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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a meet at a club has been arranged but not the time, you've not heard from her in a few days and your most recent messages haven't been read. How long before you accept its probably not happening?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When a meet at a club has been arranged but not the time, you've not heard from her in a few days and your most recent messages haven't been read. How long before you accept its probably not happening?"

Around about now I would say. Has the lady been on and not read?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Currently online and unread kik messages ah well, a shame.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Currently online and unread kik messages ah well, a shame."

onwards and upwards

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Mmm. Probably long before this.

Sorry, dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently online and unread kik messages ah well, a shame."

It's not 'a shame' it's rudeness on her part! If she's changed her mind/can't meet she should have the courtesy to let you know straight away so you have time to potentially make other plans!

Used to happen to me pretty frequently - which is why I rarely arrange meets now unless I have a back-up plan! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She obviously a tad rude. Forget all about her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently online and unread kik messages ah well, a shame.

It's not 'a shame' it's rudeness on her part! If she's changed her mind/can't meet she should have the courtesy to let you know straight away so you have time to potentially make other plans!

Used to happen to me pretty frequently - which is why I rarely arrange meets now unless I have a back-up plan! Xx"

I'm afraid this seems to be norm peach

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"When a meet at a club has been arranged but not the time, you've not heard from her in a few days and your most recent messages haven't been read. How long before you accept its probably not happening?"

Go to the club anyway and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently online and unread kik messages ah well, a shame.

It's not 'a shame' it's rudeness on her part! If she's changed her mind/can't meet she should have the courtesy to let you know straight away so you have time to potentially make other plans!

Used to happen to me pretty frequently - which is why I rarely arrange meets now unless I have a back-up plan! Xx

I'm afraid this seems to be norm peach "

Well if it's any consolation it happens to me pretty often too - which is why I'm much more cautious about arranging meets now and, as I said before, try to have a plan B! Xx

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Very probably a bloke pretending to be a woman. They carry on the pretence as long as possible from their pit in their mother's council flat. (Other forms of social housing are available).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a meet at a club has been arranged but not the time, you've not heard from her in a few days and your most recent messages haven't been read. How long before you accept its probably not happening?

Go to the club anyway and have fun "

As a female that's what I'd do guys - but it' costs a lot less for you or I to get into a club than it would for the op - and as most NW clubs are very quiet on a Thursday night the op could end up paying upwards of £30 quid just to have a game of pool with another single male! It's a lot easier to have secondary plans if you're a couple or single fem! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very probably a bloke pretending to be a woman. They carry on the pretence as long as possible from their pit in their mother's council flat. (Other forms of social housing are available)."

Lots of photos and a decent number of verifications, certainly real. As peach said it would cost me £40 to go alone tonight and with no back up plan I decided on beers with a friend. Oh well next month has some awesome visits lined up at amours so I won't cry too hard about tonight

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