FabSwingers.com forum: Male photos on a couples profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On our travels on the swinging scene we've noticed a lack of photos of the men on a couples profile. I admit we haven't got loads of the male half on our profile but that is due to being a bit camera shy on his part but we do have face pics on there of him. However we are getting more of him on there soon

But it seems 90% of couples profiles that's we've seen anyway only show photos of the woman even when there's over 50 photographs in a gallery and every one is of the female half.

Is anyone else finding is? As us personally like to see photos of both of the people we could potentially meet to see if there is any attraction there.

R & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the male half of the other couples is camera shy and going to get some pics up son themselves.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like your male thay could just be camera shy ...... or there job and have to take care. Some only show friends .. its up to them as each persons diffrent here and what thay do with there photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are one of those couples. We do have pics of Chris, full face, pics of us together, regulation cock pic but these pics are all private. It is his choice that he doesnt show himself to people who have no interest in meeting us and are just browsing profiles, we only send out these pics to potential meets. I would love to take a pic of him naked draped in fur and wearing diamantes, he wont do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if some folk concentrated more on their own profiles instead of criticising others.whose business is it what people put on their profile.if you dont like it,dont contact them.simple.

We only have myself as we play with guys so are attracting guys,as i am straight.if we wantrd ladies there are pics of mr.c in our private album

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

To be honest we didn't really think about pics of him I was to busy posing for mine! Our pics aren't very good though, need to get them updtated soon!

We have normal pics of us together as a couple we send out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We wasn't critisizing anyone we just wondered if people have found the same. Each to their own if they put photos on or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe if some folk concentrated more on their own profiles instead of criticising others.whose business is it what people put on their profile.if you dont like it,dont contact them.simple.

We only have myself as we play with guys so are attracting guys,as i am straight.if we wantrd ladies there are pics of mr.c in our private album"

*Nods in agreement*

It's getting worse in here every day: people scrutinising other's profiles and starting threads about it.

Why is that?!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Damn, another Derby couple who don't meet singles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make it clear why there`s no pics of male half on our profile............... Its because I`m a MINGER.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

We make it clear why there`s no pics of male half on our profile............... Its because I`m a MINGER.

I've seen a pic of you, and you're no kidding!!!!

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

i would get in pics but there wouldnt be much to see with me having to black out tatoos, there is a few where i have tried to hide the tattoos and worked ok but only so much i can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only want single guys so dont think they will be interested in pics of him.if in the future we decided we wanted to meet couples I agree then we would need pics of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make it clear why there`s no pics of male half on our profile............... Its because I`m a MINGER.

I've seen a pic of you, and you're no kidding!!!!

Thanks Wends, at last you seem to agree with me on something, feeling better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't think it's a question of "criticising" peoples profiles at all.

All it comes down to is that, if your a couple looking to meet other couples, it makes complete sense to have at least one pic of the guy on your profile.

After all couples meeting couples are wanting to play with both partners not just the woman, even if both women are bi.

If there are no pics of the guy on a profile we do, as some have suggested, ignore it, we wonder how many do likewise?

Surely if your a couple looking to meet couples then it's in your own interest to add at least one pic of the guy.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the above. If we as a couple are going to play with a couple we like to

see pics of both. There are face pics of me in private and we will not meet with people who have no face pics of the male half. Its not really a case of criticising, but it seems common sense to have pics of both avialable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with the above. If we as a couple are going to play with a couple we like to

We also agree with the above. We do sometimes request a photo of the guy and sometimes even then don't get a clear shot. These days we go for those who do have clear photos of both.

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

Agree to .......... mrsd always says ummm no pic of the guy .... no good for us.... in private gallery is ok but there should be some if they are expecting to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have pics of the m in private, if they were public we would never get a meet

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By *anchestercouple2011Couple
over a year ago

stockport

our pics are of me as its single guys we meet , we do have 1 face pic of him in private though not that its really needed as the guy doesnt need to see the other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"our pics are of me as its single guys we meet , we do have 1 face pic of him in private though not that its really needed as the guy doesnt need to see the other half

Yes, but that's different isn't it. What the others are saying is as a couple, seeking to play with other couples they want to see pictures of both - makes sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit daft if your looking for couples to play with, in my experience its often the woman that has the final word on meeting a couple and she's not likely to agree to a meet if she don't know what the fella looks like, at least in our case Lisa won't.

There are so many people to chose from its easier to just move onto another couple that do have pictures of both on the profile than request extra pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we also wont bother with couples if they only have fem pics - a couple is 2 people.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a bit daft if your looking for couples to play with, in my experience its often the woman that has the final word on meeting a couple and she's not likely to agree to a meet if she don't know what the fella looks like, at least in our case Lisa won't.

There are so many people to chose from its easier to just move onto another couple that do have pictures of both on the profile than request extra pictures."

