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By *ukkakecoupleuk OP   Couple
over a year ago

horsham

we know you can filter out couples or single guys ect . how can you filter out bi guys or gay guys or even bi -curious guys ? even though we put no bi guys of any kind it doesent stop a dozen guys a day messaging you ! anyone know how to block or filter these guys out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there's so many guys who are down as straight but still try so think a filter would be useless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow what an inconvenience this must be to u .

I feel sorry that u have to keep pressing delete or block .

I don't know how u cope

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Think there's so many guys who are down as straight but still try so think a filter would be useless. "

Maybe an option to filter out bi and 'fab-straight' might solve that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them this way

Seriously.... of all the bi men we see on here, only about 5% can accommodate, and I don't think they would be very safe visiting us... big dog that hates EVERYONE!

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By *alacious RedWoman
over a year ago

croydon

So many guys claim to be straight but message my friend & gay lodger often at the same time, he's on here as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why oh why does it matter ..

Never hear this kind of fuss about bi women...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go through as many men profiles locally as possible and block them. Works a treat.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

LOL fighting a loosing battle OP because we're all bi even if we tell you we're not.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Why oh why does it matter ..

Never hear this kind of fuss about bi women...

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Lots of women and couples filter bi guys out. Would be interesting to hear why sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just appear bigoted, that should put them off.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Maybe all those stupid caps makes it difficult to read and clearly doesn't work

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I'm just wondering how I can filter out people like you. Oh, that's right, I can block. All praise the block button!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only but many guys are fab straight which may as well just say bi after looking over there profile lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

use single male filter and do the searching yourself?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The ironic thing is, of course, is that if the OP took time to read the forums, there have been, over the years, loads of threads stating that lots of men who have straight on their profile are actually bisexual, so without knowing, they may well have had sex with a bisexual man.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The ironic thing is, of course, is that if the OP took time to read the forums, there have been, over the years, loads of threads stating that lots of men who have straight on their profile are actually bisexual, so without knowing, they may well have had sex with a bisexual man. "

oh my travesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we know you can filter out couples or single guys ect . how can you filter out bi guys or gay guys or even bi -curious guys ? even though we put no bi guys of any kind it doesent stop a dozen guys a day messaging you ! anyone know how to block or filter these guys out ?"

Whats the problem with bi guys? If you dont want the bi side to come out then it can stay firmly hidden, they love females too you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why oh why does it matter ..

Never hear this kind of fuss about bi women...

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By *ukkakecoupleuk OP   Couple
over a year ago

horsham

I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm just wondering how I can filter out people like you. Oh, that's right, I can block. All praise the block button!! "

Indeed. Bigoted and biphobic threads are a wonderful filter.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all"
the way it is you cant..unless you use the single guy filter and search yourself x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all"

You can't - just block any you come across. My point still stands though - you can't know if a guy is bi. There is no 'bisexual' filter. It's what the block button is for.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Do you want to meet the guys who keep it the most secret? The better you get at filtering out obvious guys who have some element of less than 100% heterosexuality, you'll just end up with a much higher probability that you'll get men who are ultra stealthy in their operations.

And then where do you draw the line with your classification of straight? If a guy had a d*unken grope, 25 years ago, with his rugby mates, does that count? 10 years ago? Had a meet with a mf couple and got a few seconds of double bj but realised he's absolutely not into male contact of any kind, and this was many years ago? Someone who's absolutely sure he's straight though, like many, did wonder a long time ago, if he'd have any element of bi within his make-up?

The thought police aren't able atm to monitor every thought, however brief, that crosses someone's mind. But some people, in their zealous pursuit of a pure straight man, would fervidly this. What drives someone who's so intensely mad about ensuring that there's nothing less than 100% real heterosexuality in their mates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all"

Nope you're not making sense.

So if ive had a cock in my mouth a year ago, that would make you uneasy?

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

IDK use pepper spray? Surely that would beat them away. From a bi guy who isn't running to or away from you.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

What happens if you're playing with a totally straight guy, but you're so sexy that you break the mould and turn him on anyway?

Or better still, what if you find another totally straight guy, and neither of you can perform, because willies = yuck and you both gross out?

What if you're with a bi guy, and he doesn't actually fancy you, just your missus?

What is so sexy about you that a guy would completely lose control of his shit, throw your lady off, and chase you around the room to benny hill music?

What if you're walking down the street, just a normal day, putting out your best heterosexual vibes, and a guy checks your arse out as you walk by regardless?

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Clearly bi guys carry 'the gay' , they fancy all men - because of the gay, and are such despicable creatures that they are incapable of respecting boundaries in a scene. Feel free to block us......we are both Bi; what shocking sluts we must be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly bi guys carry 'the gay' , they fancy all men - because of the gay, and are such despicable creatures that they are incapable of respecting boundaries in a scene. Feel free to block us......we are both Bi; what shocking sluts we must be."

