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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Now we all know that in this world of sex meets single men out number single woman by a very large margin .

The topic of this post is why after all girls enjoy sex just as much as boys but online boys looking to hook up far out number the girls looking for the same.

Now i have a theory on this and it has nothing to do with that old adage of guys being more predatory when it come to sex that woman .I've met more than my fair share of woman online and off line who make that theory rather redundant.

No i think the number of boys and girls would be a lot more even if it wasn't for the behaviour of the boys .

Now this is not a single guy bash but the facts are these I've never talked to or met a women from this world of online sex meets that's doesn't have a tail to tell about the behaviour of the boys and I'm talking about in some cases dam right scary stories .

Due to this i think no i know for a fact a lot of woman leave this world rather quickly in response to the guys behaviour towards them thus keeping the single female numbers low .

So my theory is this the reason single female numbers are so low is because they come online expecting to be respected like they are for the most part by men off line. to find that online respect goes out of the window a lot of the time because sex is involved so leave with the age old serotype of society that says a woman who admits to liking sex and pursues sex will get no respect from men reinforced by there experiences in this world of sex meets .

Anyone else have a opinion on this or a different opinion on why the numbers are so disproportionate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partly it could be to do with that, yes, although any woman who knows her worth will know how to handle men like that (even if it's only in her head that she does it).

Don't know if you've noticed but most long term resonsibilites have been dumped onto the female half of the species, bringing up children and caring duties, things that take up a lot of our time has been dumped onto us.

Also, there is still some stigma on women who enjoy sex and know what they want sexually, which kind of comes under the way men treat us category i suppose.

It's also possible that being monogamous is natural for women but in my life time i've found it's only been advantageous because of caring duties being dumped onto us generally.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That's lots of typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lots of typing. "

Yes. A lot of typing to say that there are more men on fabs than women.

A lot of typing to say that, in general, men are more likely to be looking for a quick shag than women.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Partly it could be to do with that, yes, although any woman who knows her worth will know how to handle men like that (even if it's only in her head that she does it).

Don't know if you've noticed but most long term resonsibilites have been dumped onto the female half of the species, bringing up children and caring duties, things that take up a lot of our time has been dumped onto us.

Also, there is still some stigma on women who enjoy sex and know what they want sexually, which kind of comes under the way men treat us category i suppose.

It's also possible that being monogamous is natural for women but in my life time i've found it's only been advantageous because of caring duties being dumped onto us generally."

monogamous in my experience woman are less likely to be monogamous unless children are involved .as for learning to deal with disrespectful guys I think it often comes as a very rude shock how a large number of men behave when sex is taken off the table where there concerned .no one like to be attacked most people will avoid being attacked so when a woman's attacked on one of these sites by a guy she's not interested in she does the logical thing she leaves thinking I don't need this the sex is just not worth all the hassle that comes with it .

I know for a fact this happens because I've had many a chat with a woman who I became friendly with saying she's leaving for such reasons .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Partly it could be to do with that, yes, although any woman who knows her worth will know how to handle men like that (even if it's only in her head that she does it).

Don't know if you've noticed but most long term resonsibilites have been dumped onto the female half of the species, bringing up children and caring duties, things that take up a lot of our time has been dumped onto us.

Also, there is still some stigma on women who enjoy sex and know what they want sexually, which kind of comes under the way men treat us category i suppose.

It's also possible that being monogamous is natural for women but in my life time i've found it's only been advantageous because of caring duties being dumped onto us generally.

monogamous in my experience woman are less likely to be monogamous unless children are involved .as for learning to deal with disrespectful guys I think it often comes as a very rude shock how a large number of men behave when sex is taken off the table where there concerned .no one like to be attacked most people will avoid being attacked so when a woman's attacked on one of these sites by a guy she's not interested in she does the logical thing she leaves thinking I don't need this the sex is just not worth all the hassle that comes with it .

I know for a fact this happens because I've had many a chat with a woman who I became friendly with saying she's leaving for such reasons ."

I don't think I would be mentally strong enough to do this as a single woman, even though I would want to. I've seen how single women get treated by single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Partly it could be to do with that, yes, although any woman who knows her worth will know how to handle men like that (even if it's only in her head that she does it).

Don't know if you've noticed but most long term resonsibilites have been dumped onto the female half of the species, bringing up children and caring duties, things that take up a lot of our time has been dumped onto us.

Also, there is still some stigma on women who enjoy sex and know what they want sexually, which kind of comes under the way men treat us category i suppose.

It's also possible that being monogamous is natural for women but in my life time i've found it's only been advantageous because of caring duties being dumped onto us generally.

monogamous in my experience woman are less likely to be monogamous unless children are involved .as for learning to deal with disrespectful guys I think it often comes as a very rude shock how a large number of men behave when sex is taken off the table where there concerned .no one like to be attacked most people will avoid being attacked so when a woman's attacked on one of these sites by a guy she's not interested in she does the logical thing she leaves thinking I don't need this the sex is just not worth all the hassle that comes with it .

I know for a fact this happens because I've had many a chat with a woman who I became friendly with saying she's leaving for such reasons ."

only times i've wanted to leave is if i'm not finding what i want, i can deal with all the stuff i don't want.

it's no shock to me that anyone is an arsehole though, never. meet enough people in your life and it's kind of a given that most people are knobs.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think it's because, like it or not, it is still not totally acceptable for women to admit to enjoying sex and wanting plenty of it.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I think it's because, like it or not, it is still not totally acceptable for women to admit to enjoying sex and wanting plenty of it."

Totally agree this is the true route of all the crap sent women's way by guys who are generally not getting any .

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