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"I know this has been done, however we are trying to get 2 nice single guys and have posted on the meets forum. Now we don't believe what we have asked for is very demanding or hard to achieve, but we are both surprised as to the lack of interest so far. We know the post has been up only a few hours but still. Has anyone in the past discussions ever come up with possible reasons for the lack of interest, apart form you are mingers lol... not. Anyway thanks in advance forumites " I might be mistaken, the meet I can see doesn't mention guys only mf couples.. Try being proactive ..search for the guys yourself, the popular guys are already out there having fun, they're worth the effort though. | |||
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"I know this has been done, however we are trying to get 2 nice single guys and have posted on the meets forum. Now we don't believe what we have asked for is very demanding or hard to achieve, but we are both surprised as to the lack of interest so far. We know the post has been up only a few hours but still. Has anyone in the past discussions ever come up with possible reasons for the lack of interest, apart form you are mingers lol... not. Anyway thanks in advance forumites " Maybe I'm being a bit daft but the meet request I can see on your profile, is asking for a MF couple. That could be why your not getting any men contacting you. | |||
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"I know this has been done, however we are trying to get 2 nice single guys and have posted on the meets forum. Now we don't believe what we have asked for is very demanding or hard to achieve, but we are both surprised as to the lack of interest so far. We know the post has been up only a few hours but still. Has anyone in the past discussions ever come up with possible reasons for the lack of interest, apart form you are mingers lol... not. Anyway thanks in advance forumites " You have blocked single guys from messaging you | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings" All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. " I fully understood what you meant and looked in forum meets and confirm its single guys ur asking for | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. " I think people have been confused by the meet add on ur profile | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. I think people have been confused by the meet add on ur profile " Ha ha yes so do we, don't know why though, I have clearly said that we have posted in the meet requests and parties forum. need the patience of a saint lol | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. I think people have been confused by the meet add on ur profile Ha ha yes so do we, don't know why though, I have clearly said that we have posted in the meet requests and parties forum. need the patience of a saint lol " you certainly do lol | |||
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"so the fact that we have posted in the meet requests forum looking for 2 single guys is not enough for single guys to contact on that forum as we have requested. Yes on our profile is states M/F couples only.But that is on the profile in the meet request post it clearly states what we are looking for.2 single guys. And lets be honest how many people read the bloody profile anyway. most of the people who message us have not read the profile, and the reason we know this is we have a word that we ask possible messengers to use in the header box. Guess what !!!! no one has ever used that word..... So all they look at is the pictures... So that clears that up hopefully lol " Personally I always read profiles but I NEVER look at or read the meets and whatsi call it`s on the forums as I never even go in there and only use the forums for having banter really and not to try and get meets. When looking for meets I prefer to look for meets my self and try to get chatting to them first via pm both single fems, and couples. TO be fair tho I have not really had much to do with couples on here in the past as I tend to find that some ( NOT ALL ) couples are all me me me me meee, or should I say us us us us us and don`t really give a dam about the single lad as he is just a spare part in there fantasy etc etc..... And some can even come across as right whingers and proper stroppy and put me right off even wanting to chat with them, let alone meet, abit like what you are doing right now with this moaning and slightly aggressive thread ( and response to comments ) say for instance.. Good luck tho yeah | |||
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"so the fact that we have posted in the meet requests forum looking for 2 single guys is not enough for single guys to contact on that forum as we have requested. Yes on our profile is states M/F couples only.But that is on the profile in the meet request post it clearly states what we are looking for.2 single guys. And lets be honest how many people read the bloody profile anyway. most of the people who message us have not read the profile, and the reason we know this is we have a word that we ask possible messengers to use in the header box. Guess what !!!! no one has ever used that word..... So all they look at is the pictures... So that clears that up hopefully lol Personally I always read profiles but I NEVER look at or read the meets and whatsi call it`s on the forums as I never even go in there and only use the forums for having banter really and not to try and get meets. When looking for meets I prefer to look for meets my self and try to get chatting to them first via pm both single fems, and couples. TO be fair tho I have not really had much to do with couples on