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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i just cant understand the problem with younger lads i know alot of us are very imature but some are very wise for or age dont let that select few damage your _iew on all of us thanks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nothing wrong with younger. If i was 20 years younger id be into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed there are some very nice young gents about!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea fair enough but can you see what im sayin though thanks for the feed back x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

there are some lovely younger guys, there are some idiot younger guys, there are some lovely older guys, there are some idiot older guys ............... all should be taken on their individual merits. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Zoe said!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very point cant argue that i am much in agreement x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

But thanks for the lesson and advice! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry do seem a bit ott dont i x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"sorry do seem a bit ott dont i x"

no, don't worry about it! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is that the opening message I have just had "fancy some young cock" yet he claims to be sophisticated???? does put one off considering your age group, I know one shouldnt tar all with the same brush but it is incredibly off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just cant understand the problem with younger lads i know alot of us are very imature but some are very wise for or age dont let that select few damage your _iew on all of us thanks"

You sum it up well with the qualification 'for o(u)r age'. There are a number of 21 year olds I'd trust to point a warship in the right direction in heavy seas.

There are others I wouldn't trust with a pedalo on a duck pond..

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

nothing wrong with young people, when they grow up they will be even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i see the fella im seeing its more than the sex...

We dine and have nice wines and chat ..even go out.etc. Its the whole package really and i dont think that would happen with a younger guy.

We would have nothing in common other than the sex.

Which is ok for some , but not for me.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"nothing wrong with young people, when they grow up they will be even better"

ouch! thats a tad harsh! Surely you can't say that all young people aren't as good (for want of a better phrase here) as older people? So if a guys an idiot, at what age does he miraculously change into a decent human being? lol and what about all the older guys who are just total idiots! I can't agree with your philosophy as I feel it's just too narrow, Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea i understand why comments like that would put you of all i ask is you ignore the stupid boy and speak to the rest of us x

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"nothing wrong with young people, when they grow up they will be even better

ouch! thats a tad harsh! Surely you can't say that all young people aren't as good (for want of a better phrase here) as older people? So if a guys an idiot, at what age does he miraculously change into a decent human being? lol and what about all the older guys who are just total idiots! I can't agree with your philosophy as I feel it's just too narrow, Z"

wasnt asking anyone to agree its just our opinion

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"nothing wrong with young people, when they grow up they will be even better

ouch! thats a tad harsh! Surely you can't say that all young people aren't as good (for want of a better phrase here) as older people? So if a guys an idiot, at what age does he miraculously change into a decent human being? lol and what about all the older guys who are just total idiots! I can't agree with your philosophy as I feel it's just too narrow, Z

wasnt asking anyone to agree its just our opinion"

lol - ok - relax! Z

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

pretty chilled here zoe ty

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"yea i understand why comments like that would put you of all i ask is you ignore the stupid boy and speak to the rest of us x"

Psssst, let me whisper, 'we can all make those choices ourselves' Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The younger gents I have met have very mature heads on their shoulders, and they are not the wham bam thank you m'am kind of guys. They are young gentlemen who know how to treat people with respect.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"yea i understand why comments like that would put you of all i ask is you ignore the stupid boy and speak to the rest of us x"

because like it or not.. the perception of people is gained rightly or wrongly by the people you come across... so if you get loads of people writing you "fancy young cock"... then that is the perception...

is it fair to tarr everyone with the same brush?. no!... does it happen? yep...

young people complain a lot.... thats the perception on the site... do i think everyone does it?... no... but you are fitting that perception right now!

rather than whinging and moaning... just get on with it.... go out there, get meets....

just like older people, black people, short people, fat people..... and every other group of people.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many of us on here just have older people as our preference cos thats what we prefer! its not that i dont think much of younger men its just that i feel more comfortable and more attracted to men nearer my age.So if you get dismissed by someone because of your age its not personal, its the other persons preferences x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

fair comment didnt really look at it that way thanks

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

the younger guys i meet tend to be quite sensible in attitude whereas some of the so called "mature" people can be very childish and selfish.

there can be exceptions to every rule including the age one - if you chat to someone and you click with them there may be loads of fun to be had no matter what their age its just a choice whether to take the time and get to know a bit about the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the younger guys i meet tend to be quite sensible in attitude whereas some of the so called "mature" people can be very childish and selfish.

there can be exceptions to every rule including the age one - if you chat to someone and you click with them there may be loads of fun to be had no matter what their age its just a choice whether to take the time and get to know a bit about the person"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its so hard for young men on the site to get a meet. ive been on here about 3month and only met with one..

