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By *ifferentClass OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Is it just me, or are new members' profiles belonging to ladies and couples getting awfully lazy? Seem to be an awful lot of one line "Hi we are new here, if you are interested then let's chat" type profiles cropping up, as well as the ubiquitous "will fill this in later" (and still often say that after 2 months joined!)

O.K. nobody needs War and Peace but that smacks of not making any effort because you think you don't need to. It is not a good thing, I fear. And really very dull.

Or has it just become accepted wisdom that single guys don't read profiles anyway

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes, I think so, I'll write a bit more in a bit! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, things like "will fill this in later" or "ask me anything you want to know" pretty much mean I'll pass the profile by, especially if theres no pic as well

I'll fill the rest in later.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

War and peace profile here bit of fun and some serious stuff too some read ..some mail me and say peofile too long then proceed to ask me a million and one questions all of which can be answerd by reading my profile

just cant win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i see those type of profile i just ignore them

have not got time for them to be honest

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

and of cause there are no single guys on the site with such profiles

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"and of cause there are no single guys on the site with such profiles "

rolls my eyes along with diamond pmsl

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

took the words right out of my mouth karen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above comments !! But I find alot more things missing from new members too !!

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Have seen a few with nothing at all but the research disclaimer that they've clearly copied from someone else's profile...how lazy is tha!

I rushed to send them a message, naturally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people keep moaning about profiles,what ever you put is usually ignored anyway.Isnt it up to the profile owner what they put on theres.If the pics are hot most people wouldnt give a toss what profiles say and chance there luck.

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By *ell of the ballWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

People moan cos they can...simples lol

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"why do people keep moaning about profiles,what ever you put is usually ignored anyway.Isnt it up to the profile owner what they put on theres.If the pics are hot most people wouldnt give a toss what profiles say and chance there luck."

too the words right out of my mouth lol

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By *ifferentClass OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ach I know I am a moaning git but I do enjoy reading an interesting profile - and it is just flamin well difficult to know what to say to someone who says nothing about themselves.

And, yes, of course single guys do the bland one liners too - I just don't tend to scope these too often (honest!) Just seems to be a more recent trend and catching on, although I may be wrong about this.

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By *rownsuga1982Man
over a year ago

leicester

the site has been inundated with crap vague profiles and just cock pics. but then again some of them have had meets...guess you dont have to make an effort to get meets. but then again i beleive in quality rather then quantity lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if you have a long profile that states all your preferences, one gets moaned at for it being too long/like a book/newspaper, cant win really can you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and of cause there are no single guys on the site with such profiles

rolls my eyes along with diamond pmsl "

*joins in the rolling eyes*

The irony is painful!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You woke me up to ask me that?

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By *ifferentClass OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"You woke me up to ask me that? "

At 11.30am? Well, you should have been up and about anyway on such a fine day.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

are we supposed to read the wordy bits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite offensive when I see profiles with little information, if I can make such an effort then everyone can

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"the site has been inundated with crap vague profiles and just cock pics. but then again some of them have had meets...guess you dont have to make an effort to get meets. but then again i beleive in quality rather then quantity lol"

just cos someone doenst know how to make an interesting profile doesnt mean they arent an interesting person. maybe they come accross better in personal messages etc

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I find it quite offensive when I see profiles with little information, if I can make such an effort then everyone can "

I know its bloody outrageous!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lazy profile, lazy mind imo

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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago

lost in the city of Atlantis

Doesn't take much effort, thats taking laziness to the extreme I think.

I often think such people aren't particularly serious about swinging, just passing through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lazy profile, lazy mind imo"

were not here for minds....lets be honest here,if a mega fit lady or gent had just stunning pics and just a one liner profile,can you really see people turning them down because there profile isnt up to much....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't take much effort, thats taking laziness to the extreme I think.

I often think such people aren't particularly serious about swinging, just passing through.

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You make a good point, many 'newbies' will simply be dipping their toes before deciding whether or not to go ahead with things, when I swung with a partner we had previously been members of another site for around 12 month before going for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lazy profile, lazy mind imo

were not here for minds....lets be honest here,if a mega fit lady or gent had just stunning pics and just a one liner profile,can you really see people turning them down because there profile isnt up to much.... "

Nobody has turned me down yet, mind, I've not approached anyone,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a huge profile it's a bit like a one sided conversation ? Isn't it?

I think brief is better then you can have a bit of dialogue with people

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think because this place is free, people can just experiment...put up a 1 line profile, maybe get flooded with e mails & so just quit, with no loss, or maybe get a few interesting meetings, and only then go for the full profile.

But if youve been here a year and still have 1 line, then obviously that works for you!

Mine goes on forever & I still dont get any luck

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