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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

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By *ecretBadgerMan
over a year ago

Redruth

There are lots of things I would like to try but a bit scared of doing... I plan to still do them as I am not completely afraid of them and nor should you be. Just make sure that the ground rules are set and that no means no.

Probably a little obvious and of no real help but good luck anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback anal.

Daren't.

Won't.

Still imagine I have cum inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is to go to a swinger club. I really wanna go, but I would feel awkward and just stand around, waiting for people to come and talk to me cause of social anxiety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to a club, I keep getting asked by a few women to go to a club with them, but I've heard too many stories about a certain club I'd just feel it would be a wasted journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent? "

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You're a stunning looking woman, so why be scared. MMF is brilliant, just make sure that you pick the right two Males. And enjoy it. xxx, Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also like to try that..... still as yet not plucked up the currage to do so.....

I did go to a club... but wasn't expressed.... I may try again at some point..

Would like to try dvp.... I've done that with a cock and vib....

But would like 2 cocks....

I still have a few more I would like to try....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would also like to try that..... still as yet not plucked up the currage to do so.....

I did go to a club... but wasn't expressed.... I may try again at some point..

Would like to try dvp.... I've done that with a cock and vib....

But would like 2 cocks....

I still have a few more I would like to try...."
inpressed

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

OP: scared physically or emotionally? What are your reservations about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to a club, I keep getting asked by a few women to go to a club with them, but I've heard too many stories about a certain club I'd just feel it would be a wasted journey."

Try a different club? I've been 2 two, atmosphere very different for each, both I'd visit again but 1 I definitely prefer ed over the other.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isnt anything i havent tried or willing to try with an openmind as long as its with someone i trust.

Some people are naturally fearful and that is understandable for me its all about exploring.

It just the way I view things i suppose

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By *aahMan
over a year ago

London

Could be good if you hook up with guys you know/have met a few times to build up trust, so you know you're in the same wavelength. Guys with know-how and experience without being too hardcore about it. For you to judge the three way chemistry.

Then just take your time, enjoy a long, unhurried evening with you at the centre of attention.

The result could be mind-blowingly good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is to go to a swinger club. I really wanna go, but I would feel awkward and just stand around, waiting for people to come and talk to me cause of social anxiety"

Would it help to remember there's probably lots there that feel the same way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

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You're a stunning looking woman, so why be scared. MMF is brilliant, just make sure that you pick the right two Males. And enjoy it. xxx, Mike"

That's so lovely of you, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP: scared physically or emotionally? What are your reservations about it?"

Both, I think. I'm concerned I'll be hurt physically and concerned I'll be upset afterwards, feeling used or similar. It's very complex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be good if you hook up with guys you know/have met a few times to build up trust, so you know you're in the same wavelength. Guys with know-how and experience without being too hardcore about it. For you to judge the three way chemistry.

Then just take your time, enjoy a long, unhurried evening with you at the centre of attention.

The result could be mind-blowingly good "

Good advice, thank you. I guess there's no need to rush right into it... Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny enough i get myself worked up about doing intimate 121 meets or meeting couples by myself.. there are times i think that with all the changes in what I like that I should listen to friends and partner and go for it... but then I scare myself out of it.

I really do get myself into a proper flap and upset.. so it doesn't happen. I then get all closed off and very mechanical wit guys for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*with not wit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why r u scared if u chose the right person to take part in ur fantasy they should make u feel relax enough to even explore and explode naturally

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent? "

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak ."

That doesn't appeal, I'm afraid. I have a hard time separating sex with someone in a regular basis, from emotions and having a regular fwb would be too difficult for me. If I like him enough to see him regularly, I'm unlikely to want to remain just friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, I think. I'm concerned I'll be hurt physically and concerned I'll be upset afterwards, feeling used or similar. It's very complex. "

There is the rub, good sex can be quite 'elemental' and spark all sorts of feelings.

The key thing is the three players must all be able to get along and be easy in each others company.

As to feeling used, perhaps plan a wind down activity as a transition so the mmf is just one part of the evening.

