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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comb my beard and try to get rid of the food in it and that's about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last two meets were socials i made sure i had a haircut and cut throat shave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make as much effort as i do when i go out normally. I always do my hair anyway ...my nails are always manicured, I'm normally shaved/waxed, i don't leave the house without makeup. I don't buy new outfits/lingerie as i have plenty to choose from....no extra effort at all.

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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Comb my beard and try to get rid of the food in it and that's about it "

Wow that's a lot of effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornycouple485Couple
over a year ago

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New under wear maybe.. look nice so I feel good but I wouldn't bother with tan or getting my nails done but then I can be very lazy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower shave trim the beard nice shirt and get the hugo boss out

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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"I make as much effort as i do when i go out normally. I always do my hair anyway ...my nails are always manicured, I'm normally shaved/waxed, i don't leave the house without makeup. I don't buy new outfits/lingerie as i have plenty to choose from....no extra effort at all."

Just wondering really, cause sometimes it's took me longer to get ready for a meet, than the meet actually lasted, wonder if I'm making too much of an effort

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Every effort possible..!

Socials not quite as much as a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make an effort. First impressions count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks and sandals, camo shorts, tank top and some lynx body spray. Works like a charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is going to sound likei dont make much effort - always shower shave and oil my whole body - hair is mad curly so leave to dry by itself - paint toe and fingernails and a little makeup only - clothes are smart and play clothes are minimal if anything at all - im just simple like that (no sarky comments tvm )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much effort for a social as I would a meet.

You never get a second chance at a first impression

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear, "

Good grief no.

I'm clean, smell of Chanel No.5 and look very appealing in suitable clothing I already own.

I don't do make up or nails, my dreads need nothing more than washing and I find fake tan abhorrent.

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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Socks and sandals, camo shorts, tank top and some lynx body spray. Works like a charm "

Bet the ladies love it

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"New under wear maybe.. look nice so I feel good but I wouldn't bother with tan or getting my nails done but then I can be very lazy lol "

Not having a fake tan or nails is NOT lazy.

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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"this is going to sound likei dont make much effort - always shower shave and oil my whole body - hair is mad curly so leave to dry by itself - paint toe and fingernails and a little makeup only - clothes are smart and play clothes are minimal if anything at all - im just simple like that (no sarky comments tvm )"

No it doesn't sound like you make no effort

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear, "

I routinely get my eyebrows threaded, paint my toes, and the usual shower, shave, hair etc etc etc

I also delight in selecting the right lingerie and outfit for the event too

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New under wear maybe.. look nice so I feel good but I wouldn't bother with tan or getting my nails done but then I can be very lazy lol

Not having a fake tan or nails is NOT lazy."

Fake tan and nails arent for some people anyway, myself included.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Shower, shave....etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always nice to make an effort..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is going to sound likei dont make much effort - always shower shave and oil my whole body - hair is mad curly so leave to dry by itself - paint toe and fingernails and a little makeup only - clothes are smart and play clothes are minimal if anything at all - im just simple like that (no sarky comments tvm )

No it doesn't sound like you make no effort "

thank you xxx - just some seem to spend ages and a fortune on meets - i just dont have the time or money and dont think its necessary - no complaints so im happy enough

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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"this is going to sound likei dont make much effort - always shower shave and oil my whole body - hair is mad curly so leave to dry by itself - paint toe and fingernails and a little makeup only - clothes are smart and play clothes are minimal if anything at all - im just simple like that (no sarky comments tvm )

No it doesn't sound like you make no effort

I think in my case, I make the effort for me, it makes me look and think different,, not so mumsy,,

thank you xxx - just some seem to spend ages and a fortune on meets - i just dont have the time or money and dont think its necessary - no complaints so im happy enough "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socks and sandals, camo shorts, tank top and some lynx body spray. Works like a charm

Bet the ladies love it "

It's the personality that counts anyway, right?

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By *eovilcouple76 OP   Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Socks and sandals, camo shorts, tank top and some lynx body spray. Works like a charm

Bet the ladies love it

It's the personality that counts anyway, right?"

Yeah, personality is a must,, but the sandals are an option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make as much effort as i do when i go out normally. I always do my hair anyway ...my nails are always manicured, I'm normally shaved/waxed, i don't leave the house without makeup. I don't buy new outfits/lingerie as i have plenty to choose from....no extra effort at all.

