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What is it about a non asthetically pleasing face that sends women running to the hills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll admit it I aint the best looking bloke in the world, but I try n let my personality win through but i've had it recently where a woman liked pics of my body and when she saw my face she refused to comminicate, surely personality is what counts right

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"I'll admit it I aint the best looking bloke in the world, but I try n let my personality win through but i've had it recently where a woman liked pics of my body and when she saw my face she refused to comminicate, surely personality is what counts right"

Not when it's just a fuck.

Maybe so for a relaiobship but that's not what people are here for. Aesthetics mostly wins out.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Obviously I meant relationship. ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doesn't even work in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not really.

It's part of the mix of course - but physical attraction is probably more important on a site like this than on, say, a dating site.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Doesn't even work in a relationship"

Not if you look like the arse end of a bus I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely if they like everything else they can get around the face I mean I aint bad lookin but I'm defo not great lookin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't even work in a relationship

Not if you look like the arse end of a bus I suppose. "
I aint that bad looking, but its something about my face that turns them away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if they like everything else they can get around the face I mean I aint bad lookin but I'm defo not great lookin"

No no, I only like a certain type of penis combined with a guy being tall and a nice normal build, hard to find the size penis that I like so you'd think if everything else is ok it will do right? Wrong, I have to find the face attractive as well which makes things doubly hard. When you're with someone you're not just talking to their body or their dick, I like to look at a nice face as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to burst your bubble but I'm looking for fantasy sex....with guys i find attractive......the physical for me is as important as the mental....otherwise why bother with pictures at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also now don't tell anyone this but I'd even go a far as saying the face is more important that the penis. I say I want between 8-9 but I'd forgive an inch if the face was super handsome (providing the girth was still there)

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Surely if they like everything else they can get around the face I mean I aint bad lookin but I'm defo not great lookin"

Not for a shag no. You want to be attracted. You can learn to love someone but thats not going to happen here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if they like everything else they can get around the face I mean I aint bad lookin but I'm defo not great lookin

No no, I only like a certain type of penis combined with a guy being tall and a nice normal build, hard to find the size penis that I like so you'd think if everything else is ok it will do right? Wrong, I have to find the face attractive as well which makes things doubly hard. When you're with someone you're not just talking to their body or their dick, I like to look at a nice face as well. "
recently my personality has won true but its just something that bugs me i'm described as ruggedly handsome and I keep hearing women complaining about pretty boys being complete ego maniac douchebags and wishing there was a half decent looking guy who wasn't a complete headcase, they talk to me I offer to show pics of my face after a conversation they really enjoyed.... instant full stop on communication sometimes even blocking

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Also now don't tell anyone this but I'd even go a far as saying the face is more important that the penis. I say I want between 8-9 but I'd forgive an inch if the face was super handsome (providing the girth was still there) "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also now don't tell anyone this but I'd even go a far as saying the face is more important that the penis. I say I want between 8-9 but I'd forgive an inch if the face was super handsome (providing the girth was still there) the girth is there not quite that length but defo git girth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's idea of attractive is different for a start! ..send me your face photo and I'll let you know publicly if I personally think you're attractive to me. ..but remember I'm just one person so whatever I think should you be bothered? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone's idea of attractive is different for a start! ..send me your face photo and I'll let you know publicly if I personally think you're attractive to me. ..but remember I'm just one person so whatever I think should you be bothered? Xx "
done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if they like everything else they can get around the face I mean I aint bad lookin but I'm defo not great lookin

No no, I only like a certain type of penis combined with a guy being tall and a nice normal build, hard to find the size penis that I like so you'd think if everything else is ok it will do right? Wrong, I have to find the face attractive as well which makes things doubly hard. When you're with someone you're not just talking to their body or their dick, I like to look at a nice face as well. recently my personality has won true but its just something that bugs me i'm described as ruggedly handsome and I keep hearing women complaining about pretty boys being complete ego maniac douchebags and wishing there was a half decent looking guy who wasn't a complete headcase, they talk to me I offer to show pics of my face after a conversation they really enjoyed.... instant full stop on communication sometimes even blocking"

A couple of months back I'd been speaking to a guy for 3 weeks before meeting, his personality was incredible, he got me and understood me, saw him in the flesh, didn't fancy him despite really really wanting to. I could grow old disgracefully with someone as our looks fade and be completely in love with that person but I would've needed the intial attraction at the start.

