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Penetration - do you need it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I dont mind not fucking because i dont always enjoy it, i just never know if i will but sometimes i do. I like lots of other things, just touching, giving oral sex or using my toy, it depends on what you feel like doing at the time, what mood you are in or who you are with sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont mind not fucking because i dont always enjoy it, i just never know if i will but sometimes i do. I like lots of other things, just touching, giving oral sex or using my toy, it depends on what you feel like doing at the time, what mood you are in or who you are with sometimes."

Thanks for replying. I totally get what you mean about it depending upon your mood or company. fingers crossed we find the lady who likes the company but isn't in the mood lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short answer, yes.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Personally, yes.

But not everyone, clearly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See now I've confused myself... Are you saying yes to meeting for soft swing or yes you would need penetration?

Schoolgirl error for my first forum post, I apologise!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

It's not essential but if it was completely ruled out before meeting i would decline. If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby

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By *lueeyedbrunetteWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Defo need penetration, I crave it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

I wouldn't - no!

I'd say I was more bi-friendly than bi though - and I'm a major penetration fan - nothing feels as good as a real cock - so sex without penetration with a lovely man's cock wouldn't feel complete to me! Happy to pleasure a hot woman whilst her hot husband fucks me though! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love it makes me so wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, need it, want it all the time xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X

It's not essential but if it was completely ruled out before meeting i would decline. If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby "

But you would be playing with both parties, he just wouldn't penetrate you. And the lady we play with definitely wouldn't be a 'toy', it would be 3 adults enjoying themselves in equal measures. He may fuck me, he may not... He just definitely wouldn't be fucking her. There's plenty more 3 people can do together, some of it much more sensual but equally as satisfying as fucking.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X

It's not essential but if it was completely ruled out before meeting i would decline. If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby

But you would be playing with both parties, he just wouldn't penetrate you. And the lady we play with definitely wouldn't be a 'toy', it would be 3 adults enjoying themselves in equal measures. He may fuck me, he may not... He just definitely wouldn't be fucking her. There's plenty more 3 people can do together, some of it much more sensual but equally as satisfying as fucking. "

So its a bit of a touch and tease then the lucky single lady gets to sit and watch you fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X

It's not essential but if it was completely ruled out before meeting i would decline. If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby

But you would be playing with both parties, he just wouldn't penetrate you. And the lady we play with definitely wouldn't be a 'toy', it would be 3 adults enjoying themselves in equal measures. He may fuck me, he may not... He just definitely wouldn't be fucking her. There's plenty more 3 people can do together, some of it much more sensual but equally as satisfying as fucking.

So its a bit of a touch and tease then the lucky single lady gets to sit and watch you fuck "

That's not what I've described or what's happened for us previously.. Usually im licking her pussy or fucking her with toys etc IF he fucks me. I believe this is quite normal in FFM situations, regardless of which girl is in which position.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"
no..if i want just ff play ill meet a single female..part of seeing a couple is about having both experiences..equal dynamics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration is nice but for us it's not the absolute goal. We love foreplay and teasing if we cum before we get to penetration that's fine by us. Sometimes we just enjoy watching eachother wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I prefer a MFF where there is no girl on girl. Just us both ruining the lucky man and sharing a bottle of wine whilst he recovers. Penetration is key. No sex. No meet. I have no intention of getting it on with her just to feel involved. Meh. I'd rather have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is a man present and he's fucking,I'd want him to fuck me. Oral only,unless it's with one of my regular partners,bores me and I don't enjoy toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make me want to ask the question,if the f can use toys on the other woman,why can't the m use his cock?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It does make me want to ask the question,if the f can use toys on the other woman,why can't the m use his cock? "
cos we are the walking sex toy..he isnt....thats first rule of meeting fab couples, didnt you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If there is a man present and he's fucking,I'd want him to fuck me. Oral only,unless it's with one of my regular partners,bores me and I don't enjoy toys. "

