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"I'm sure there's a helluva lot who assume I'm a cock tease profile for not even replying but dude, I'm currently at 143 unread mails, and I spend a considerable amount of time on here, replying. And I meet. But if I met every single guy who mailed me, I would never get off my back or out of a bar. " Or be able to walk | |||
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"I'm sure there's a helluva lot who assume I'm a cock tease profile for not even replying but dude, I'm currently at 143 unread mails, and I spend a considerable amount of time on here, replying. And I meet. But if I met every single guy who mailed me, I would never get off my back or out of a bar. " That is fair enough, but are you posting frequently posting a 'meet today' on your profile | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. " I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off " ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off " I'm not missing your point, you answered the point in the last paragraph of your post... Maybe that's how those members get off... maybe it's just the attention they're after to make them feel good. If that's the case then who are we to judge how they get their kicks? Just avoid them. You'll never change how other people behave, all you can control is your reaction to it. | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting" Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification " .....they....like everyone else on here can choose to be verified/unverified. Why the interest in other people's business op?.... | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification .....they....like everyone else on here can choose to be verified/unverified. Why the interest in other people's business op?...." Here we go!! Is that your standard response on here? Why are you interested in my interests ? | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off I'm not missing your point, you answered the point in the last paragraph of your post... Maybe that's how those members get off... maybe it's just the attention they're after to make them feel good. If that's the case then who are we to judge how they get their kicks? Just avoid them. You'll never change how other people behave, all you can control is your reaction to it. " True, I guess I have a radar for these profiles now, they should come with a warning though , maybe there should be a running number on your profile every time you post a meet | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification .....they....like everyone else on here can choose to be verified/unverified. Why the interest in other people's business op?.... Here we go!! Is that your standard response on here? Why are you interested in my interests ? " ...we don't have a standard response. ..We are posting on an open forum. ..we weren't aware that you only wanted positive responses to your thread... apologies. . | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification .....they....like everyone else on here can choose to be verified/unverified. Why the interest in other people's business op?.... Here we go!! Is that your standard response on here? Why are you interested in my interests ? ...we don't have a standard response. ..We are posting on an open forum. ..we weren't aware that you only wanted positive responses to your thread... apologies. ." Apology accepted, next time try to be a it more imaginative, stating its people's 'choice' to do this or that is stating the obvious and can be applied to almost everything | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification .....they....like everyone else on here can choose to be verified/unverified. Why the interest in other people's business op?.... Here we go!! Is that your standard response on here? Why are you interested in my interests ? ...we don't have a standard response. ..We are posting on an open forum. ..we weren't aware that you only wanted positive responses to your thread... apologies. . Apology accepted, next time try to be a it more imaginative, stating its people's 'choice' to do this or that is stating the obvious and can be applied to almost everything " ....oh I wasn't apologising for my response. . I was apologising for not realising you only wanted positive responses to your thread.. | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification .....they....like everyone else on here can choose to be verified/unverified. Why the interest in other people's business op?.... Here we go!! Is that your standard response on here? Why are you interested in my interests ? ...we don't have a standard response. ..We are posting on an open forum. ..we weren't aware that you only wanted positive responses to your thread... apologies. . Apology accepted, next time try to be a it more imaginative, stating its people's 'choice' to do this or that is stating the obvious and can be applied to almost everything ....oh I wasn't apologising for my response. . I was apologising for not realising you only wanted positive responses to your thread.. " Apology accepted, thanks | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. I think your missing the point , it is obvious your not meeting , my issue is with profiles who claim they are all the time but in reality never will , hence the name 'cock teasing'. I agree you can't dictate whet people will write but it might put them off ....just because they're not meeting you...doesn't mean that they're not meeting Well if they are meeting then they don't get verified , which I would assume is quite important for a 2 year old profile without a verification " Or they are meeting from another site, or hooking up with someone they know already, or they just don't use the verification system, or they chose to watch a movie instead..... any number of things | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. " This. I'll do what I like with my profile and don't care what others think. If people stopped fixating on what others do and just focus on themselves they might have more fun. | |||
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"Generic it's their profile and they can use the site how they like, post" Helpful, thanks | |||
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"Alas you can't dictate how people respond to a post on a public forum. I'm not meeting. I have a profile that's been the same for quite some time. I'm pretty clear that I'm not meeting. You think I shouldn't be here? Too bad I say. This. I'll do what I like with my profile and don't care what others think. If people stopped fixating on what others do and just focus on themselves they might have more fun. " Thanks | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious " "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts " We have , unfortunately in some cases they are worse than fake profiles , but judging by some of the replies on here they are just accepted and justified because it is 'their choice' | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts We have , unfortunately in some cases they are worse than fake profiles , but judging by some of the replies on here they are just accepted and justified because it is 'their choice' " If indeed they aren't meeting even though they're posting meet ads, (and I can really see no way of proving that)are you suggesting admin should remove their profiles? | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts We have , unfortunately in some cases they are worse than fake profiles , but judging by some of the replies on here they are just accepted and justified because it is 'their choice' If indeed they aren't meeting even though they're posting meet ads, (and I can really see no way of proving that)are you suggesting admin should remove their profiles? " No, this is my point, you can't remove them as they are not breaking the rules, and I agree , you can't prove they are not meeting but we have all seen these types of profiles. Maybe if your not verified you can't post a meet as often or not at all | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts We have , unfortunately in some cases they are worse than fake profiles , but judging by some of the replies on here they are just accepted and justified because it is 'their choice' If indeed they aren't meeting even though they're posting meet ads, (and I can really see no way of proving that)are you suggesting admin should remove their profiles? No, this is my point, you can't remove them as they are not breaking the rules, and I agree , you can't prove they are not meeting but we have all seen these types of profiles. Maybe if your not verified you can't post a meet as often or not at all " I think the clear remedy is to avoid getting in touch with those Meet Today postings as they're much more likely to harbour misleading profiles. There's not much else you can do other than rail against it | |||
