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Sexting, A thing of the past?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have alway enjoyed the odd few nights sexting with a woman, always found it interesting finding out what people like when in the moment.

Don't seem to see anyone say if they would like it from time to time lol

Do people still enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never enjoyed it that much tbh. It has always done very little for me. However, saying that I am guilty of having done it with a very good friend, or two, but more so for their sake than mine.

I don't know if it is still an actual thing though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems no ones does it anymore. I've always found it fun finding out people I don't know idea of how they like things to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha Yay I'm not alone. Was starting to think maybe I was a little weird lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sexting as u can find out so much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it, I think words can create images it's all in the details and a good way to make you horny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love sexting as u can find out so much x "

This is exactly what I mean!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I enjoy it, I think words can create images it's all in the details and a good way to make you horny.

"

Definitely.

I think it fun for some to put a setting in your mind and then let your own imagination fill in the gaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely crap at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaggy its not just bout sexual texting which thats the main part a fb of mine on whatsapp we xhat general shite but draw sexual inuendos into it (i work in retail so easy to do) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sexting as u can find out so much x "

I agree. As long as people are still articulate enough, which generally includes the slightly more mature population who still enjoy reading books and don't abbreviate when txting, then it can still be a very enjoyable pastime.

Has to be reciprocated by genuine participants though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuinely crap at it. "

Just got to be descriptive and be very detailed I think .

I.e I start to lick your pussy ....

Or, I slowly run my tongue down your body allowing the warmth of my breath to caress your skin as I slide my hands up to envelope your boobs. I let out a sigh as I reach my goal and can feel the wetness and excitement on my tongue and the immense sweetness of your juices thrill my taste buds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuinely crap at it.

Just got to be descriptive and be very detailed I think .

I.e I start to lick your pussy ....

Or, I slowly run my tongue down your body allowing the warmth of my breath to caress your skin as I slide my hands up to envelope your boobs. I let out a sigh as I reach my goal and can feel the wetness and excitement on my tongue and the immense sweetness of your juices thrill my taste buds."

Nah. I'm all in the doing rather than the chatting about it. I think it's my lacklustre enthusiasm that trounces it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a Practical guy at all ......as they say "actions speak louder than words"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of here's a novel idea! You could actually call the person up and have a conversation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of here's a novel idea! You could actually call the person up and have a conversation!

"

Or*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of here's a novel idea! You could actually call the person up and have a conversation!

Or*"

Yeah, you'd think... Shame people aren't so brave anymore, or trusting...

Or novel either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it....but only with those I've built up a rapport with and there is mutual lust, otherwise it doesn't do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sexting. Stimulates the mind as well as other parts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have alway enjoyed the odd few nights sexting with a woman, always found it interesting finding out what people like when in the moment.

Don't seem to see anyone say if they would like it from time to time lol

Do people still enjoy it?"

Munching on a bag of pix n mix does more for me

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Youve got to be articulate and have a good imagination. knowing the person helps its a matter of getting into the other persons head.

And yeah you can phone someone and have phone sex but wit sexting you can go back and reread the texts.

I remember a girl messaging me and saying 'her friend would really love to suck my cock' must have read it several times and then messaged back 'is she serious' and got the reply 'oh yes'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often sext eachother when at work so when we get home were already fecking horny and ready to play

Also we like some naughty chat with others before a meet

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I enjoy it once a connection has been establish with the person I'm engaging in such fun with .

but I love to tease and I enjoy the mental play of a slow build up to the fun. sex texting can form part of that slow sexual build up along with a couple of social dates to build up the sexual tension chemistry.

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

Sexting can be fun if you have connection......as others have said build up to a meeting can get you so horny!!! Whether thats a meet or your partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it once it's with the right guy, nothing worse than a guy immediately sending filthy texts expecting me to get turned on If it's done right then I'll hump my pillow

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I.e I start to lick your pussy ....

Or, I slowly run my tongue down your body allowing the warmth of my breath to caress your skin as I slide my hands up to envelope your boobs. I let out a sigh as I reach my goal and can feel the wetness and excitement on my tongue and the immense sweetness of your juices thrill my taste buds."

Too unoriginal

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

With someone I know and fancy it can be great fun, though I prefer the more subtle approach than graphic detail.

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By *iamonddave84Man
over a year ago

Hereford


"Shaggy its not just bout sexual texvting which thats the main part a fb of mine on whatsapp we xhat general shite but draw sexual inuendos into it (i work in retail so easy to do) x "
spot on bibbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it..with certain people.

(Thats not an invitation btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy it...

but only with a certain person..

I'm not into helping some random man have a wank

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

My previous job allowed all day text fest with my fb.. i think the most I sent was 300 messages from 9 am to 5pm.. sure by hell made that evening fun

Dont always have the time now though.. was good when it happened

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No, it's not dead as far as I'm concerned.

Love receiving messages the build up, not forgetting the pictures that need to be taken and sent and the ones received!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a great appetiser, a party of the extended foreplay and really build the sexual tension.

It's also a fun way to find out about what turns each other on and describe assume of the things that you might like to do to each other, when the meet finally arrives......

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Can be a great appetiser, a party of the extended foreplay and really build the sexual tension.

It's also a fun way to find out about what turns each other on and describe assume of the things that you might like to do to each other, when the meet finally arrives......"