Yeah, relentless oral is boring and I just end up numb .. Physically and mentally. But I LOVE toys and teasing and kissing etc so I guess we need to find a lady who feels the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make me want to ask the question,if the f can use toys on the other woman,why can't the m use his cock? cos we are the walking sex toy..he isnt....thats first rule of meeting fab couples, didnt you know? "

I must admit,I stopped looking for couples because of that. I don't soft swing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It does make me want to ask the question,if the f can use toys on the other woman,why can't the m use his cock? "

Because he doesn't want to. I enjoy playing with a lady, he enjoys playing with other ladies with me, he just doesn't want to fuck them.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It does make me want to ask the question,if the f can use toys on the other woman,why can't the m use his cock?

Because he doesn't want to. I enjoy playing with a lady, he enjoys playing with other ladies with me, he just doesn't want to fuck them. "
ahh well, happy unicorn hunting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make me want to ask the question,if the f can use toys on the other woman,why can't the m use his cock?

Because he doesn't want to. I enjoy playing with a lady, he enjoys playing with other ladies with me, he just doesn't want to fuck them. "

Sorry,that was a generic question as a lot of couples don't want penetration. I was wondering why so many don't. I suppose if they already have someone to fuck they aren't missing anything. I'm not a married man though,so it's an uneducated guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is another reason clubs don't interest me. They have to limit single men; if the men in couples are like many on here,and don't fuck other women,I'm not going to bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me longer to cum from playing with my Clit but it's always more intense. So when I'm with a women, I don't need to go that far.

With most men I love to be teased, expect shivers. We are awful and often going from kissing to him being inside me as I'm just to inpatient and get way to turned on

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Can't do soft swing I would get too horny, defo need penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitley would need penetration... I don't get off on purely clit stimulation any more, if someone else uses toys to penetrate me I can't cum, barely anyone can make me cum through oral and not many can make me cum with just fingers either. Whereas with a cock I know the positions that'll do it for me.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We don't actively meet soft swing, has to be penetration for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past i've been on a few meets where i wasn't interested in being penetrated and yes we all still had fun .

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We've done it both ways.

We do enjoy fingers and tongues etc.

I can understand some thinking it's about putting on a show but it's not really. It's just about doing what you enjoy.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best part of meeting a single woman is seeing my husband fuck her.... Only topped by her licking my pussy at the same time;-)

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"That's not what I've described or what's happened for us previously.. Usually im licking her pussy or fucking her with toys etc IF he fucks me. I believe this is quite normal in FFM situations, regardless of which girl is in which position. "

Is it?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

No I deffo need a dick inside me, love how it's feels when done right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of our meets are soft swing , and penetration is never a given . We don't necessarily go into a meet saying we won't fuck , but more often than not there's no need .

It can hardly be said that anyone goes away from meeting us less than satisfied either . Be that men or women , so the emphasis on fucking is lost on us .

When we meet a single woman she is certainly never there as our performing seal either , nor does she have to watch us fuck . It's a three way thing , and after meeting 20 different single bi females ( all more than once ) , there have been no complaints at all .

Meeting couples for fun is again a mutually satisfying experience , and again we have met most of then more than once . There are ways to enjoy meets without fucking which in our opinion can be far more enjoyable than wham bam thank you Mam .

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

We have had some wonderful and satisfying soft swing meets, so for us penetration isn't essential at all.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

well we havent met up wit many and we are still finding our feet but we have always done full swap or fully, was our first soft swing with a new couple only a couple of nights ago and realised the sex really doesnt bother us, we all enjoyed ourselves to the fullest and it was a great night really. it didnt really cross our mind but would suppose it would depend on who with (personality wise) which would create whatever mood aswell really, or even if its said in the first place im sure if everyone gets on it all makes a great time

x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Penetration is great its even better when its tease offered but not always given turn into a reward but I would say that being the kinky sod I can and yes our minds are our greatest and best sexual organ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Some of the best meets we've had have been soft play. If with the right couple then it can be far more creative than just shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

Possibly- does my other half get to fuck you or is it complete soft swap?