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"I disagree ... I don't meet anymore now but before every time I did express an interest to meet and wanted to, none of the offers were what I wanted; so I never met. Doesn't mean I was teasing, it was just that what I was looking for didn't present itself. (Probably why I don't meet anymore)" Did you put graphic and suggestive status updates like 'come and fuck me now' etc like the profiles I have seen do?? | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts We have , unfortunately in some cases they are worse than fake profiles , but judging by some of the replies on here they are just accepted and justified because it is 'their choice' If indeed they aren't meeting even though they're posting meet ads, (and I can really see no way of proving that)are you suggesting admin should remove their profiles? No, this is my point, you can't remove them as they are not breaking the rules, and I agree , you can't prove they are not meeting but we have all seen these types of profiles. Maybe if your not verified you can't post a meet as often or not at all I think the clear remedy is to avoid getting in touch with those Meet Today postings as they're much more likely to harbour misleading profiles. There's not much else you can do other than rail against it" That I do agree with, I just feel for the new profiles that fall for it, but I guess we all have to learn | |||
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"I disagree ... I don't meet anymore now but before every time I did express an interest to meet and wanted to, none of the offers were what I wanted; so I never met. Doesn't mean I was teasing, it was just that what I was looking for didn't present itself. (Probably why I don't meet anymore) Did you put graphic and suggestive status updates like 'come and fuck me now' etc like the profiles I have seen do?? " Ummmm probably not so graphic but it was essentially saying the same thing but in a more subtle way. | |||
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"I disagree ... I don't meet anymore now but before every time I did express an interest to meet and wanted to, none of the offers were what I wanted; so I never met. Doesn't mean I was teasing, it was just that what I was looking for didn't present itself. (Probably why I don't meet anymore) Did you put graphic and suggestive status updates like 'come and fuck me now' etc like the profiles I have seen do?? Ummmm probably not so graphic but it was essentially saying the same thing but in a more subtle way. " Ah, in future I should avoid any profiles with overly graphic updates | |||
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"I get what you're saying, OP. I guess it just doesn't bother me because I don't look at those profiles and only rarely look at posted meets anymore. I will say, though, that we have posted meet requests and put up statuses that say we want a meet today and that those who are serious and who meet our preferences should get in touch. I've never had any succes with them because people inevitably either don't meet our preferences or don't send a face pic/answer replies/etc. I could see how our meet requests with no subsequent verification could seem incongruous to someone who isn't privy to our inbox, but I dont really care. Maybe those other people you mention have a similar problem. Or maybe they as fake. But if they are fake then they are easy to spot an you could block them and never see them again." True, but I don't think they are fake, I just think their true intentions for being on here are fake | |||
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" I could see how our meet requests with no subsequent verification could seem incongruous to someone who isn't privy to our inbox, but I dont really care. Maybe those other people you mention have a similar problem. Or maybe they as fake. But if they are fake then they are easy to spot an you could block them and never see them again." I occasionally post that I'm attending a club but like you nearly all responses don't tick my boxes so wouldn't result in a verification :/ that doesn't mean I've gone alone though I think being on here you have to learn how to spot fakes and also learn to accept what you can't control and either let it wash over you or don't put yourself in the situation you know winds you up. | |||
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"I disagree ... I don't meet anymore now but before every time I did express an interest to meet and wanted to, none of the offers were what I wanted; so I never met. Doesn't mean I was teasing, it was just that what I was looking for didn't present itself. (Probably why I don't meet anymore) Did you put graphic and suggestive status updates like 'come and fuck me now' etc like the profiles I have seen do?? " Sounds like men wanking. | |||
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"We know there are loads of fake profiles that can be both annoying and hilarious but fair play to admin they seem to be quick to ban the obvious ones . There does however seem to be a influx of what I call 'cock tease profiles ', these tend to be real profiles but never have any intention of meeting people even though they post meet adds frequently and suggest on their profile that is what they are looking for. I think these are worse than fake profiles because they are impossible to ban but probably cause more problems . P.S please don't post the it's 'their choice' 'they can use the site as they wish type posts as they are tedious "all chat no meet" I think we've all came across them sorts We have , unfortunately in some cases they are worse than fake profiles , but judging by some of the replies on here they are just accepted and justified because it is 'their choice' If indeed they aren't meeting even though they're posting meet ads, (and I can really see no way of proving that)are you suggesting admin should remove their profiles? No, this is my point, you can't remove them as they are not breaking the rules, and I agree , you can't prove they are not meeting but we have all seen these types of profiles. Maybe if your not verified you can't post a meet as often or not at all I think the clear remedy is to avoid getting in touch with those Meet Today postings as they're much more likely to harbour misleading profiles. There's not much else you can do other than rail against it" If someone is posting 'meet today' and "fuck me now" status updates with no verifications after a year.... can people really not figure out for themselves that... Oh I can't be arsed to state the obvious. | |||
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"I disagree ... I don't meet anymore now but before every time I did express an interest to meet and wanted to, none of the offers were what I wanted; so I never met. Doesn't mean I was teasing, it was just that what I was looking for didn't present itself. (Probably why I don't meet anymore) Did you put graphic and suggestive status updates like 'come and fuck me now' etc like the profiles I have seen do?? Ummmm probably not so graphic but it was essentially saying the same thing but in a more subtle way. " you was teasing the boys wasn't you | |||
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