Happy Fabbing

Q

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both, I think. I'm concerned I'll be hurt physically and concerned I'll be upset afterwards, feeling used or similar. It's very complex.

There is the rub, good sex can be quite 'elemental' and spark all sorts of feelings.

The key thing is the three players must all be able to get along and be easy in each others company.

As to feeling used, perhaps plan a wind down activity as a transition so the mmf is just one part of the evening.

Happy Fabbing

Q

x

"

Great advice. Thank you

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak .

That doesn't appeal, I'm afraid. I have a hard time separating sex with someone in a regular basis, from emotions and having a regular fwb would be too difficult for me. If I like him enough to see him regularly, I'm unlikely to want to remain just friends. "

So that leaves you with a couple of options attend a private party and let it be know you are looking for mmf experience or look through guys profiles and find a tag team who specialise in mmf fun .if any emotion are brought up afterwards I'm sure any woman on here would gladly talk them through with you or a guy for that matter its often easier to talk to a stranger about such things anyway .

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak ."

Whole heartedly agree, the trust you would have in that friend would mean you would enjoy the experience so much more

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent? "

I had an MFM with a lovely lady that id been playing with for several months; this was something she'd always wanted to do so picked me and another guy (she also played with) to be the ones. I'd never met this man before but the lady had picked us because she felt we'd get on and we were physically the same. She was right, we had a great time, we both new what the woman enjoyed and we all had a good laugh together as well.

So, I'd say the secret is to be selective and eliminate your fears by having control over those area: if you know the guys already and have enjoyed play together then you'll be less worried about disappointing and them hurting you.

It was a lot of fun for me and I'm certain that it will be for you too!

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak .

That doesn't appeal, I'm afraid. I have a hard time separating sex with someone in a regular basis, from emotions and having a regular fwb would be too difficult for me. If I like him enough to see him regularly, I'm unlikely to want to remain just friends.

So that leaves you with a couple of options attend a private party and let it be know you are looking for mmf experience or look through guys profiles and find a tag team who specialise in mmf fun .if any emotion are brought up afterwards I'm sure any woman on here would gladly talk them through with you or a guy for that matter its often easier to talk to a stranger about such things anyway ."

Update to add seeing as you don't want fwb do it in a club or party where other people around or there are good profiles where men team together, read their veri's & if you feel vulnerable don't do bondage tying up activities

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak .

That doesn't appeal, I'm afraid. I have a hard time separating sex with someone in a regular basis, from emotions and having a regular fwb would be too difficult for me. If I like him enough to see him regularly, I'm unlikely to want to remain just friends.

So that leaves you with a couple of options attend a private party and let it be know you are looking for mmf experience or look through guys profiles and find a tag team who specialise in mmf fun .if any emotion are brought up afterwards I'm sure any woman on here would gladly talk them through with you or a guy for that matter its often easier to talk to a stranger about such things anyway ."

I've clearly given the impression I'm pretty thick. I'm really not, but thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advice. Thank you "

You are welcome. Glad to have been of assistance.

As a reward please tell me you have a lovely, posh-totty, cut glass accent to go with you ravishing looks.

Q

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak .

That doesn't appeal, I'm afraid. I have a hard time separating sex with someone in a regular basis, from emotions and having a regular fwb would be too difficult for me. If I like him enough to see him regularly, I'm unlikely to want to remain just friends.

So that leaves you with a couple of options attend a private party and let it be know you are looking for mmf experience or look through guys profiles and find a tag team who specialise in mmf fun .if any emotion are brought up afterwards I'm sure any woman on here would gladly talk them through with you or a guy for that matter its often easier to talk to a stranger about such things anyway .

I've clearly given the impression I'm pretty thick. I'm really not, but thanks. "

My intention was not to make you feel or look like you are thick my intention was purely to offer you options on how you might fulfil a fantasy of yours .

after all life's to unpredictable and short in my opinion to not pursue ones dreams and fantasies for all you worth and because I believe in that statement I was offering you advice that may help you fulfil your fantasy .

No offence was meant from my end .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great advice. Thank you

You are welcome. Glad to have been of assistance.

