have two varis that say otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issue with single guys, all our meets have been with them, although we do prefer them to actually be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a problem. Must be your attitude"

Not always the attitude issue. Might just be down to luck. Plenty of guys on outnumbering women and couples too which is a big factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find it's hard but if your honest and polite you get there eventually. Only issues I have is other single males unwanted my tend to hound you at times, so I totally get why women and couples are so annoyed. It drives me mad "

And as if to prove my point im bombarded with messages from guys....... Lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"
rubbish...

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Maybe it's because you're married. Meeting a cheater is not everyone's cup of tea

Poppy"

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"

Tell your wife you are single...lol

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

To be honest this thread could have only gone worse if he'd have complained why the women weren't sleeping with him in some sort of MFFFF bareback gangbang!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?

Tell your wife you are single...lol"
lol well said

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"To be honest this thread could have only gone worse if he'd have complained why the women weren't sleeping with him in some sort of MFFFF bareback gangbang!"

...you know it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?

But your not single :-0 "

Therein lies the problem

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?

But your not single :-0

Therein lies the problem "
its not the problem for some of us, so speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"

Not exactly single are you pal!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do want to meet single men. What women don't wanna meet is a married man, sleeping behind his wife's back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do want to meet single men. What women don't wanna meet is a married man, sleeping behind his wife's back "

Some, Well quite a actually lot don't mind at all

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"

No one? The (Fab) straight men want to meet other men, including single and ones without face pics, both parties at that. Apparently.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx"

Well said Suzy

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx

Well said Suzy "
thank you gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx

Well said Suzy thank you gorgeous xx"

Gorgeous...et moi?

[Blushes]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx"

My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitable

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx

My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitable"
but thats not my business.i dont want to shack up and have babies....if i didnt sleep with married men id never meet couples..so whos to tell me who i can commit adultery with huh? no one thats who..cos its none of their business, until they want a unicorn for their own private fantasy party...pffft...performing seal, i am not in either, following rules that make no sense, listening to bullies tell me or others how to live or, shagging people who would grin and bear my immorality, to serve their own purposes..hypocrisy at its finest...

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We meet plenty of single guys but it is not so easy to find the genuine ones or indeed ones where there is an attraction for Jill ,

There are lots of fantasists on here who love the thought of meeting but the excuses keep coming as to why they are cancelling a meet , others just want a wank chat

Then there are those cheating in a relationship and there are those that just don't tick the boxes in any of our preferences .

But op there is someone for everyone it is a numbers game so just persevere .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx

My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitablebut thats not my business.i dont want to shack up and have babies....if i didnt sleep with married men id never meet couples..so whos to tell me who i can commit adultery with huh? no one thats who..cos its none of their business, until they want a unicorn for their own private fantasy party...pffft...performing seal, i am not in either, following rules that make no sense, listening to bullies tell me or others how to live or, shagging people who would grin and bear my immorality, to serve their own purposes..hypocrisy at its finest..."

I'm not saying you can't . Playing as a team, or with eachothers consent, I'm ok with that. I think it's awesome that they can happily live like that. But when people are in an unhappy relationship, and seek fun behind their partners back, that's when I don't exactly like it. Not because I don't think you should be cheating or anything. It's because you are staying in a situation that you clearly are not happy in. That's my morality.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I only meet single guys.

No couples and no married cheats

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"op everyone who is married gets this..so ignore the haters..personally i find that threads like this just collect together all the people i never what to meet for their superior moralistic bullying tendencies.

be well, be happy and enjoy your life..its yours and too short to be miserable xx

My moral is not saying it's wrong to sleep with people behind his wife's back. In all honesty, my moral is that if you aren't happy enough with someone you are monogymoua with, you should just leave them, instead of prolonging the inevitablebut thats not my business.i dont want to shack up and have babies....if i didnt sleep with married men id never meet couples..so whos to tell me who i can commit adultery with huh? no one thats who..cos its none of their business, until they want a unicorn for their own private fantasy party...pffft...performing seal, i am not in either, following rules that make no sense, listening to bullies tell me or others how to live or, shagging people who would grin and bear my immorality, to serve their own purposes..hypocrisy at its finest...

I'm not saying you can't . Playing as a team, or with eachothers consent, I'm ok with that. I think it's awesome that they can happily live like that. But when people are in an unhappy relationship, and seek fun behind their partners back, that's when I don't exactly like it. Not because I don't think you should be cheating or anything. It's because you are staying in a situation that you clearly are not happy in. That's my morality. "
i get you, but im not here to judge or make decisions for other peoples lives, that's not my place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joy of miscommunication perhaps?.

Honesty maybe is a better word.

Why not include his wife here,on this forum and see what he/she is after.