I think im in love

With u both !! Lol

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By *appyplastererMan
over a year ago

birmingham

There doesn't seem to be an option for damn Fuck sexy. If it looks good.feels good. go for it. Unfortunately I'm labeled by society.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP the filters could use work. I like to search for couples with bi and it allows me to do that so don't see why they won't add a filter to allow you to filter out single bi guys if that's your preference.

Think some people forget that this site is supposed to be about fun and if you want to filter out bi guys then You should be able to do that without any issues, it's your choice at the end of the day regardless if others disagree with that choice. Yes sure you can delete and block but you shouldn't really have to but then I'm not a guy that would message you anyway if it says no bi guys in your profile cause I'm looking for bi fun, so what do I know.

Perhaps add it in the site feedback forum as a suggestion, see if they add it over time.

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By *orrado76Man
over a year ago

Banbury

Assuming that the male of the couple is posting, I don’t mean to beat up on the OP as it looks like the forumites have already opened a big can of whup on your fervently heterosexual ass but surely your username is a bit of a contradiction as I’ve always considered multiple naked men in a room all stroking off their hard cocks together so they can bukkake a woman definitely on the peripheries of bi/bi-curious, or is that just me?

Bukkakecoupleuk sounds like you both enjoy a face full too? Just saying.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


" I’ve always considered multiple naked men in a room all stroking off their hard cocks together so they can bukkake a woman definitely on the peripheries of bi/bi-curious, or is that just me?

Bukkakecoupleuk sounds like you both enjoy a face full too? Just saying."

Maybe while he's having his bukkake he's worried that some might go in his mouth, therefore forcing him into gheyness against his will? (you won't like it, it's salty and stings like hell when in your eyes) It must be hard (pun intented) to live your life on the precipice of da ghey constantly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish they'd give a bi guys and bi girls filter.

We want bi guys and straight girls.

A lot of bi girls won't take no for an answer and try it on more than once with my wife.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

The filters only work if people are being honest anyway. There are many guys who say straight on their profiles but have varies from men and TVs. It does seem a shame that so many people seem to have such an aversion to bi or bi curious guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we know you can filter out couples or single guys ect . how can you filter out bi guys or gay guys or even bi -curious guys ? even though we put no bi guys of any kind it doesent stop a dozen guys a day messaging you ! anyone know how to block or filter these guys out ?"

I wouldn't bother

I have a couples profile with a bi male friend of mine where we look for single bi guys

I just logged on not long ago to check mail and there was 29 messages 27 of them were from guys who stated on their profile they are straight who went onto say in their message they are bi

Whats the point all you will get are bi guys who lie mailing you x

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Go through as many men profiles locally as possible and block them. Works a treat. "
that's what i do

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By *inkylonglegTVTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

NUTS!

a bi filter is pointless. I get 20 or 30 messages a day from straight guys in my area wanting to meet. How do you intend to filter them out???? After all they may have had vile sexual liaisons too!!!!.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"NUTS!

a bi filter is pointless. I get 20 or 30 messages a day from straight guys in my area wanting to meet. How do you intend to filter them out???? After all they may have had vile sexual liaisons too!!!!.

"

Yesterday there was a thread where a comment of "I won't meet bi guys because I like to give blood." was used....

How naive! With the amount of fab straight here I think she should give up the blood donations as she is being irresponsible.

I bet she's met sly bi guys and never knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is entitled to say they don't want to meet bi guys .

We ONLY want to meet bi guys . We have ZERO interest in straight guys

Fab falls flat on it's face here because the filter systems are poor and because so many bi guys put "straight" on their profile so they can still spaff all over people like the OP !

It's a self perpetuating morass of nonsense ! Why can't people just be up front !

It's got to the stage now that if we get a message of a straight profile that claims to be bisexual we will not even countenance meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think there's so many guys who are down as straight but still try so think a filter would be useless. "

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all"
its a perfectly legitimate question... and you can search for bi... so i think that as you can search where one or both of a couple is bi.. you should be able to filter out the other way too.

Never got why its bigoted to have preferences sexually as on here its about fulfulling your personal want list.

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By *ukkakecoupleuk OP   Couple
over a year ago

horsham


"I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all its a perfectly legitimate question... and you can search for bi... so i think that as you can search where one or both of a couple is bi.. you should be able to filter out the other way too.

Never got why its bigoted to have preferences sexually as on here its about fulfulling your personal want list. "
thanks cali a sensible answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my question is going the wrong way . its no different to couples not wanting to meet single guys . I have no problem with any preference to any sort of sex but just the thought of a guy being near me that has had some sort of sexual relations makes me feel uneasy. I am sure many guys out there play both ways and never say anything but I suppose what you don't know doesent hurt you. I am not snobby just asking genuinely how to filter out certain members that's all"

You should probably grow up, you will catch just as man sti's from straight people.

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