here in the past as I tend to find that some ( NOT ALL ) couples are all me me me me meee, or should I say us us us us us and don`t really give a dam about the single lad as he is just a spare part in there fantasy etc etc..... And some can even come across as right whingers and proper stroppy and put me right off even wanting to chat with them, let alone meet, abit like what you are doing right now with this moaning and slightly aggressive thread ( and response to comments ) say for instance.. Good luck tho yeah " Hmmm interesting how other people view what other people say. I have been on Fab since 2006/7 first as a single guy and I met my fair share of couples and never once did I meet a couple that you have described. However you now think we are moaning because we have asked people to read the profile, because as explained earlier we posted a meet request in the meet request forum, but as there did not seem to be much traffic in that forum we posted a question on here. Which was did anyone else find it difficult, and then explained the above, so what do all the folks do !!! go look at our profile not the meet request forum.... hence why we are here now. Sorry you find our post aggressive wasn't meant to sound like that, frustrated yes aggressive no. Each to their own... But as you wouldn't meet us anyway that's fine | |||
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"I know this has been done, however we are trying to get 2 nice single guys and have posted on the meets forum. Now we don't believe what we have asked for is very demanding or hard to achieve, but we are both surprised as to the lack of interest so far. We know the post has been up only a few hours but still. Has anyone in the past discussions ever come up with possible reasons for the lack of interest, apart form you are mingers lol... not. Anyway thanks in advance forumites " What is it use are looking for??...as a single guy asking | |||
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"I know this has been done, however we are trying to get 2 nice single guys and have posted on the meets forum. Now we don't believe what we have asked for is very demanding or hard to achieve, but we are both surprised as to the lack of interest so far. We know the post has been up only a few hours but still. Has anyone in the past discussions ever come up with possible reasons for the lack of interest, apart form you are mingers lol... not. Anyway thanks in advance forumites What is it use are looking for??...as a single guy asking " Take a look at the meet request and parties forum under the heading looking for 2 single guys. | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. " No one really looks in that section .... | |||
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"Ok so I am NOT taking the piss here , or trying to be a smart arse in any way shape or form but having read your profile, had some exchange with you on here with this thread, and then just looked at your original post on the meets etc malarkey on the forum..... Can I please make a suggestion, maybe let your wife take over the profile every now and again, or at least let her write her own request for a meet with single males in the section on the forum, as it reads to me abit like this thread does as in slightly aggressive and as if you are doing us a favour by allowing us to apply for the chance to fuck your wife without giving any real details of your wife etc etc and reading between the lines then you are just telling us what YOU want..... Also I think you need to be a lot more clear as to what exactly YOU ( not your wife,as that is exactly how it reads to me ) are looking for on this meet, or looking to see your wife doing, ( again maybe let her write the meet next time ) and perhaps you need to be a heck of a lot more clear as to weather or not you do actually want to meet, and when as your just saying it may happen in September........ Again I refer back to my original post about it all being you you you you you... Does your wife get a say in any of this? I'm sorry dude but the way you write is a huge turn off for me personally as you are writing as if you are doing me a favour and I should be so lucky, and if I am a lucky dog I may get a bone, hahaha, sorry but that really is the way it reads to me and I personally don't bow wow, or roll over for any one Again I AM NOT trying to take the piss here mate or be a smart arse but maybe let your wife have some control and say in your JOINT couples profile for a change as she may not come across as aggressive as you All the best yeah good luck" Ok I really don't see where you find the aggressive part/s but hey that's fine. Thanks for you suggestion about my wife posting her own meets, but like most couples we do everything together on here. Everything we have requested in the post on the meets request and party forum is what my wife is looking for, again we don't see anything aggressive in the wording in that request. As for give a dog a bone hmmmm not sure how you arrive at that, however if my wife wants a guy to come fuck her then it's her way or no way. Like a lot of couples on here we get inundated with meet requests, doesn't make us special far from it, we are mainly looking for other couples, but every now and then we may fancy a meet with 1 or 2 single guys.But we meet those guys on our terms like we said. Sorry if you don't like the way I write but maybe your a tad sensitive, or misread what we say. May we also respectfully point out that in our opinion you come across as it's all about you you you and slighlty aggressive, not taking the piss mate but that's how you come across to us. Again we respect every one's opinion on here as we asked the question and have to take those opinions. And if you where invited to meet my wife, lol nah not going to happen. HAPPY SWINGING DUDE | |||