V x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I wouldn't be interested in this. If he was fucking you and I didn't get any I'd be pissed off..and replacing cock with a toy wouldn't do it for me either. I like a nice warm hard cock.

I'm sure there's plenty that would though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm useless at actually fucking, can't stay hard long enough . Much prefer oral and finger work.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X

well we havent met up wit many and we are still finding our feet but we have always done full swap or fully, was our first soft swing with a new couple only a couple of nights ago and realised the sex really doesnt bother us, we all enjoyed ourselves to the fullest and it was a great night really. it didnt really cross our mind but would suppose it would depend on who with (personality wise) which would create whatever mood aswell really, or even if its said in the first place im sure if everyone gets on it all makes a great time

x "

didnt quite read the last of this post but to us its only foreplay for all involved or full on, no inbetween.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a brilliant meet recently were we only fooled Around with oral.

But no I would not meet a couple if the rules were he couldn't fuck me. One of those situations it you told me I couldn't have it I would want it more.

Can I ask? Why does he not penetrate the visiting lady? Surely if you are lucky enough to find another lady to join you you would want to enjoy her fully?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I have had a brilliant meet recently were we only fooled Around with oral.

But no I would not meet a couple if the rules were he couldn't fuck me. One of those situations it you told me I couldn't have it I would want it more.

Can I ask? Why does he not penetrate the visiting lady? Surely if you are lucky enough to find another lady to join you you would want to enjoy her fully?"

I'm sure everyone is different. But for us it's just personal preference at the moment. We've done full swap before, we'll probably do it again. But at the moment we are enjoying swinging without it.

Does not mean he will get to fuck the wife either. We've done meets with all different types of combining scenarios.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

I'm not bi or meet couples but don't always have penetrative sex with meets. With one, I don't even get undressed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

penatration isn't important for me i much prefer the foreplay/oral, i don't meet couples though but happy with just soft play with men

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Its not everything however I would miss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends,

Sometimes I don't even get to penetration before I've finished

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Has to be penetration every time both ways too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Him here, wow, thanks for the replies, it makes interesting reading. I can understand some girls needs to be penetrated and I can assure everyone that nobody is 'used as a sex toy' and dumped. I have manners and morals and would never dream of it. I suppose it is odd BUT I really have no desire to fuck a girl right in front of my wife. It would do nothing for her nor me. We love the long slow tease, kissing, toys, kink, touching, oral, role play, dirty talk etc. The mind is the most powerful sex organ and through all of the above, I can assure you that all 3 of us had cum multiple times and were fully sated at the end. It's horses for courses but we want a drawn out erotic experience, not some quick one off shag. Each to their own I suppose. Be safe people and happy swinging x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I do really like it but sometimes don't get there because I've been all worn out other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

i like soft lots of bi fun i can play all night with a bi fem but do like cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby "

That's why I stopped meeting couples and why my profile now says straight. Too many women in relationships with rules a mile long who don't want u to enjoy their partner. Ur just their to suck his cock. Bugger that for a game of soldiers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes I want penetration. And good penetration at that. I don't want ur mrs with a strap on either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes penetration needed here,toys isn't enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about bp me with you and a butt plug

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again "

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby

That's why I stopped meeting couples and why my profile now says straight. Too many women in relationships with rules a mile long who don't want u to enjoy their partner. Ur just their to suck his cock. Bugger that for a game of soldiers"

What makes you think it's the woman with the rules?! WE want fun with another lady (and it would be no fun for us if she isn't enjoying herself) but HE has no desire nor need to fuck someone else. Some men can make their own rules up.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me I love penetration and would live my cock in a loverly women however it doesnt make me cum lol

I love watching women wank as I wank as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole. "

problem is some people aren't satisfied without penatrive sex so for those i guess it look a bit like you don't care about the 3rd parties needs

ive never been that keen on penatrive sex so to have a soft swing meet is idea for me, its hard to find though as very few men will meet you with a full shag

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole. "

I cant think of anything more revolting than sharing used toys. Unless i witnessed then being properly cleaned/sterilised before use then forget it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole. "

I understand what your saying and if you found a women who is haooy with that then great but judging by the comments on here most women would want to be fucked with the real thing not a toy to complete the experience, we all have our bounderies and wants so if you found or find a women that wants or is haloy with the same as you fantastic and i hooe you all have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 2 random words are happy fat fingers and a small phone haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole.