Precisely......that's exactly the way we see it too.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive learnt over time that if you only see the male half of the couple on a profile it will only be the male half on cam in chat wanking.

unless they prove otherwise move on and block them.

if they genuine they will have no issues posting profile pics of both or at least chatting to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equal perving rights.....give me more men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In couples pics I mean.

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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago

halifax

we have always had a picture of us both but then we have always been looking for singles and cpls and to be honest some guys pictures dont do then justice my bam is yummy in person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have always had a picture of us both but then we have always been looking for singles and cpls and to be honest some guys pictures dont do then justice my bam is yummy in person lol

Oi cheeky gits ..........remember where your pics were took !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha! You have a fab figure darlin - deffo not average or ample! X

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"In couples pics I mean.

Lol classic, love it.

We have pics of both of us as we are a couple and play as a couple. We do find it frustrating when there are no pics or no pics of the male on a profile as it can get problematic when you have to ask for a pic and then feel they are not for you.

Still each to their own.

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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago

halifax

would never forget my darlings its true tho my bam is yummy in the flesh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In couples pics I mean.

Lol classic, love it.

Still each to their own."

That's why we just ignore profiles with no guys pics on view.

Asking for a pic of the guy and then finding there's no attraction when you see them can open a whole can of worms.

At least when you have them on view you can reject and be rejected painlessly,lol.

XXXX

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

this is a big bug bear of ours too.. ok if couples are only looking for guys but if they are looking for other couples then can only assume the "other" couple will be so wowed by the look of her that even if he is an ugly git he'd get a look in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tedious when I get a mesage from a couple profile, then they only have the female pics posted....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tedious when I get a mesage from a couple profile, then they only have the female pics posted....

Why not use ignorance when you receive a message from an MF couple seeing as though they do not interest you?

You can now block such messages using the new filters

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I think its very important to have them both on pictures, but even if your a couple only meeting men then I still think the couple should have a picture of the male.

I think if you dont and the single male hasnt communiocated/seen picture of the guy and then when they meet to play the husband frightens the life out of the single male caus he looks like a bear with horns coming out of his head......

The single guy is possibly not gonna feel very comfy and wont necessarly rise to the occasion if he is scared shitless by the husband.

I think it massively improtatnt to see a picture of everyone that will be there at the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tedious when I get a mesage from a couple profile, then they only have the female pics posted....

Why not use ignorance when you receive a message from an MF couple seeing as though they do not interest you?

You can now block such messages using the new filters

I don't block en masse and I try not to " do " ignorance :p-)...note for any couple profiles that message in future, say if it's theM or F messaging lol

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

have added some to ours now so we don't upset anyone and K likesto show off towel rail impersonation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have added some to ours now so we don't upset anyone and K likesto show off towel rail impersonation

Ooh thank you!.........off to have a perv...er peruse the goods.

. Xx

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I quite agree - there aren't enough pics of guys on most couples profiles - including ours! I put it down to the fact that women (and I'm sure quite a few of you will agree) are far more aesthetically pleasing than men. That and "generally speaking" (which of course leaves me open to being shot down on this) men are the ones that dick about with technology and women dont.

I'd love to have lots of pics taken of me for people to perve over, but frankly I'm not that good looking or fit, so aside from the one or two of me to ensure you lovely people that we're a couple - I'm not sure it's worth it!

*Him*

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By *ocksoff3Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We only want single guys so dont think they will be interested in pics of him.if in the future we decided we wanted to meet couples I agree then we would need pics of him.

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn, another Derby couple who don't meet singles....

Aww your reputation must proceed you.. lol I'm open for bribes you know

TO answer, we have one or two of Master on here but no face ones... but we don't play in a manner that its needed. If we want a lady for us both its normally more in a bdsm way, so we would contact them elsewhere... but would send a photo.

KAtie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had exactly the same problem when I was looking for a couple. As soon as they did get round to sending me one of the male half, if was very quickly apparent why they weren't posted on their profile.

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By *ockfairyCouple
over a year ago

preston

righto so for we need to get G on our profile, and we might get more views/meets/paythings lol.... i can sort that out, we just put me coz being new to the scene and looking at others, we thought thats what was warrented....but it can be easily remedied

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By * 1 COUPLECouple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Absolutely agree with most of this post how ridiculous NOT to post male photo's. We all know this is a female dominated scene and if she say's NO its definitely NO..If the female does not like the MR, nothing is going to go forward. So many self obsessed females posting themselves, and I am sorry to disagree if Mr is camera shy get over it or you'll be home alone. Who has ever had a meet when the female has not seen the male, and its all gone hily dory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't think it's a question of "criticising" peoples profiles at all.

All it comes down to is that, if your a couple looking to meet other couples, it makes complete sense to have at least one pic of the guy on your profile.

After all couples meeting couples are wanting to play with both partners not just the woman, even if both women are bi.

If there are no pics of the guy on a profile we do, as some have suggested, ignore it, we wonder how many do likewise?

Surely if your a couple looking to meet couples then it's in your own interest to add at least one pic of the guy.

XXXX"

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