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

nowt wrong with young guys .just not my preference .i want someone with same sort of life espriences like serviving 80s fashion lol !!! someone ill have things in common with which a guy alot younger then me just wont have . also i just would wanna bed someone same age as my nephew lol ! just doesnt sit well . theres alos met ppl on here with sons the same age range as guys messaging then and no doubt off put by that

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"its so hard for young men on the site to get a meet. ive been on here about 3month and only met with one.. "

and I know of some guys where it took 6-9 months to get there first meets.... so it is not necessarily an age thing... its a "person" thing....

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"its so hard for young men on the site to get a meet. ive been on here about 3month and only met with one..

and I know of some guys where it took 6-9 months to get there first meets.... so it is not necessarily an age thing... its a "person" thing...."

agree there _abio - they have all the drawbacks - younger than a lot of peoples kids, single male and often can't accomodate as still stay at home or in halls of residences.

there are a few who do check profiles which is a rarity in any of the "groups" who use the site and most i have come across are quite honest and polite even when told no they are not for us

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

nothing wrong with young guys if they are mature and can spell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My problem with younger guys, is they dont accept that they are not to everyones taste and keep on and on about * age is just a number" "you are only as old as the man that you feel"

Any guy who can not accept that a woman knows what she wants is not mature enough to be playing with

IMHO

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

unfortunatly theres guys /women cpls regardless of age who dont accept they arent what ppl are looking for and dont like n as answer. not just younger guys lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

opps ment no as an answer ..doh !!! x

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

and lol if your an older guy you usually have more to say for yourself than 5 words on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't think age comes into it, in anyway whatsoever. It's all the person, in general. Younger, older, male or female - there are always complete fools out there, who give everyone a bad name!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually i think it is more a case something of people looking for an excuse rather than the fact that someone may not want to play with them...

it could be a million reasons but "age" then becomes a convienient excuse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually i think it is more a case something of people looking for an excuse rather than the fact that someone may not want to play with them...

it could be a million reasons but "age" then becomes a convienient excuse.... "

It probably is no more a convenient excuse but I can't help but feel there's room for a bit more honesty in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually i think it is more a case something of people looking for an excuse rather than the fact that someone may not want to play with them...

it could be a million reasons but "age" then becomes a convienient excuse....

It probably is no more a convenient excuse but I can't help but feel there's room for a bit more honesty in swinging."

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Unfortunately honesty does not always go down well.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

how can peoples personal perference be a "convinent excuse" ?

its what they are looking for be it a guy over 25 or a well endowed guy , a bi guy . its what the indervidual is wanting lol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can peoples personal perference be a "convinent excuse" ?

its what they are looking for be it a guy over 25 or a well endowed guy , a bi guy . its what the indervidual is wanting lol ! "

Agreed, but there's no doubt some people who'll use age limits (or 'smoker') as convenient excuse to avoid having to say 'sorry, you're too fat/ thin/ hairy/ bald/ tattoed/ dark-skinned/ light-skinned/ whatever'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can peoples personal perference be a "convinent excuse" ?

its what they are looking for be it a guy over 25 or a well endowed guy , a bi guy . its what the indervidual is wanting lol !

Agreed, but there's no doubt some people who'll use age limits (or 'smoker') as convenient excuse to avoid having to say 'sorry, you're too fat/ thin/ hairy/ bald/ tattoed/ dark-skinned/ light-skinned/ whatever'."

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As I said, honesty does not always go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can peoples personal perference be a "convinent excuse" ?

its what they are looking for be it a guy over 25 or a well endowed guy , a bi guy . its what the indervidual is wanting lol !

Agreed, but there's no doubt some people who'll use age limits (or 'smoker') as convenient excuse to avoid having to say 'sorry, you're too fat/ thin/ hairy/ bald/ tattoed/ dark-skinned/ light-skinned/ whatever'.