I cant think of anything more revolting than sharing used toys. Unless i witnessed then being properly cleaned/sterilised before use then forget it!"

Him again lol. Eeeew, totally understand and that is why girls can either bring their own toys or if we are sharing anything penetrative, then we use condoms over the dildo or whatever. There is no such thing as total safe sex but we can reduce the risk of diseases etc Best to be safe than sorry. Condoms, wipes and anti bac gel is by no means a passion killer, STDs most certainly are though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabulous ladies of Fab, particularly bi ladies, do you think penetration is necessary for you to enjoy a meet/sexual encounter?

We realise it's a huge part of sex for most of us and is the ultimate goal for some but we also know we've had some amazing times when we haven't actually fucked, whether that's just oral, using hands, toys, teasing, etc. Occasionally we've even just talked eachother into a frenzy and cum with minimal physical contact .. The mind is a powerful tool!

Anyway, I'm rambling but what I'm really asking is would you consider meeting a soft swing couple if the only boundary is that the husband wouldn't fuck you but anything else goes?

X"

What you've described covers some of our best ever meets. It's not the be-all for D to fuck the female and we love meeting couples where they feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. We're a soft swap couple and we have never had any complaint nor come away unsatisfied

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

As I am New to all this I would be happy without as its all a new experience so why not....

Much fun can be had without penetration. Hope you find what yr looking for x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Not for me. I prefer a MFF where there is no girl on girl. Just us both ruining the lucky man and sharing a bottle of wine whilst he recovers. Penetration is key. No sex. No meet. I have no intention of getting it on with her just to feel involved. Meh. I'd rather have a wank. "

Me too

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

A toy is totally different from a hot guys cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best meets have always been with people who are not obsessed with penetration, there is so much more fun to be had rather than just penetration, imagination is the key x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


" If i am to meet a couple i want to play with both parties. I am not a sex toy to be used by the lady to put on a live porn show for her hubby

That's why I stopped meeting couples and why my profile now says straight. Too many women in relationships with rules a mile long who don't want u to enjoy their partner. Ur just their to suck his cock. Bugger that for a game of soldiers

What makes you think it's the woman with the rules?! WE want fun with another lady (and it would be no fun for us if she isn't enjoying herself) but HE has no desire nor need to fuck someone else. Some men can make their own rules up. "
thats fine as long as you tell the woman beforehand and you cant speak for the fact, she was fully sated, unless she agreed to soft swap..so do what you enjoy, with those that agree to it..but you asked for di fem opinions and i like all that you have stated but meeting a couple im not going to agree to no penetration..thats also my choice, i would feel i was there under rules and not equal, thats my perogative x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all about the dicking. Far more important that a bit of licking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the key point here, is that you're asking *ladies*, not *couples*. It's very easy to say soft swing only when you're inviting another couple over....because should anyone wish to partake, penetration is there on offer. But you're specifically asking the opinion of single fems. So you are denying the 3rd party one of the main avenues for sexual pleasure. I've happily used toys on fem friends before (yes with condoms...), and in clubs I've played with couples without penetration perfectly happily....but would I visit a couple's house as a single fem knowing penetration was definitely off the cards? Personally, definitely not. If I could bring a friend then sure, but again that's not what you're asking....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole. "

Dismissing the desire for penetration as wanting to "ram a cock in a hole" is entirely missing the point, in my opinion. There's so much more to penetration than the actual "ramming it in the hole" as so eloquently described. It's the touch, the movement, the weight of the body on yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole.

Dismissing the desire for penetration as wanting to "ram a cock in a hole" is entirely missing the point, in my opinion. There's so much more to penetration than the actual "ramming it in the hole" as so eloquently described. It's the touch, the movement, the weight of the body on yours. "

Exactly!