As a reward please tell me you have a lovely, posh-totty, cut glass accent to go with you ravishing looks.

Q

x"

Ask my verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone above mentioned looking for an established tag- team, maybe if you do that it's one less dynamic to concern yourself with.

As for being hurt- physically- you need to discuss any hard limits before hand and be clear and erm ease in to it! (Or them ease in to you, as it were!)

As for the emotional side- well you are the one with the power, really. You can chose to take control of it, or not?

I have the same fantasy and have my partner and another in mind.

Finding another lady to play with that will accept my limits And we find attractive is much harder, however x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ask my verifications "

You tease - saucy minx!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone above mentioned looking for an established tag- team, maybe if you do that it's one less dynamic to concern yourself with.

As for being hurt- physically- you need to discuss any hard limits before hand and be clear and erm ease in to it! (Or them ease in to you, as it were!)

As for the emotional side- well you are the one with the power, really. You can chose to take control of it, or not?

I have the same fantasy and have my partner and another in mind.

Finding another lady to play with that will accept my limits And we find attractive is much harder, however x"

There is absolutely no way to guarantee hard limits will be abided by. I like the idea of socials first, although I never have before, they're probably the nearest I'll get to feeling safer.

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By *aahMan
over a year ago

London

Why the block? Rather unnecessary when people are friendly and polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is on my fantasy list, but finding attractive willing people seems to be near impossible

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

I would suggest you find a true FWB who will chaperone and support you in any sexual activity you wish to explore .

If he's a true friend you can talk to him about how you feel after each adventure get it out in the open instead of it going around and around in your head he would be your support your trusted partner in crime so to speak ."
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent? "

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why the block? Rather unnecessary when people are friendly and polite

"

So I don't mistakenly message you, or you, me. Why bring to the forum when this topic had nothing to do with you messaging me? That's rhetorical, BTW

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it"

Thank you. Ya. I think so too.

Thanks all, even though I wasn't looking for advice, I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it

Thank you. Ya. I think so too.

Thanks all, even though I wasn't looking for advice, I appreciate it "

In answer to your question a ffm. This has been something I want to try once before I retire from life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it

Thank you. Ya. I think so too.

Thanks all, even though I wasn't looking for advice, I appreciate it

In answer to your question a ffm. This has been something I want to try once before I retire from life. "
and you're too scared?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it

Thank you. Ya. I think so too.

Thanks all, even though I wasn't looking for advice, I appreciate it

In answer to your question a ffm. This has been something I want to try once before I retire from life. and you're too scared? "

Yes, that is exactly what it is . Two vaginas that need satisfying. How could I cope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it

Thank you. Ya. I think so too.

Thanks all, even though I wasn't looking for advice, I appreciate it

In answer to your question a ffm. This has been something I want to try once before I retire from life. and you're too scared?

Yes, that is exactly what it is . Two vaginas that need satisfying. How could I cope."
ho ho ho

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent?

Key is trust. This is no means out of reach. When you find a person you connect with and trust them. You can then search for another. I have helped a girl in a similar situation and she really enjoyed it

Thank you. Ya. I think so too.

Thanks all, even though I wasn't looking for advice, I appreciate it

In answer to your question a ffm. This has been something I want to try once before I retire from life. "

Like herding cats, trying to organise an MFF...

I turned one down once though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone above mentioned looking for an established tag- team, maybe if you do that it's one less dynamic to concern yourself with.

As for being hurt- physically- you need to discuss any hard limits before hand and be clear and erm ease in to it! (Or them ease in to you, as it were!)

As for the emotional side- well you are the one with the power, really. You can chose to take control of it, or not?

I have the same fantasy and have my partner and another in mind.

Finding another lady to play with that will accept my limits And we find attractive is much harder, however x

There is absolutely no way to guarantee hard limits will be abided by. I like the idea of socials first, although I never have before, they're probably the nearest I'll get to feeling safer. "

There is no guarantee but if your selection process is up to scratch it should be minimal!