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As I said, honesty does not always go down well. "

That's certainly the case but where there's a problem with honesty it's never the fault of the truth.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"yea i understand why comments like that would put you of all i ask is you ignore the stupid boy and speak to the rest of us x"

And some of us just won't shag anyone who is younger than our kids..........

Kinda creepy in my eyes

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i get lots of mail from younger guys ..i like to chat a bit first but some are like spoiled brats when you dont give them what they want straight away.this really puts me of meeting any which is a real shame .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe stop posting threads of these non-stories and drawing more attention to yourselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its so hard for young men on the site to get a meet. ive been on here about 3month and only met with one.. "

awww you look nice, I am sure loads of young men would like to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea i understand why comments like that would put you of all i ask is you ignore the stupid boy and speak to the rest of us x

And some of us just won't shag anyone who is younger than our kids..........

Kinda creepy in my eyes"

irrelavant in mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i see the fella im seeing its more than the sex...

We dine and have nice wines and chat ..even go out.etc. Its the whole package really and i dont think that would happen with a younger guy.

We would have nothing in common other than the sex.

Which is ok for some , but not for me. "

...and there you have it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My problem with younger guys, is they dont accept that they are not to everyones taste and keep on and on about * age is just a number" "you are only as old as the man that you feel"

Any guy who can not accept that a woman knows what she wants is not mature enough to be playing with

IMHO "

Couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yea i understand why comments like that would put you of all i ask is you ignore the stupid boy and speak to the rest of us x

And some of us just won't shag anyone who is younger than our kids..........

Kinda creepy in my eyes"

I find it creepy too.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I was young once... *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just cant understand the problem with younger lads i know alot of us are very imature but some are very wise for or age dont let that select few damage your _iew on all of us thanks"

I don't have a problem with younger lads.... I just simply prefer men that are older than me.

Without trying to sound harsh, there is a big difference between a 'lad' and 'man' in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you have to think that some of the couples/women on the site have kids older than the younger men on this site and don't fancy meeting with men younger than their own kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put our age limit at 40 as our eldest is 38 and it wouldnt feel right to us to play with someone the same age as the kids. Shame as we have been contacted by some nice guys under 40 but thats just the way it is for us. Good luck to all the young guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it might not be your age, i think that everyone should stop whining, if someone should contact you and you dont like what you see, you tell them no so why hate if someone else is doing the same its preference not preudice wow everyone stop griping and write a list of the good things on your life

youngmichael

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"nothing wrong with young people, when they grow up they will be even better"

excellent! oh so true! I choose not to meet young couples or ladies...to my mind a mature couple lady 35+ is far more preferable to meet and makes for a more relaxed enjoyable experience..but then that's my choice....it is all about choice isn't it? there are obnoxious people at all ages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all about personal choice and prefernces. But for me age is not important it is all about meeting people that you have an affinity with and gel with.

I have met really nice people of all ages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i would just like to thank every one for there messages and posts been very insightfull x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I am more attracted to older guys, but have met some very nice younger guys. I like to be able to hold a conversation as well as have some fun. Sometimes that is difficult with younger people, guys or couples, if you have nothing in common. I only once had a bad experience with a young guy. I think he thought I was desperate and so treated me very badly. But on the whole, I would judge each person on merit at the time, young or old! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lovely young men around on fab xx And some are my friends xx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most my age come across as highly desperate. Not sexy.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as long as they can legally drink a pint of lager after blowing me...

it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with younger. I know two lovely sensible intelligent hard working people, 28 and 25 respectively.....they are my children.

Hence 'younger' are a no go area for me, I'd feel like a cradle snatcher seducing someone's child.

I also know men around my age who are too set in their ways to think of anything more original than me giving them a blow-job and a ten minute fuck then they are fucked.

I don't stereotype, just know the type I like. xxxxx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I've got to say that the majority fo the "you free today, fancy a fuck?" messages I receive have come from older guys, whereas the younger ones show much more respect in their messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When speaking to women on the site, the majority always seems to say, older guys are always a lot worse & a lot cruder in their messages

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Nothing against younger BUT when they same age or worse, younger than my own kids....NO CHANCE!!! lol

Hang in there, some women on here do like them young...

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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago

halifax

nothing wrong with younger guys i have some very respectful younger guys on here its all personal choice

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