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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

get over it ?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Its because people have personal preferences. No different to liking slim women, bbw or anything in between.

I personally don't want to meet anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

Your profile says you're 60 and you have an upper limit of 72, what are your reasons for having a low upper limit 27 years under the possible highest?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?

get over it ?"

Or past it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to fuck anyone younger than my brothers or older than my dad. Seems fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely find older men attractive physically or mentally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

its also down to personal choice so no point questioning it...

it has absolutely nothing to do with ageism either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to fuck anyone younger than my brothers or older than my dad. Seems fair."

How old are your brothers

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

I'm sure you also have age restrictions!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I don't want to fuck anyone younger than my brothers or older than my dad. Seems fair."

Keeping it in the family then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not attracted to older men. Simple.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

Bet you don't look better and fitter than this particular 50's person

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By *hiterabbit69Man
over a year ago

Romford

I far prefer the fad on other sites of everyone setting their age to 90+.

Age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not ageism, it's personal choice. Ageism is denying somebody something that they would normally expect to be entitled to, based entirely on age. None of us are entitled to meeting anyone else on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older men. But you are old enough to be my grandpa. No thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their preference. Just like you have yours!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes don't even meet people within my age range. I'm an utter bitch.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"It's not ageism, it's personal choice. Ageism is denying somebody something that they would normally expect to be entitled to, based entirely on age. None of us are entitled to meeting anyone else on here. "

I'm going to steal that response it's so good.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It is what it is for those who are outside our age range we just appreciate the photos and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?

get over it ?

Or past it. "

Nice one

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

So let me get this straight: YOU can have age preferences, but if others have that exclude you, that's ageism?!!

Get over yourself: entitled much!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?

get over it ?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?

Your profile says you're 60 and you have an upper limit of 72, what are your reasons for having a low upper limit 27 years under the possible highest?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's not ageism, it's personal choice. Ageism is denying somebody something that they would normally expect to be entitled to, based entirely on age. None of us are entitled to meeting anyone else on here. "

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I do not see anything wrong in a member having an upper age limit(and specifying it) , what is likely though is that many members do have an upper age limit and don't specify it or change the filter from the default giving a false impression.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I do not see anything wrong in a member having an upper age limit(and specifying it) , what is likely though is that many members do have an upper age limit and don't specify it or change the filter from the default giving a false impression. "

False impression?!! Good lord!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do not see anything wrong in a member having an upper age limit(and specifying it) , what is likely though is that many members do have an upper age limit and don't specify it or change the filter from the default giving a false impression. "

Perhaps they just don't fancy you and it has nothing to do with your age. Do you fancy every person in the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people ageist and put low upper limits on age range.

I am 61 and both younger looking and fitter than a lot of people in their 50's.

It is such a frustrating trait.

Any comments?"

because they can?

no idea

but just out of curiosity its only a low upper age limit that makes you ageist? just wondering why its ok for you to set your age limit at 35?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personal choice is a wonderful thing

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm in my sixties and accept that I may be too old for some, but quite acceptable to others.

I focus my attention on the latter, and am contacted by them, which works out fine

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op, why do you set your upper limit at women only 12 years older than you

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