It's the teasing before they enter you, the exquisite feeling as they oh so slowly slide in, before (hopefully) withdrawing again, feeling your body mould to accommodate their length. The way their pick your legs up to thrust in, the look in their eyes as they watch your face as they thrust.

It's more than poking a hole. So much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole. "

I love all the teasing,licking,touching and sucking too,just not with the woman. I like to play with a pussy sometimes,everything else I do with a man and want the other woman to do it to him also. That's my prefered mff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole.

Dismissing the desire for penetration as wanting to "ram a cock in a hole" is entirely missing the point, in my opinion. There's so much more to penetration than the actual "ramming it in the hole" as so eloquently described. It's the touch, the movement, the weight of the body on yours.

Exactly!

It's the teasing before they enter you, the exquisite feeling as they oh so slowly slide in, before (hopefully) withdrawing again, feeling your body mould to accommodate their length. The way their pick your legs up to thrust in, the look in their eyes as they watch your face as they thrust.

It's more than poking a hole. So much more."

Penetration with a penis is 100 times better than any toy.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole.

Dismissing the desire for penetration as wanting to "ram a cock in a hole" is entirely missing the point, in my opinion. There's so much more to penetration than the actual "ramming it in the hole" as so eloquently described. It's the touch, the movement, the weight of the body on yours.

Exactly!

It's the teasing before they enter you, the exquisite feeling as they oh so slowly slide in, before (hopefully) withdrawing again, feeling your body mould to accommodate their length. The way their pick your legs up to thrust in, the look in their eyes as they watch your face as they thrust.

It's more than poking a hole. So much more."

I agree, and love it

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Surely penetration is key and to make it a pleasurable experience all round the 3rd party needs to be the center of attention for the most part, remember at the end of the meet she goes home on her own you will probably be fucking your partner make sure she leaves satisfied and it may just hapoen again

I don't think we've ever said we wouldn't leave her satisfied. Some ladies are more than satisfied with everything other than penetration, we're not looking for a 15 minute shag, we both love all the teasing, touching, kissing, licking, sucking etc and like to play with toys and light bondage etc as well ... There's so much more you can do than ram a cock in a hole. "

I agree with this and your earlier statement about the mind. Ive had encounters where I've barely been touched but ive been left breathless and satisfied. That said though I do crave penetration but certainly not some quickie. Not my bag at all.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I never meet couples alone, prefer mmf or a 4sum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The pattern that seems to be forming here is a lot of couples clearly have lots of sex with eachother and are in no desperate need to fuck anyone else. Singles are having less frequent sex, which is totally logical and so demand it more, which again is understandable. The real key for everybody is to be patient and respect eachother's boundaries. We're not here to notch up numbers, just exploring and enjoying like minded people's company, no dramas.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Give me a cock any day, or preferably every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pattern that seems to be forming here is a lot of couples clearly have lots of sex with eachother and are in no desperate need to fuck anyone else. Singles are having less frequent sex, which is totally logical and so demand it more, which again is understandable. The real key for everybody is to be patient and respect eachother's boundaries. We're not here to notch up numbers, just exploring and enjoying like minded people's company, no dramas."

Not necessarily a lots of couples don't have loads of sex with each other.Also I am single and doesn't mean I am lacking in sex!Is a question of different taste! Not desperation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is another reason clubs don't interest me. They have to limit single men; if the men in couples are like many on here,and don't fuck other women,I'm not going to bother."
true i find in mf couples the woman can fuck other men but the male cant fuck other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When Im with a guy yes need penetration lots, its part of being a couple.

If we were with a girl like OP then no fucking her. Not been the female with a couple but suspect like being single, as I am at mo, dont think want some random guy fucking me, realised need that connection, so again no penetration!

