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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can you tell if someone you are chatting is cheating on their partner?

Sometime we chat to people and get a worrying feel that things are not whet they seem, so are there any tell-tell signs or question we can ask.

We know they may be reason why people may want to cheat but it's not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if you can tell by chatting I wouldn't actively choose someone who was attached but I am sure that it has happened in the past.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you get a feeling, take note of it. Act on it.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Suggest that all meets are at their house and wait for the excuses.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

cant accomodate and meets at certain times only unless theres a genuine reason. Quite a few times after several conversations they have said they have partner to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read my profile then move on. Problem solved without guessing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suggest that all meets are at their house and wait for the excuses."

We like this one, we always say drinks at our first so we can get a feel for them but will try this with people we not fully sure on.

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you wont for sure -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not accommodating doesn't mean they have a partner

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I've found the easiest way to tell is if they give you their phone number AND are ok with random messages at any time of day/evening/night (assuming you're not some psycho stalker).

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How can you tell if someone you are chatting is cheating on their partner?

Sometime we chat to people and get a worrying feel that things are not whet they seem, so are there any tell-tell signs or question we can ask.

We know they may be reason why people may want to cheat but it's not for us. "

Do you need to ask? If you don't get the right "vibe" regardless, why continue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suggest that all meets are at their house and wait for the excuses."

My excuse is I live alone with mini me. I'm not inviting strangers into her home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you get a feeling, take note of it. Act on it. "

this.

you're not stupid, trust yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always ask if they are married, and if it's too good to be true they usually are.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Suggest that all meets are at their house and wait for the excuses.

We like this one, we always say drinks at our first so we can get a feel for them but will try this with people we not fully sure on.

Thanks x"

You're more than welcome - good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with gut..... ur instincts are there for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the risk you to take meeting random people off the internet, you'll have to accept that anyone regardless of who they are can lie about absolutely anything!

I can usually tell, it's a feeling I get when I look at their pictures (gut instinct maybe) & so far I think I've only being wrong once.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

With some people it's obvious almost straight away with others it becomes apparent and some you will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with some of the other comments, go with your gut. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Read their profile. For me its easier to be honest about being dishonest.

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