Maybe she feels the same and would welcome the added'angle' of thrill seeking.

A shame you think that I see single females as performing seals.

If I was not honest with my partner,and she with me....then neither of us would be here.

And I'm here at her behest.....that's trust for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?"

is that all single guys or just you in particular?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The joy of miscommunication perhaps?.

Honesty maybe is a better word.

Why not include his wife here,on this forum and see what he/she is after.

Maybe she feels the same and would welcome the added'angle' of thrill seeking.

A shame you think that I see single females as performing seals.

If I was not honest with my partner,and she with me....then neither of us would be here.

And I'm here at her behest.....that's trust for you."
i really dont care if you trust each other or not..again its none of my business..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the issue with Single guys. No one seems to want to meet them?

is that all single guys or just you in particular? "

oh hang on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a flying fuck! any 1 for scrabble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C "
because of the soldiers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.

I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:

A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs

B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area

C) my hair is to much for people

D) I am to skinny

E) I have facial hair

F) I am married

G) I struggle to accom all the time

H) i am ugly to that person.

I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.

As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).

Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help "

I'd meet you if we were closer!

You look/sound like a fun guy to have a drink with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C because of the soldiers ? "

Eerrr.....negative ghost rider,the pattern is full.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C "
its being rewritten at this time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C because of the soldiers ?

Eerrr.....negative ghost rider,the pattern is full."
roger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C its being rewritten at this time x"

Excellent

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like Woodbridge

Shame your profile is private.

Mr C because of the soldiers ?

Eerrr.....negative ghost rider,the pattern is full. roger"

Don't get me started!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy and I wish that women and couple can give guys a chance.

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By *anchester boy 55Man
over a year ago

Salford

Big hugs dick

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"I've never had a problem. Must be your attitude

Not always the attitude issue. Might just be down to luck. Plenty of guys on outnumbering women and couples too which is a big factor.

"

It is never ever just down to luck,playing the luck card hs such a cop out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.

I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:

A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs

B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area

C) my hair is to much for people

D) I am to skinny

E) I have facial hair

F) I am married

G) I struggle to accom all the time

H) i am ugly to that person.

I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.

As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).

Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help "

I'd meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single guys all the time. I'm just a bit picky, as I am off the site.

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is getting harder, think it's because there are more and more time wasters and strange people joining..

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

I can't complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest from what i've seen on fab , a lot of men will lay with anything that moves. So that's why quite a few people aren't complaining. Just be patient and good things will come your way. Be a gentleman and you will be rewarded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is getting harder, think it's because there are more and more time wasters and strange people joining..

"

No idea what the proportion of time wasters are, and we've never had the misfortune communicating with one. However if time wasters are on the up, you just need to keep you witts about you to avoid. That doesn't mean women and couples who meet are on the decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is getting harder, think it's because there are more and more time wasters and strange people joining..

No idea what the proportion of time wasters are, and we've never had the misfortune communicating with one. However if time wasters are on the up, you just need to keep you witts about you to avoid. That doesn't mean women and couples who meet are on the decline."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and I wish that women and couple can give guys a chance."

But Fab is not a charity. People don't join Fab to give people they are not attracted chances. They join Fab to meet their sexual needs are fantasies.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"It is getting harder, think it's because there are more and more time wasters and strange people joining..

"

My progress on the site has nothing to do with anyone but me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only want to meet single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only want to meet single guys. "

And I wish I stayed in Wales!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my wife both have a couples profile and single profiles, my wife loves single guys and will pick the ones that take her fancy.

I myself on my single profile struggle dramatically on fab because of several reasons:

A) my profile does not really portray me properly which has been discovered when bumping into people in clubs

B) I am to alternative for the single women in my area

C) my hair is to much for people

D) I am to skinny

E) I have facial hair

F) I am married

G) I struggle to accom all the time

H) i am ugly to that person.

I) I talk to much for them and it comes across as desperate when it's more my ADHD showing my enjoyment and enthusiasm of talking to someone I find interesting lol.

As you can see these are the most common reasons I do not do well as a single male on fab so don't take things to personally. There are times I hate this site and will be ignored deleted blocked or just rejected by over 50 people in a day even if it's just for a social. (Yes i tend to give the option for both).

Just keep moving forward and maybe try clubs and events. Mesaage people off the kit and see if you can strike up an accord before you get there. It can help

I'd meet you if we were closer!

You look/sound like a fun guy to have a drink with "

I love traveling for meets but alas your profile will not let me message you. Sad times all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues. I love them

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Treat it all with a realistic amount if indifference. It's a shag, not the end of the world.

It's an add on to an existing healthy sex life

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Of*

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"We should all be banned from the site. We're ruining it for everyone else.

"

Oooooooooohhhhhh no you shouldn't

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No problems here.

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