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 ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out 
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"( ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out
(Jo)"Think for my own sanity I am better off not trying to work it out, I would end up in the nut house | |||
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"Winks don't mean much but maybe their profile says something about winks and replies." Why bother even sending one then? That's what confused me! | |||
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"( ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out
(Jo)
Think for my own sanity I am better off not trying to work it out, I would end up in the nut house "You're already here my friend  | |||
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"( ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out
(Jo)
Think for my own sanity I am better off not trying to work it out, I would end up in the nut house
You're already here my friend "What did they put you in for? | |||
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"( ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out
(Jo)
Think for my own sanity I am better off not trying to work it out, I would end up in the nut house
You're already here my friend "  Welcome to the fun house Geezer | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
Rant over "to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for. the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked . | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
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to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for.
the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked . "Her profile doesn't have lots of detail about her so if she is looking for some amazing detailed message in response then she will struggle. Without any starting point for a conversation you just need to start somewhere and it will either grow or die, why bother making the first move if you have no intention of sending even one message? | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
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to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for.
the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked .
Her profile doesn't have lots of detail about her so if she is looking for some amazing detailed message in response then she will struggle. Without any starting point for a conversation you just need to start somewhere and it will either grow or die, why bother making the first move if you have no intention of sending even one message?"I agree OP and there in lies the dilemma us guys all face on here how to make our opening messages interesting enough to keep the conversation going . try to remember she does not owe you a thing even if she made the opening move no one owes anyone a explanation for there personal choices . | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
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to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for.
the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked .
Her profile doesn't have lots of detail about her so if she is looking for some amazing detailed message in response then she will struggle. Without any starting point for a conversation you just need to start somewhere and it will either grow or die, why bother making the first move if you have no intention of sending even one message?"But st the same time our profile is as detailed in what we want and are offering as we think it could be and we get Nada responses so we are thinking of reducing it to "Want some fun" but then we'd spend forever messaging our likes, dislikes & wants which are currently in the profile. Lol | |||
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"( ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out
(Jo)
Think for my own sanity I am better off not trying to work it out, I would end up in the nut house
You're already here my friend
What did they put you in for? "It was because of my cock obsession  | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
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to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for.
the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked .
Her profile doesn't have lots of detail about her so if she is looking for some amazing detailed message in response then she will struggle. Without any starting point for a conversation you just need to start somewhere and it will either grow or die, why bother making the first move if you have no intention of sending even one message?
But st the same time our profile is as detailed in what we want and are offering as we think it could be and we get Nada responses so we are thinking of reducing it to "Want some fun" but then we'd spend forever messaging our likes, dislikes & wants which are currently in the profile. Lol"sadly I'm no bi-fern if I was I'm sure id come up with a interesting invotation | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
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to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for.
the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked .
Her profile doesn't have lots of detail about her so if she is looking for some amazing detailed message in response then she will struggle. Without any starting point for a conversation you just need to start somewhere and it will either grow or die, why bother making the first move if you have no intention of sending even one message?
But st the same time our profile is as detailed in what we want and are offering as we think it could be and we get Nada responses so we are thinking of reducing it to "Want some fun" but then we'd spend forever messaging our likes, dislikes & wants which are currently in the profile. Lol
sadly I'm no bi-fern if I was I'm sure id come up with a interesting invotation "Lol, keep your hands to yourself, I prefer them smaller and more feminine, cept hubbies of course 
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"( ) lol sorry for laughing this place is a total brain twister at times i try not to work these things out
(Jo)
Think for my own sanity I am better off not trying to work it out, I would end up in the nut house
You're already here my friend
What did they put you in for?
It was because of my cock obsession "Don't think many guys would complain about your obsession | |||
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"Honestly don't understand some women on here. Why send me a wink then when I send a message saying thanks for the wink and that I would like to chat, why would you then read the message and delete without replying? Why even send a wink in the first place, surely a wink means you are slightly interested in at least chatting lol if she didnt want to chat surely a message back saying so would have been the reasonable thing to do
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to be brutally honest OP there is no mystery at work here she thought you look nice so sent you a wink you messaged her back and my guess is she found your message generic a bit boring and made the snap decision you were not what she was looking for.
the truth is in this world most of the time you only get one chance to impress failure to do that often means you will be over looked .
Her profile doesn't have lots of detail about her so if she is looking for some amazing detailed message in response then she will struggle. Without any starting point for a conversation you just need to start somewhere and it will either grow or die, why bother making the first move if you have no intention of sending even one message?
But st the same time our profile is as detailed in what we want and are offering as we think it could be and we get Nada responses so we are thinking of reducing it to "Want some fun" but then we'd spend forever messaging our likes, dislikes & wants which are currently in the profile. Lol
sadly I'm no bi-fern if I was I'm sure id come up with a interesting invotation
Lol, keep your hands to yourself, I prefer them smaller and more feminine, cept hubbies of course
H"I've got them clasped behind my back honestly 
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