FabSwingers.com forum: First meets, being safe, general chat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Joined the site last week and have my first meet tomorrow very excited! What's the best way to verify if the person you meet is genuine. Is it normal to want to ask for a phone call first etc? Also hitting my local swinging club for the first time. Is it full of pests as last thing I want to do is go if I'm going to be labelled.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't comment on clubs because we only ever go in the day time.

As far as general safety goes we always meet in a neutral venue at first and socially only. This doesn't guarantee that your meet isn't a mad axe murderer but you can get a bit of an impression. If you feel that a phone call is important ask for that in fact I say take whatever precautions make you feel most comfortable.

Finally usually if it sounds too good to be true it probably is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, I have had an offer and it does feel a bit too good to be true.

Yeah I thought I may as well just be extra cautious. As it if you're genuine you have nothing to hide... I'm so excited about the thought of everything! However equally nervous I'm going to put myself in an unsafe position.

I usually land on my feet in bad situations so if I ever do get in one hopefully it will continue.

Apart from my meet tomorrow I'm thinking about just going to the clubs socially to get a vibe of everything.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks, I have had an offer and it does feel a bit too good to be true.

I usually land on my feet in bad situations so if I ever do get in one hopefully it will continue.

Apart from my meet tomorrow I'm thinking about just going to the clubs socially to get a vibe of everything."

:mumalert: don't put yourself in an unsafe position.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very true, just don't know what's safe and what's not! That's the problem

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Very true, just don't know what's safe and what's not! That's the problem"

I think going to clubs is probably fairly safe. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he/she verified? Willing to talk on the phone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very true, just don't know what's safe and what's not! That's the problem

I think going to clubs is probably fairly safe. Enjoy!"

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By *etnwildmilfWoman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

I'm very cautious when it comes to meets.I do like to talk on the phone first and have a social because it's always safety first.Like what was said sometimes on here it can be too good to be true.Clubs are a safe bet and i hope it goes alright for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is he/she verified? Willing to talk on the phone? "

Haven't asked for a call yet, they are not verified that's what's aroused suspicion. However I haven't been verified yet so it's unfair to judge right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm very cautious when it comes to meets.I do like to talk on the phone first and have a social because it's always safety first.Like what was said sometimes on here it can be too good to be true.Clubs are a safe bet and i hope it goes alright for you "

Thank you, seems like most guys on here don't care and just want to f*ck however I'm very cautious. Rather be safe than sorry but don't want to be too cautious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is he/she verified? Willing to talk on the phone?

Haven't asked for a call yet, they are not verified that's what's aroused suspicion. However I haven't been verified yet so it's unfair to judge right?"

Yes,but don't arrange anything if they don't want to prove they are the person on the profile. Especially if it's a hot woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes,but don't arrange anything if they don't want to prove they are the person on the profile. Especially if it's a hot woman

Yeah got looking into men posing as couple, it's annoying as its the thing I want to do the most!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure you are both happy with the meet venue, I always try do meet at a public place, Starbucks for example. I know what you mean about being unverified, we have all been there and I have been fucked about when I first started. At least your photo verified, I use that as a must for anyone I'm going to meet. Hope it works out and let us know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure you are both happy with the meet venue, I always try do meet at a public place, Starbucks for example. I know what you mean about being unverified, we have all been there and I have been fucked about when I first started. At least your photo verified, I use that as a must for anyone I'm going to meet. Hope it works out and let us know

Yeah that's what I was thinking. Cheers mate

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