You should come and play with me , my fella and another nice man I know!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Want to break my club cherry at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - nothing I've ever wanted to try but been too scared to. What is the worst that could happen? A bit of social awkwardness? Well, that is pretty crippling to a Brit, I guess

JFDI. You'll wonder what you were so nervous about afterwards!

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley


"OP: scared physically or emotionally? What are your reservations about it?

Both, I think. I'm concerned I'll be hurt physically and concerned I'll be upset afterwards, feeling used or similar. It's very complex. "

Look at it as you using them to fulfil a fantasy then you shouldn't feel used. Personally I really enjoy all the attention and don't feel I am being used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope - nothing I've ever wanted to try but been too scared to. What is the worst that could happen? A bit of social awkwardness? Well, that is pretty crippling to a Brit, I guess

JFDI. You'll wonder what you were so nervous about afterwards!"

Social awkwardness? You think that's the worst that could happen? My god, if only

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP: scared physically or emotionally? What are your reservations about it?

Both, I think. I'm concerned I'll be hurt physically and concerned I'll be upset afterwards, feeling used or similar. It's very complex.

Look at it as you using them to fulfil a fantasy then you shouldn't feel used. Personally I really enjoy all the attention and don't feel I am being used."

Very good idea, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most important thing is to have at least one male there that you trust 100%.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The most important thing is to have at least one male there that you trust 100%. "

Well, that'll never happen. I barely trust myself 100%

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"The most important thing is to have at least one male there that you trust 100%. "

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By *immerframes R usCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

Hi,may i just say we are very new on here and we desire mmf, I have to say we have received some lovely messsges all looking to help fulfil our fantasy, and we have adopted to our way of thinking what would be best for us. We have invited a chosen few to meet us for drinks to see how we get on, we also chat off line, and yes it can get a bit saucy, I have no problem with that, it can be fun. And we now have our first meeting arranged for next week.

I personally am not going in with expectations but anticipation and will go with the flow, but if it does not go as my imagination is telling me, then I shall treat as an experience and hope the next one will be better...but saying that, the gentleman the gentleman we are meeting is very reassuring, very polite and we are excited to get together with him and do not envisage not having a great evening.

My point is (yes sorry it's taken so long) research, contact, talk openly what you are all looking for, meet, then if there is a connection and you are happy in his company...then go for it. I do wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most important thing is to have at least one male there that you trust 100%. "

100% this ^^

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The most important thing is to have at least one male there that you trust 100%.

100% this ^^ "

Yup... exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,may i just say we are very new on here and we desire mmf, I have to say we have received some lovely messsges all looking to help fulfil our fantasy, and we have adopted to our way of thinking what would be best for us. We have invited a chosen few to meet us for drinks to see how we get on, we also chat off line, and yes it can get a bit saucy, I have no problem with that, it can be fun. And we now have our first meeting arranged for next week.

I personally am not going in with expectations but anticipation and will go with the flow, but if it does not go as my imagination is telling me, then I shall treat as an experience and hope the next one will be better...but saying that, the gentleman the gentleman we are meeting is very reassuring, very polite and we are excited to get together with him and do not envisage not having a great evening.

My point is (yes sorry it's taken so long) research, contact, talk openly what you are all looking for, meet, then if there is a connection and you are happy in his company...then go for it. I do wish you well.

"

Ditto

First meet for mff in a week time.

Same feelings for us.

Good post

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By *immerframes R usCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

Good luck hope all goes well for you

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Some women like MMF where the second "extra" guy doesn't actually have full-sex.

Admittedly it's usually a couple who get the second guy, but I'm sure it's possible as a single woman. It'd be a way of "testing the water".

As you might have guessed, I've been that guy. It's fun and I'm sure plenty would be happy with that scenario .

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I really want an mmf. Its a huge fantasy, but I'm just too scared. I worry about being hurt, I wish about not doing the right thing, about being a disappointment.

Is there anything you'd really like to try, sexually, but darent? "

It's about finding a person that you trust implicitly (just don't forget your safe word), then it's one step at a time, baby steps if needed, if you feel comfortable and enjoyed at the first step try the next and on it goes.

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