FabSwingers.com forum: Professional People Swinging

By *vc4life OP Man
over a year ago

washington

Should professional people be allowed to swing?

Does any one have any horror stories of being being uncovered to their employers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

I've been thinking about this a lot too and after much consideration I've reasoned that only people with menial jobs, the unemployed and the homeless should be allowed to swing.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Professional is very subjective and I'm not entirely sure what you mean by allowed.

We're all adults who engage in consential sexual acts... This is perfectly legal regardless of what the individuals happen to do for a living, and must remain that way. It would be impossible to police anyway.

Having said that we wouldn't want our hobby to become common knowledge, as it could present problems at work.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sorry about the spelling

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By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

I've been thinking about this a lot too and after much consideration I've reasoned that only people with menial jobs, the unemployed and the homeless should be allowed to swing. "

Thatmade me chuckle!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

I've been thinking about this a lot too and after much consideration I've reasoned that only people with menial jobs, the unemployed and the homeless should be allowed to swing.

Thatmade me chuckle!

Me too... The joys of the Fab forum

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

My ex Mrs was a head teacher.

We were on a similar site and had face pics on our profile.

Long story short she ended up in front of the board of governors (also her friends) and had to explain herself.

It is considered a position of trust.

She very nearly lost her job and career and also said it was the most embarrassing moment of her life.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If I found out I was swinging I might sack myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

I've been thinking about this a lot too and after much consideration I've reasoned that only people with menial jobs, the unemployed and the homeless should be allowed to swing.

Thatmade me chuckle!

Me too... The joys of the Fab forum

If professionals were banned, you'd have all these middle class IT geeks pretending to be working class so they could get into swinging clubs. Like that episode of the IT crowd where moss and Roy pretend to like football

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I found out I was swinging I might sack myself."

You need to set a good example for yourself really

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'd say as long as your discreet and don't go sharing graphic pictures that identify you on the Internet then whatever you do behind closed doors in your sex life is no business of anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

"My ex Mrs was a head teacher.

We were on a similar site and had face pics on our profile.

Long story short she ended up in front of the board of governors (also her friends) and had to explain herself.

It is considered a position of trust.

She very nearly lost her job and career and also said it was the most embarrassing moment of her life.

Most people have the sense to decide if making their identity public or not is a good move or wise move. Simply thinking 'what if the reality of their pastime lands with employer/friends or family'. Not that their doing anything illegal although doing it responsibly or irresponsibly could come into the equation for some professions.

Maybe keeping your face pics private or off here at all would be a wise move if your a head teacher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

But it's no business of anyone else's anyway, just because they hold on to the belief that monogamy is right and anything else is wrong doesn't mean we all have to. It's a belief not the bloody law!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

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By *vc4life OP Man
over a year ago

washington

Im not so much talking about pics.

But say a person was in a club? And was outed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

We could walk past you tomorrow a have absolutely no idea from your public pics. What's in you friends pics? Recognisable? Have you let people take pics/vids during meets?

Very easily is the answer to your question.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

WTF is a professional anyway? Isn't it just "someone with a job"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not so much talking about pics.

But say a person was in a club? And was outed"

It's very much about pics. The media love them. 2 royals, a list of Celebs longer than a roll of andrex. Being outed could land people in hot water but it's nothing like pupils bluetoothing a naked pic of thier teacher around school.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

3 months to retirement and 'winging it!'

Hence limited face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

We could walk past you tomorrow a have absolutely no idea from your public pics. What's in you friends pics? Recognisable? Have you let people take pics/vids during meets?

Very easily is the answer to your question."

From what I understood, those pictures are in the public domain. Blackmail is usually the threat to expose something. You can't expose what's already public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

We could walk past you tomorrow a have absolutely no idea from your public pics. What's in you friends pics? Recognisable? Have you let people take pics/vids during meets?

Very easily is the answer to your question.

