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Hotel staff - flirting and going further

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm away on holiday in Italy visiting family atm.

Decided to go for a treat and have a Turkish style bath. Now the girl who was doing this to me is a, I reckon 30-40year old thai woman who is employed to do this by the spa complex I have paid to use. I may have go aroused whilst she was massaging and rubbing me, and I'm pretty sure it was obvious.

Now I've been going to the spa to use the gym and sauna morning and night, she's always there, and even before she was all smiles, since this she is very smiley and comes to chat.

I can't tell if it's just good hospitality or a sales pitch, or flirtation.

Same with one of the bar maids at the cafe and bistro on site, constantly smiling, more so than at other men.

Found myself very into both, but I understand that it's hit and miss, and with both there is a language barrier, any idea on whether I should step on the flirting and any idea how best to make the 'intentions' clear?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I'd say it was a sales pitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 possibilities - they like you or they're playing for tips, much like that lovely lady that flirts with you behind the bar at your local pub

One way to find out for sure, politely ask them. Then you'll know either way.

We're not there so we can't really tell you if they do or not. Good luck!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I worked in hotels many moons again and there are women who like to flirt with guests and sleep with them if they can.

You might just be hot?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's wise to assume that they're just doing their job. With the masseuse particularly, it would be good to leave her feeling respected and not sexually propositioned Imo. I encourage you to go and find people who you're not meeting because they're providing a service to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I worked in hotels many moons again and there are women who like to flirt with guests and sleep with them if they can.

You might just be hot?"

Stop stroking my ego you :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's wise to assume that they're just doing their job. With the masseuse particularly, it would be good to leave her feeling respected and not sexually propositioned Imo. I encourage you to go and find people who you're not meeting because they're providing a service to you. "

Thank you for reminding me of this. I'd hate to make her uncomfortable after doing a superb job.

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Yet another example of naive western men falling for the obvious.

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