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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK I've taken onboard what people have said...

I'm looking to meet a woman that is basically into getting treated rough and love pushing her limits.

Choking, slapping, roleplay, watersports etc...

Are there such women about?

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

Minus watersports, I love a bit of filth (and I KNOW there are plenty of women on Fab and the forums that do too), maybe not to the same extremes as you though LOL

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I do this, for my husband.

For a guy I can trust, in a situation I think is safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are - but to me that just screams porn movie rather than real life!

Personally I like a combination of affection/intimacy with rough, hard, gasping, screaming sex - but not as rough as you've described - and most women I know on here are the same!

You may find someone who likes it all - but I'm unsure as it seems she's doing all the giving in terms of submitting herself for your degradation and you're doing all the taking! I'm wondering what's in it for her? Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of trust required for that kind of sex and I don't think you can establish that with a relative stranger.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


" I'm wondering what's in it for her? Xx"

Being treated that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I've taken onboard what people have said...

I'm looking to meet a woman that is basically into getting treated rough and love pushing her limits.

Choking, slapping, roleplay, watersports etc...

Are there such women about?"

There are plenty of women about who enjoy different variations of what you enjoy and that includes me but I would only practise them with someone trusted who I had known and played with for a while and definitely not for a one off meet...

not sure how other women would feel about it

However I feel you have a harder job than most going off your previous threads/having no veris.. so good luck OP hope you find the 'perfect woman for you'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK I've taken onboard what people have said...

I'm looking to meet a woman that is basically into getting treated rough and love pushing her limits.

Choking, slapping, roleplay, watersports etc...

Are there such women about?

There are plenty of women about who enjoy different variations of what you enjoy and that includes me but I would only practise them with someone trusted who I had known and played with for a while and definitely not for a one off meet...

not sure how other women would feel about it

However I feel you have a harder job than most going off your previous threads/having no veris.. so good luck OP hope you find the 'perfect woman for you' "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm wondering what's in it for her? Xx

Being treated that way? "

Yeah I guess! I just meant for me the 'rough' needs to come with a combination of intimacy and gentleness!

Guess we're all different though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it rough. Watersports and degradation aren't my thing but choking, slapping, throat fucking, hair pulling etc is right up my street. Having said all that it's only good being sub if your Dom looks after you and gives you what you need...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm wondering what's in it for her? Xx

Being treated that way?

Yeah I guess! I just meant for me the 'rough' needs to come with a combination of intimacy and gentleness!

Guess we're all different though! "

No we're not really... There has to be some intimacy and tenderness otherwise what's the point of the sex?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I've taken onboard what people have said...

I'm looking to meet a woman that is basically into getting treated rough and love pushing her limits.

Choking, slapping, roleplay, watersports etc...

Are there such women about?"

Yes. Except the water sports.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

There are indeed. But you may find they don't play that way with everyone (I know I definitely don't) and without some serious getting to know each other time, build up of trust and discussion about limits etc. When it clicks, it clicks and then it's not about what one or the other person wants but about what you both want. And it's magic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are indeed. But you may find they don't play that way with everyone (I know I definitely don't) and without some serious getting to know each other time, build up of trust and discussion about limits etc. When it clicks, it clicks and then it's not about what one or the other person wants but about what you both want. And it's magic."

I agree yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being man-handled, used roughly and fucked hard - BUT - only by someone that I've got to know and have learned to trust!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im glad you took what people said on board. This thread actually tells people what your looking for. There are plenty on here into that sort of thing, but its also the type of thing people need trust for.

Theres a court case at the moment where a guy "accidently" choked a woman to death throuh sexual play

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Im glad you took what people said on board. This thread actually tells people what your looking for. There are plenty on here into that sort of thing, but its also the type of thing people need trust for.

Theres a court case at the moment where a guy "accidently" choked a woman to death throuh sexual play"

Control is an aspect of rough play, and that, to me, is that the person doing the controlling is in control of themselves also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I've taken onboard what people have said...

I'm looking to meet a woman that is basically into getting treated rough and love pushing her limits.

Choking, slapping, roleplay, watersports etc...

Are there such women about?"

I'd say a lot of women are into that kind of stuff providing you get to know them a little bit beforehand and you've established some trust in each other.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"I'm sure there are - but to me that just screams porn movie rather than real life!

Personally I like a combination of affection/intimacy with rough, hard, gasping, screaming sex - but not as rough as you've described - and most women I know on here are the same!

You may find someone who likes it all - but I'm unsure as it seems she's doing all the giving in terms of submitting herself for your degradation and you're doing all the taking! I'm wondering what's in it for her? Xx"

Loads of orgasms?

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