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"Your profile says not looking for single guys and there does not seem to be any mention of single guys in the profile txt either, which could be the reason that you are lacking attention from us. Or the fact that we will not be able to mail you due to your settings All you have to do is look in the forum that is meet requests it clearly states looking for 2 single guys, it also clearly states leave a message on the forum and we will message you back. No one really looks in that section ...." LOL so it seems hence our question here | |||
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"Ok so I am NOT taking the piss here , or trying to be a smart arse in any way shape or form but having read your profile, had some exchange with you on here with this thread, and then just looked at your original post on the meets etc malarkey on the forum..... Can I please make a suggestion, maybe let your wife take over the profile every now and again, or at least let her write her own request for a meet with single males in the section on the forum, as it reads to me abit like this thread does as in slightly aggressive and as if you are doing us a favour by allowing us to apply for the chance to fuck your wife without giving any real details of your wife etc etc and reading between the lines then you are just telling us what YOU want..... Also I think you need to be a lot more clear as to what exactly YOU ( not your wife,as that is exactly how it reads to me ) are looking for on this meet, or looking to see your wife doing, ( again maybe let her write the meet next time ) and perhaps you need to be a heck of a lot more clear as to weather or not you do actually want to meet, and when as your just saying it may happen in September........ Again I refer back to my original post about it all being you you you you you... Does your wife get a say in any of this? I'm sorry dude but the way you write is a huge turn off for me personally as you are writing as if you are doing me a favour and I should be so lucky, and if I am a lucky dog I may get a bone, hahaha, sorry but that really is the way it reads to me and I personally don't bow wow, or roll over for any one Again I AM NOT trying to take the piss here mate or be a smart arse but maybe let your wife have some control and say in your JOINT couples profile for a change as she may not come across as aggressive as you All the best yeah good luck" Some good advice here | |||
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"Ok so I am NOT taking the piss here , or trying to be a smart arse in any way shape or form but having read your profile, had some exchange with you on here with this thread, and then just looked at your original post on the meets etc malarkey on the forum..... Can I please make a suggestion, maybe let your wife take over the profile every now and again, or at least let her write her own request for a meet with single males in the section on the forum, as it reads to me abit like this thread does as in slightly aggressive and as if you are doing us a favour by allowing us to apply for the chance to fuck your wife without giving any real details of your wife etc etc and reading between the lines then you are just telling us what YOU want..... Also I think you need to be a lot more clear as to what exactly YOU ( not your wife,as that is exactly how it reads to me ) are looking for on this meet, or looking to see your wife doing, ( again maybe let her write the meet next time ) and perhaps you need to be a heck of a lot more clear as to weather or not you do actually want to meet, and when as your just saying it may happen in September........ Again I refer back to my original post about it all being you you you you you... Does your wife get a say in any of this? I'm sorry dude but the way you write is a huge turn off for me personally as you are writing as if you are doing me a favour and I should be so lucky, and if I am a lucky dog I may get a bone, hahaha, sorry but that really is the way it reads to me and I personally don't bow wow, or roll over for any one Again I AM NOT trying to take the piss here mate or be a smart arse but maybe let your wife have some control and say in your JOINT couples profile for a change as she may not come across as aggressive as you All the best yeah good luck Ok I really don't see where you find the aggressive part/s but hey that's fine. Thanks for you suggestion about my wife posting her own meets, but like most couples we do everything together on here. Everything we have requested in the post on the meets request and party forum is what my wife is looking for, again we don't see anything aggressive in the wording in that request. As for give a dog a bone hmmmm not sure how you arrive at that, however if my wife wants a guy to come fuck her then it's her way or no way. Like a lot of couples on here we get inundated with meet requests, doesn't make us special far from it, we are mainly looking for other couples, but every now and then we may fancy a meet with 1 or 2 single guys.But we meet those guys on our terms like we said. Sorry if you don't like the way I write but maybe your a tad sensitive, or misread what we say. May we also respectfully point out that in our opinion you come across as it's all about you you you and slighlty aggressive, not taking the piss mate but that's how you come across to us. Again we respect every one's opinion on here as we asked the question and have to take those opinions. And if you where invited to meet my wife, lol nah not going to happen. HAPPY SWINGING DUDE " hahaha I LOVE your parting shot as if I would even consider applying for a meet, lol... Tho to be fair I don't blame you for trying to save face as I think we both know that I already blew you out a good few posts above when I first happened upon this thread. Chin up owld lad I'm sure it wont be the first or last time you have been blown out, it happens to every one..... At the end of the day I was just giving my opinion but I guess that opinions are like arseholes arnt they as in every one has one...... Hey lets not get all petty with little digs at one another, at the end of the day we are all adults and only live once so ae just doing our own things and what makes us all happy.... All the best to you both yeah I hope you have some good NSA fun on here Tons a luv n all that tickle tackle yeah xx | |||