Couldn't agree more with how you put this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's alright in small doses. Gets a bit tedious when you're sat there trying to watch Eastenders and some guy with the horn tries to describe how much he'd love to lick my pussy.

FFS, I'm not in the mood - go watch porn and have a wank!

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love it as a build up to a meet.

I hate it when I've got stuff to do and a guy just wants a wank chat, seriously just use your imagination or watch some porn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really enjoy it...

but only with a certain person..

I'm not into helping some random man have a wank "

Haha.

I do actually find it shocking that there is actually a very large portion of men out there that feel that a woman will be instantly turned on and also happy to exchange raunchy message just because they have said "Babe, I'm horny, I'm going to send you a picture of my cock as a turn on for you" lol

How could a man actually feel that is going to be any kind of a turn on for lady's. Lol

I'll apologise now on behalf of fellow gender!

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's obviously something others find is of there taste. Everyone enjoys lots of different things.

I personally enjoy having fun messaging with others.

I find people can express a lot more easily in the heat of the moment what it is they would truly like the other person to help them experience for them to achieve the fantasy they desire from that person.

Also I think its fun in the time of messaging one another to the time you see each as it gives both people a chance to fantasies about the other persons needs and also think about how you can give them the best fulfillment with there desires so you can help them gain the best satisfaction from the experience.

That's why I enjoy it but I'm sure other have enjoyment do it for other reasons.

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

Pictures may say a thousand words but when sexting you get a glimpse of someone's desires or discover new ones for yourself. A clever play on words or even a described scene, can stay and fire your imagination for a long time.

Thats why I prefer pictures that are revealing but leave something to the imagination. My last meet was perfect proof for myself, alot of sexting smd sharing ideas but no cock or pussy pictures, and then when we met I took the lead and suggested we undress while trying not to look at each others full figures... The sexting and banter from before made both our imaginations wild. If you cant stimulate the mind the body's a poor substitute.

Sorry for essay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures may say a thousand words but when sexting you get a glimpse of someone's desires or discover new ones for yourself. A clever play on words or even a described scene, can stay and fire your imagination for a long time.

Thats why I prefer pictures that are revealing but leave something to the imagination. My last meet was perfect proof for myself, alot of sexting smd sharing ideas but no cock or pussy pictures, and then when we met I took the lead and suggested we undress while trying not to look at each others full figures... The sexting and banter from before made both our

imaginations wild. If you cant stimulate the mind the body's a poor substitute.

Sorry for essay "

You could of not of explained the enjoyment and the way it's is one of the top forms of forplay better.

Well done that man!

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill


"It's alright in small doses. Gets a bit tedious when you're sat there trying to watch Eastenders and some guy with the horn tries to describe how much he'd love to lick my pussy.

FFS, I'm not in the mood - go watch porn and have a wank!"

People need to know the boundaries and secret to it being good is simply timing. However making someone cum on the duf duf has now made it to my bucket list lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always up for a bit of sexting, especially with certain friend's

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By * Reason WhyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Area

I (fem) love sexting. Only with people I've chatted to before, not every Tom, Dick and Harry.

Have message someone who was working away and the build up was great, just a shame we didn't get to play before he went back again.

It must be someone who is articulate, not 'I'm going to fuck you so hard', finding someone who is good with words can be a real turn on.

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By *iiich3TV/TS
over a year ago

swansea

A very horny lady was sexting last night...It was erotic and the more we opened up the more slutty, sexy she became..really horny with the right people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it with the right guy without my Mr finding out then taking it out all on hIm. Big turn on

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Of here's a novel idea! You could actually call the person up and have a conversation!

"

Then it becomes phone sex and not sexting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very horny lady was sexting last night...It was erotic and the more we opened up the more slutty, sexy she became..really horny with the right people.."

I only got into this sexting recently with a woman. I got so turned on one night I nearly climbed through the phone.

It can be good fun, gives you an idea of what they are into for when/if you do meet.

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

Absolutely. Kik usually. Especially early on so essentially anonymous.

Getting to know each other both personally and sexually. I rarely have an opportunity for a social so this is really important.

After meeting it's usually the primary way to keep in touch with random filth to distract each orher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does nothing for me, I prefer talking rather than texting although if you know the person and have played previously and know what they like then it can be good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good way to build a fantasy, but if it stays as text for long it's just boring.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

At 5 weeks old this thread is qualified to talk of past things.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexting"

As part of a building up to meeting, yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried it a few times with guys off here, my partner likes me to message guys in here while he's at work, but it's difficult as most men are crap at it and it becomes hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fan of sexting.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried it a few times with guys off here, my partner likes me to message guys in here while he's at work, but it's difficult as most men are crap at it and it becomes hard work "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really for me.

It's good that you share your passions and desires before you meet .

I do like flirty fun messages ones that tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really for me.

It's good that you share your passions and desires before you meet .

I do like flirty fun messages ones that tease "

And do those flirty texts get a little, heated and suggestive? Then they get you to the point where you find its texting is not enough, you now need to have sex with this person?

This happened to me last week, sadly, I've still not met them. Tease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it something that younger people tend to do....? Not something I've indulged in much...but have had a bit of recent experience with a lovely younger lady (25).

However this is someone I've met a couple of times....not sure about someone I didn't properly know?

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