But everybody is different and is what makes the world go aroundx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The pattern that seems to be forming here is a lot of couples clearly have lots of sex with eachother and are in no desperate need to fuck anyone else. Singles are having less frequent sex, which is totally logical and so demand it more, which again is understandable. The real key for everybody is to be patient and respect eachother's boundaries. We're not here to notch up numbers, just exploring and enjoying like minded people's company, no dramas.

Not necessarily a lots of couples don't have loads of sex with each other.Also I am single and doesn't mean I am lacking in sex!Is a question of different taste! Not desperation!"

I apologise if you feel insulted but feel this has been misconstrued slightly. Couples are not necessarily desperate for sex as this is probably already on tap. Singles are more likely to demand it as they have put all the effort in, sometimes for weeks chatting on here and so they would feel somewhat cheated if there was no full sex at the end. I never once mentioned that singles were desperate at all. It's a numbers game. The shame being that some people profess they are sexperts due to the amount of sex they have and are proud to show numerous verifications for their efforts. If my wife verified me every time we had sex, the verification list would be endless. This isn't me boasting, just merely pointing out statistics. Some people are filling their boots, others are choosy. Again, each to their own. Sex is not a competition to me. I'm not here to win a medal, just to have some naughty giggles.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"This is another reason clubs don't interest me. They have to limit single men; if the men in couples are like many on here,and don't fuck other women,I'm not going to bother.true i find in mf couples the woman can fuck other men but the male cant fuck other women."
why would you meet a MF couple if youre not into women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is another reason clubs don't interest me. They have to limit single men; if the men in couples are like many on here,and don't fuck other women,I'm not going to bother.true i find in mf couples the woman can fuck other men but the male cant fuck other women.why would you meet a MF couple if youre not into women"

Lol, I see lots like this. I feel people just aren't being fully honest

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By *hingford manMan
over a year ago

highams park East London

No

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The pattern that seems to be forming here is a lot of couples clearly have lots of sex with eachother and are in no desperate need to fuck anyone else. Singles are having less frequent sex, which is totally logical and so demand it more, which again is understandable. The real key for everybody is to be patient and respect eachother's boundaries. We're not here to notch up numbers, just exploring and enjoying like minded people's company, no dramas."
nothing to do with a lack of sex..its what i want, when i meet a couple..these days, its easier to pull in another 2 singles for a threesome or more. ..equal dynamic, no drama..that's the swingles revolution..its cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only neeeeeeed penetration if I'm so aroused I'll climb the walls without it, which I can honestly say has never happened during a first meet situation, so no, for meets/clubs etc it doesn't bother me if there is no penetration, I can have a fun time without.

Mrs x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Yes it is...if at an arranged meet.

However if at a club & less was proposed by a Lady we both found attractive then we'd go with it. Your going to have fun anyway..

xx

S&H

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By *revorAndTraceyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

We just go with the flow, losing ourselves in the mmmmm

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes I find the meet a let down if I don't get fucked

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We only have penetrative sex with each other but have had some incredibly erotic encounters with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love my lady playtimes - but crave the fella at the end - but no it isnt essential to have a fuck at a meet- lots of my gf love the toys and enjoy dildo and strapon fun but i dont need that - happy with the sensual stuff -

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

I've never been penetrated, nor do I have a desire to be.

Now penetrating, yes please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to do dick sucks and bum lick meets with a wank to completion into my mouth without having full sex with the dude. Would satisfy me and I wouldn't have any of the agg that comes from sex. I've met guys before and only done this sort of meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be happy to do dick sucks and bum lick meets with a wank to completion into my mouth without having full sex with the dude. Would satisfy me and I wouldn't have any of the agg that comes from sex. I've met guys before and only done this sort of meet. "

If only more lady's where like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bi so defo need the penetration repeatedly for satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is another reason clubs don't interest me. They have to limit single men; if the men in couples are like many on here,and don't fuck other women,I'm not going to bother.true i find in mf couples the woman can fuck other men but the male cant fuck other women."

Very rare is this the case in our experience and then we simply don't play with the couple xx

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

As long as I could go with a woman (I am the woman by the way) for a short while no wouldn't have to full swap.

Just having sex with others around is sexy really!

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