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" Ha ha yes so do we, don't know why though, I have clearly said that we have posted in the meet requests and parties forum. need the patience of a saint lol " the number of people who use the forums I believe is less than 1% of the members, so the chances of find men here is very limited, you would be far better, posting on your status and removing the block on men for a while | |||
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"Ok so I am NOT taking the piss here , or trying to be a smart arse in any way shape or form but having read your profile, had some exchange with you on here with this thread, and then just looked at your original post on the meets etc malarkey on the forum..... Can I please make a suggestion, maybe let your wife take over the profile every now and again, or at least let her write her own request for a meet with single males in the section on the forum, as it reads to me abit like this thread does as in slightly aggressive and as if you are doing us a favour by allowing us to apply for the chance to fuck your wife without giving any real details of your wife etc etc and reading between the lines then you are just telling us what YOU want..... Also I think you need to be a lot more clear as to what exactly YOU ( not your wife,as that is exactly how it reads to me ) are looking for on this meet, or looking to see your wife doing, ( again maybe let her write the meet next time ) and perhaps you need to be a heck of a lot more clear as to weather or not you do actually want to meet, and when as your just saying it may happen in September........ Again I refer back to my original post about it all being you you you you you... Does your wife get a say in any of this? I'm sorry dude but the way you write is a huge turn off for me personally as you are writing as if you are doing me a favour and I should be so lucky, and if I am a lucky dog I may get a bone, hahaha, sorry but that really is the way it reads to me and I personally don't bow wow, or roll over for any one Again I AM NOT trying to take the piss here mate or be a smart arse but maybe let your wife have some control and say in your JOINT couples profile for a change as she may not come across as aggressive as you All the best yeah good luck Ok I really don't see where you find the aggressive part/s but hey that's fine. Thanks for you suggestion about my wife posting her own meets, but like most couples we do everything together on here. Everything we have requested in the post on the meets request and party forum is what my wife is looking for, again we don't see anything aggressive in the wording in that request. As for give a dog a bone hmmmm not sure how you arrive at that, however if my wife wants a guy to come fuck her then it's her way or no way. Like a lot of couples on here we get inundated with meet requests, doesn't make us special far from it, we are mainly looking for other couples, but every now and then we may fancy a meet with 1 or 2 single guys.But we meet those guys on our terms like we said. Sorry if you don't like the way I write but maybe your a tad sensitive, or misread what we say. May we also respectfully point out that in our opinion you come across as it's all about you you you and slighlty aggressive, not taking the piss mate but that's how you come across to us. Again we respect every one's opinion on here as we asked the question and have to take those opinions. And if you where invited to meet my wife, lol nah not going to happen. HAPPY SWINGING DUDE hahaha I LOVE your parting shot as if I would even consider applying for a meet, lol... Tho to be fair I don't blame you for trying to save face as I think we both know that I already blew you out a good few posts above when I first happened upon this thread. Chin up owld lad I'm sure it wont be the first or last time you have been blown out, it happens to every one..... At the end of the day I was just giving my opinion but I guess that opinions are like arseholes arnt they as in every one has one...... Hey lets not get all petty with little digs at one another, at the end of the day we are all adults and only live once so ae just doing our own things and what makes us all happy.... All the best to you both yeah I hope you have some good NSA fun on here Tons a luv n all that tickle tackle yeah xx" Love it buddy, yea you blew me out the water, yadda yadda heard it all before. Like I said dude happy swinging | |||
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"It says in your profile that you cannot accommodate. I agree with an earlier post that a lot of couples it's about them. To be honest (this is just my personal point of view ) your profile is a bit long and I never read big long ones, so that maybe putting some men off. XXX" Spot on but I struggle to find nice girls and couples Nd I'm probably the most genuine nicest guy on here ?? | |||
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