FabSwingers.com forum: Is it all about the fucking?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last night we went to Abfabs, long story short Jools and I ended up in a cabin with a guy with a rather huge thick cock. After some initial wanking. Jools then slipped on a flavoured condom and started giving him a rather splendid blow job.

He then asked to fuck her.

due to a rather lively meet the previous day she was a tad tender also the guy's cock was Frickin huge.

She said no, but was happy to complete him via oral,hand.

While he was not rude, he clearly didn't like this and got the hump.

Got dressed very quickly and walked out.

Leaving Jools and I feeling a bit odd.

Is this common?

Would other's get the hump in this situation?

Perhaps we should have explained before starting, so partly our fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex is never to be expected - we wouldnt take the hump over this -

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

Strange, I'd be more than happy for a hand job off jools!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably the condom for oral that got him grumpy

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I would have been over the moon with a bj

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have been over the moon with a bj"

Exactly. I thought so to.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Last night we went to Abfabs, long story short Jools and I ended up in a cabin with a guy with a rather huge thick cock. After some initial wanking. Jools then slipped on a flavoured condom and started giving him a rather splendid blow job.

He then asked to fuck her.

due to a rather lively meet the previous day she was a tad tender also the guy's cock was Frickin huge.

She said no, but was happy to complete him via oral,hand.

While he was not rude, he clearly didn't like this and got the hump.

Got dressed very quickly and walked out.

Leaving Jools and I feeling a bit odd.

Is this common?

Would other's get the hump in this situation?

Perhaps we should have explained before starting, so partly our fault.

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while most might be willing to soft swap, you should have said before taking him to the room..yes i would and have, got the hump over people getting me naked and then saying i cant full swap.this is using him as an accessory and i would have got up and walked out too..simply cos you didnt tell me before hand thats what you wanted...makes you feel used...my opinion ...

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

People get upset for all manner of reasons, but did you explain that Jools was feeling tender and he might be a bit much for her? Otherwise, he may have just interpreted it as a form of rejection. Or, he might just be a total dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of got up and left the second a condom was put on my cock for a bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would of got up and left the second a condom was put on my cock for a bj

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He then asked to fuck her.

due to a rather lively meet the previous day she was a tad tender also the guy's cock was Frickin huge.

She said no, but was happy to complete him via oral,hand.

While he was not rude, he clearly didn't like this and got the hump.

Got dressed very quickly and walked out.

Leaving Jools and I feeling a bit odd.

Is this common?

Would other's get the hump in this situation?

Perhaps we should have explained before starting, so partly our fault.

Is this common?

No- most people would expect playou to lead to fucking unless discussed otherwise.

Yes- I would get the hump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the key

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Perhaps we should have explained before starting, so partly our fault.

Partly your fault but no one should take anything for granted.

Not something to get the hump about, whould he be dissapointed , yes, but that's life

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you knew that you had a limit you should have explained it before. He behaved well by accepting your limit and leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather respect someones wishes and chat. I mean, whats the worst that can happen, im sure if you find chemistry between the both of you then theres always time to meet up and get down to it next time surely??

I never go to a social with the intention of getting my end away, rather get to know that person...if theres a spark then great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He then asked to fuck her.

due to a rather lively meet the previous day she was a tad tender also the guy's cock was Frickin huge.

She said no, but was happy to complete him via oral,hand.

While he was not rude, he clearly didn't like this and got the hump.

Got dressed very quickly and walked out.

Leaving Jools and I feeling a bit odd.

Is this common?

Would other's get the hump in this situation?

Perhaps we should have explained before starting, so partly our fault.

"
hand job sounds like a car wash or something a hooker would charge £20 for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He then asked to fuck her.

due to a rather lively meet the previous day she was a tad tender also the guy's cock was Frickin huge.

She said no, but was happy to complete him via oral,hand.

While he was not rude, he clearly didn't like this and got the hump.

Got dressed very quickly and walked out.

Leaving Jools and I feeling a bit odd.

Is this common?

Would other's get the hump in this situation?

Perhaps we should have explained before starting, so partly our fault.

while most might be willing to soft swap, you should have said before taking him to the room..yes i would and have, got the hump over people getting me naked and then saying i cant full swap.this is using him as an accessory and i would have got up and walked out too..simply cos you didnt tell me before hand thats what you wanted...makes you feel used...my opinion ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP you weren't wrong. Nothing is set in stone and shouldn't be expected. It's your body and you decide what happens. They goes for every person involved.

Playing in clubs is great when spontaneous, who wants to discuss everything that might happen before you go into a room.

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