I'm looking for more than NSA so I should be more forgiving than most but I still need attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Admittedly i'm not doing bad on here but things like this tend to bug me and I just want perspective

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had my mind put at ease by xxpappillonxx I look younger than I am, I get that some people don't like long blonde hair but trust me I look stupider with short hair, and I aint ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mind put at ease by xxpappillonxx I look younger than I am, I get that some people don't like long blonde hair but trust me I look stupider with short hair, and I aint ugly"

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Had my mind put at ease by xxpappillonxx I look younger than I am, I get that some people don't like long blonde hair but trust me I look stupider with short hair, and I aint ugly"

Intrigued to see now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what anyone tries to claim to the contrary, looks always count. Anybody who says they go for personality first is a liar. Not just for Fab meets, but relationships also. That does not mean that personality has zero merit, it means that if someone doesn't find you physically attractive, you won't win them over with your lovely personality.

In Fab world, if you are very physically attractive, but have the personality of a bag of sawdust, your meet may end up as a social only. If you are not attractive, there will be no meet to begin with, social or otherwise. End of.

As a side note not everyone has the same idea of who or what is attractive, it is after all a very subjective quality.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It doesn't matter what anyone tries to claim to the contrary, looks always count. Anybody who says they go for personality first is a liar. Not just for Fab meets, but relationships also. That does not mean that personality has zero merit, it means that if someone doesn't find you physically attractive, you won't win them over with your lovely personality."

Not true for me personally. There have been many people I have not been initially attracted to but when I have gotten to know them have then become attracted to them.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It doesn't matter what anyone tries to claim to the contrary, looks always count. Anybody who says they go for personality first is a liar. Not just for Fab meets, but relationships also. That does not mean that personality has zero merit, it means that if someone doesn't find you physically attractive, you won't win them over with your lovely personality.

Not true for me personally. There have been many people I have not been initially attracted to but when I have gotten to know them have then become attracted to them. "

This. My current partner is never what I would have considered looks wise, but he had such lovely eyes and smile and lively warm hands that I took the time to get to know him and now I think he's the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what anyone tries to claim to the contrary, looks always count. Anybody who says they go for personality first is a liar. Not just for Fab meets, but relationships also. That does not mean that personality has zero merit, it means that if someone doesn't find you physically attractive, you won't win them over with your lovely personality.

Not true for me personally. There have been many people I have not been initially attracted to but when I have gotten to know them have then become attracted to them. "

Although you may not have been consciously attracted to them, I'll bet that you also weren't repelled by their facial or bodily features either. They weren't a 'Yes', but they also weren't a 'No'. They were a 'Maybe'.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It doesn't matter what anyone tries to claim to the contrary, looks always count. Anybody who says they go for personality first is a liar. Not just for Fab meets, but relationships also. That does not mean that personality has zero merit, it means that if someone doesn't find you physically attractive, you won't win them over with your lovely personality.

Not true for me personally. There have been many people I have not been initially attracted to but when I have gotten to know them have then become attracted to them.

Although you may not have been consciously attracted to them, I'll bet that you also weren't repelled by their facial or bodily features either. They weren't a 'Yes', but they also weren't a 'No'. They were a 'Maybe'."

Ah of course. You know better than we do.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction grows from your mind

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'll admit it I aint the best looking bloke in the world, but I try n let my personality win through but i've had it recently where a woman liked pics of my body and when she saw my face she refused to comminicate, surely personality is what counts right"

Swinging is driven by aesthetics,more than any other pursuit.

If your male,and you don't have it all,your not shagging.

Ask yourself,if you had a multitude of choices,would you be shagging that minger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll admit it I aint the best looking bloke in the world, but I try n let my personality win through but i've had it recently where a woman liked pics of my body and when she saw my face she refused to comminicate, surely personality is what counts right

Swinging is driven by aesthetics,more than any other pursuit.

If your male,and you don't have it all,your not shagging.

Ask yourself,if you had a multitude of choices,would you be shagging that minger.

"

This! Someone managed to say it!

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