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By *orders-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

To spank a girl during doggy sex im mean real hard spanks I know its a submissive position my shoulders down my arse in the air and his rather large cock in me but do guys have the right to infliced pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you like it, if not tell them to stop or do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly is no ones right to inflict pain on other without consent. SO no doggy does not mean you deserve to be abused.

On the other hand most women do like a spank in my experience, it is the intensity that varies.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Personally I won't do it unless it's been brought up in conversation one way or another and I know it will be well received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To spank a girl during doggy sex im mean real hard spanks I know its a submissive position my shoulders down my arse in the air and his rather large cock in me but do guys have the right to infliced pain"

They have no right whatsoever unless it has been agreed beforehand. I love being spanked but any guy who tried it without it being agreed beforehand would end up talking in a very high voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a gentle playful spank is a good idea, if she responds well, take it up a notch.

Spanking and all this kind of dominant behaviour needs to be done step by step to build trust and an understanding of what your partner likes and what their limits are.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has the right to inflict anything if you dont want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foot on back of head..hair pulling.. degradation...that's what my criminal record states..no mention of slapping arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's definitely a talked about thing to do !! Have do it with a consenting partner which is horny fun !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A light one maybe if talked to befor hand about it etc..

With the trust to a dom from a comment befor.. not all doms can be trusted I lost my trust with mine and will never ever see him again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely no rights at all!

Informed consent and negotiated boundaries are a must

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It is certainly not a right.

Some ladies enjoy a light spank, some like a hard spank...and some do not like being spanked at all. Enjoying "doggy" has nothing to do with their preference regarding spanking. And saying "i thought you would like a spanking because you like doggy" will get you nowhere.

I enjoy spanking a nice derriere....but without consent it is assault.

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

The use of safe words when playing as No should always mean No but can be misinterpreted, play safe pervs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those women who doesn't actually like being spanked (had an awful experience with an ex so it's off limits) if someone decided to spank me during doggy they would feel not only my wrath by hubby's too as he knows how much of an issue it is for me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Of course it's fair game.......

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Of course it's fair game.......

Cal "

Only joking, I personally think that "Proper Spanking" is venturing into fetish behaviour, and as such should only happen if everyone agrees in advance.

A little playful "slap" though is to be expected, certainly no pain though.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I said on a very similar thread earlier, i quite enjoy a cheeky slap to go with all the thrusting...

and of course its fair game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as I said on a very similar thread earlier, i quite enjoy a cheeky slap to go with all the thrusting...

and of course its fair game"

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/532550

two threads....that's just greedy

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No no right at all its assault.

If you have discussed and agreed to things before hand it's acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if agreed too ,if not hubby would be inflicting some too but not to me lol

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't think even a "cheeky slap" is fair game unless it has been discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To spank a girl during doggy sex im mean real hard spanks I know its a submissive position my shoulders down my arse in the air and his rather large cock in me but do guys have the right to infliced pain"

No unless agreed prior

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