From what I understood, those pictures are in the public domain. Blackmail is usually the threat to expose something. You can't expose what's already public. "

Lol......ok. read the post about the head teacher. About 7 down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

We could walk past you tomorrow a have absolutely no idea from your public pics. What's in you friends pics? Recognisable? Have you let people take pics/vids during meets?

Very easily is the answer to your question.

From what I understood, those pictures are in the public domain. Blackmail is usually the threat to expose something. You can't expose what's already public.

Lol......ok. read the post about the head teacher. About 7 down. "

I did. I don't see any blackmail in it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"If I found out I was swinging I might sack myself.

You need to set a good example for yourself really "

Yes

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"WTF is a professional anyway? Isn't it just "someone with a job"?"

No, some people are crap at their job

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Just face it, there are some jobs/employers where being on here could cost you your livelihood should the boss/professional body find out.

People in that situation have to extra careful with face pics etc.

Luckily most people on here are discreet and the few times my work life and playtime have intersected people have been good enough to keep things to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allowed? Allowed? That made me laugh. This needs policing, recruit some elite sss, (special swinging service) train them to a high level of vigilance to be able to pick out any professional people on Fab, once proven they have jobs, then ousted from the website along with 50 lashes. Although a large majority may enjoy the latter.

Ok off to work (oooops)

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Whilst we wouldn't want our employers to know about this part of our life it is none of their business. So long as we don't link swinging with the company we are not bringing them into disrepute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our opinion it's pretty simple really.

Naked and compromising pictures of us.... very few people would notice or even care. Maybe slight embarrassment at work.

Naked and compromising pictures of a teacher.... school kids would have a ball, parents and the board would quite rightly be outraged.

Naked and compromising pictures of a police officer or judge.... could be used for blackmail in a court case.

Naked and compromising pictures of the PM..... well, that's just the end of the world ain't it. Fire trident at these targets or these pics are going to the sun.

Hope that clears it up for ya'all.

How do you blackmail someone who has put their stuff in public?!?

We could walk past you tomorrow a have absolutely no idea from your public pics. What's in you friends pics? Recognisable? Have you let people take pics/vids during meets?

Very easily is the answer to your question.

From what I understood, those pictures are in the public domain. Blackmail is usually the threat to expose something. You can't expose what's already public.

Lol......ok. read the post about the head teacher. About 7 down. "

Similar story in my area a head was sacked.

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

I've been thinking about this a lot too and after much consideration I've reasoned that only people with menial jobs, the unemployed and the homeless should be allowed to swing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it shouldnt matter or affect your job - i know it does

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

Does any one have any horror stories of being being uncovered to their employers? "

Yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you love your job really doesn't it.

If you are happy to risk your career in order to have a happy and fulfilling private life then go do it, there are plenty more jobs after all, you only get one life!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm my boss. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how much you love your job really doesn't it.

If you are happy to risk your career in order to have a happy and fulfilling private life then go do it, there are plenty more jobs after all, you only get one life!

Mrs x"

Ayyyyy you two

guess who is back on the scene

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Should professional people be allowed to swing?

I've been thinking about this a lot too and after much consideration I've reasoned that only people with menial jobs, the unemployed and the homeless should be allowed to swing. "

I am on the deck, love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, if your emplyer were to find out that you were on here, it's one of two reasons.

1) they are on here aswell, meaning everything will be fine unless they are a wanker who would fire you if you didn't play with them.

2) Someone on this site outed you, which is highly unexceptable and a witch hunt would ensure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF is a professional anyway? Isn't it just "someone with a job"?"

Someone with a profession or trade, rather, I. e. most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF is a professional anyway? Isn't it just "someone with a job"?"

No because most jobs aren't professions. Profession's have minimum qualifications and formal training. So teaching is a profession because you can't just walk in off the street and be a teacher the next day. Actor isn't a profession because you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a horror story about this sort of thing and you'd be surprised how much shit it can cause.

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