Just wondering really, cause sometimes it's took me longer to get ready for a meet, than the meet actually lasted, wonder if I'm making too much of an effort "

Well from start To finish I'm ready in 30 mins...

Shower and shave (if needed) 5-10 mins depending, dressed 2mins...5 if something needs ironing make up 5 mins dry hair and curl/straighten 10-15 mins then I'm good to go. That's exactly the same time it takes me to get ready for work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socks and sandals, camo shorts, tank top and some lynx body spray. Works like a charm "

You smooth bastard!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave. make sure down below is tidy. Shower thoroughly using ph neutral shower gel. Body spray. Aftershave. make sure hair is tidy.

Make sure boots are clean. Make sure my clothes are cleaned and pressed.

Text lady as I'm leaving to meet her.

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

I go to extreme lengths just to please my Dom for any arranged meets.Naturally I'm his trophy/show pony/sub whore on display,if you like to call it that..as he does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a meet/night out in a swingers club I make an effort to look like I do in my photos! That's who people want to meet so that's who they meet! Therefore my hair and make-up are done (I go for a fairly natural look so doesn't take hours), I'm freshly shaved/trimmed, I wear nice lingerie with figure flattering clothes over the top, and I smell nice!! I also make sure I post up to date pictures that aren't photo-shopped etc so people who meet me can be confident that I look like my pictures - not 10 years older or several stone heavier!

I don't do nails though - my nails are crap - so in the unlikely event that this is a deal breaker for a guy - then I'm not for him! Xx

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Bath and shave, either let hair dry naturally as curly or take an hour straightening it depending on how much time I have, stick on false nails, do makeup, choose from extensive lingerie collection, discard first three choices, same with outer layer....can take 2 hours easy

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear, "

Generally the same as I would for a night out. Nothing fake here.

I would wear nice lingerie, maybe a corset etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear,

Generally the same as I would for a night out. Nothing fake here.

I would wear nice lingerie, maybe a corset etc "

I'm impressed when a woman can go completely non fake. I have to at least style my hair and put on some make up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to make an effort to look good.. Makes me feel more sexy and confident!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nice to make an effort to look good.. Makes me feel more sexy and confident!"

You look good to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nice to make an effort to look good.. Makes me feel more sexy and confident!

You look good to me x"

Thank you

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's nice to make an effort to look good.. Makes me feel more sexy and confident!"

As long as you realise that not wearing make up, false tan, nails and all that malarkey is still 'effort'.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I don't wear make up other than a bit of lippy so when we go to the club you get us clean, shaved and smiling

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Always make an effort to look good and spend ages getting ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nice to make an effort to look good.. Makes me feel more sexy and confident!

As long as you realise that not wearing make up, false tan, nails and all that malarkey is still 'effort'."

I hardly ever wear make-up, don't use any kind of fake tan and I do my hair n nails like I would if I was going up town! So it's actually not much effort at all...

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear,

Generally the same as I would for a night out. Nothing fake here.

I would wear nice lingerie, maybe a corset etc

I'm impressed when a woman can go completely non fake. I have to at least style my hair and put on some make up..."

I would apply makeup and fix my hair (badly) but cba with the other adds-ons

I don't think I've ever had my nails done or a facial(oo-er)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I make the same effort as for going to meet anyone.

Shower etc. clothes I feel nice in, I keep my nails neat anyway and I don't wear makeup as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make an effort for work and going out with friends and family, so always have manicured nails, a light tan, hair done and some level of make up applied.

I may spend a little more time preparing for a meet by being freshly shaven and choosing an outfit, but never buy anything specially (except maybe new hold ups) - I do all my beauty treatments myself and have a drawer full of sexy lingerie.

No worries about not looking like my pics as most of my friends only and private photos are from recent meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,dress smart,hair done,slap on ,and off i go

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always make an effort but thiz does not include fake tan, false nails and a face full of make up i dont wear that stuff at other times so wont for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the ladies, but men welcome too, how much effort do you or would you make when going out to play,,

Would you get your hair, nails done, go get a tan or maybe new underwear, "

Would probably give the balls a scrub

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

I love to take a long bath, shave every nook and cranny lol. Do my hair and make up, put a nice dress on. I try to make an effort

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