FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it the majority of couples on here are only looking for females?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I ask why, not just you but pretty much every couple on here not want to meet a guy for mfm? do you know what I think? Well I think it is cos the guy don't want to see hus partner enjoying another cock along with his? And he's probably insecure or the fact it's just a man pretending to be a couple lol. I'm amazed tbh all the females I bet would love to try it once I just believe that the man could not stand it. But oh yeah I get 2 pussys to play with yes I understand bi girls but I mean If your happy to have a girl join you how much can you do as a ffm? I know from experience myself that it either suckin the man's Dick while been linked by another female or the female been fucked whilst having a girl on her face without too much detail lol e t c but find it hard to believe that it's pretty much every couple on here lol. How does that work? Think some guys are all for themselves and happy to have another female but if the girls in a relationship with a guy then surely she likes cock so I think it's time that the males relaxed and got over themselves and figure out sooner rather than later it ain't just for them? Now it may sound like a rant but it by no means meant to offend either of you. I just wanted another opinion? Hopefully from a couple? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Excuse the odd typo, I really should of proof read before posting but would love to find out everyone's opinion on this subject? Hope to get a few responses to see what if it's just me that thinks this???

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

I do think that in a lot of cases, the male does not want his wife to be with another male. That's certainly not every couple, but there are some.

But on the other hand, my wife and I have been in the Lifestyle about 4 years, and in my time on this Forum, I have been totally amazed by the amount of couples that only meet with guys. From what I see on here, MFM is about as popular as breathing and eating.

I cannot tell you how many posts I have seen by guys on this site who LOVE their wives being with other guys. Many of them meet ONLY single guys! I've read a ton of posts by guys trying to talk their wives into an MFM.

We all have different experiences, but me? I've always felt like the Odd Man Out on this board because I won't do an MFM.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good answer, you obviously are not around the area I am staying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess it is either the fem who is bi, or that couples can pick up guys very easily here so they don't need to advertise whereas a woman willing to meet a couple I believe is fairly rare x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for couples for full straight swap. No single females

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

we are a couple and yes we both love the mff and we have tried the mmf but the female of this half liked the mff better so its not just the males that don't want mmf

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We are probably a bit different to a lot as H "only" had bi relationships for a while when younger..So now she wishes a mff not mfm, When I asked about it she said "I don't need to". End of conversation really.. S

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

"We are probably a bit different to a lot as H "only" had bi relationships for a while when younger..So now she wishes a mff not mfm, When I asked about it she said "I don't need to". End of conversation really..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I mainly meet couples who want an extra guy for mmf - I have sex with both of them.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

We seek mff because Tina has absolutely no desire to be with another man but loves another woman joining us for all together fun.

Simple really

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

I'd say the majority of couples are looking for other couples which negates the insecure theory.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I'd say the majority of couples are looking for other couples which negates the insecure theory. "

Yep I'd go with that considering 70% of our views/winks are from couples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking to meet single females and single guys. I have no problem inviting another guy to join us as its all about the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding the single females is the hard bit for couples!

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

"I'd say the majority of couples are looking for other couples which negates the insecure theory.

Yep I'd go with that considering 70% of our views/winks are from couples.."

And the fact that couples don't really need fab to find a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have invited single guys to join us however we are very picky so they go through a very thorough vetting process! Speaking as the male here finding a male who shows enough respect to us as a couple is the hard part. We don't want anyone you basically just wants to fuck Jaz , they have to add to the whole experience for both of us. We both have to feel the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want another guy to join as a mfm (straight) and have as a fuck buddy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't look for single guys as I, boobs, have absolutely no interest by being fucked by some random bloke. the couples dynamic is what floats my boat...I do hope that's okay OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like variety so we play with couples, females and males, the only play that does not happen is MM play as rich is straight and it does nothing for me watching 2 males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we had mff and mmf. To be honest we enjoyed both a lot.

With girl though it felt more "magical" amd sensual. we kissed a lot, touched each other and just lied there and looked into each others eyes after and in between rounds.

With a guy it was giving the best time to the female part - with a girl we all took as much as we wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the only play that does not happen is MM play as rich is straight and it does nothing for me watching 2 males."

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a straight male bi female couple but the reason we are only looking for a girl is because she's not attracted to other men she is attracted to other girl and doesn't get girl action in our relationship. Nothing to do with jelousy. But each case is different I guess x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I don't worry about the 'why' others don't want to meet me...

I find folk who do ...I find it a bette r use of my time.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We are more than happy to meet for an mfm. N has this as her main fantasy and I enjoy watching her with other men.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

C loves seeing me with another guy (or girl!) just as I love seeing him with another girl. The main reasons we don't actively look for single guys on here is because firstly I'm quite picky in who I like and secondly, when we have opened up the message filters to allow guys, we get swamped with messages, the majority of which aren't what we're looking for or haven't read what we're looking for. So basically it's easier to meet with guys we already know.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We only play with single bi guys so definitely not looking for females or even couples. I admit we're probably in the minority though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is 100% straight so its just men for her, makes MFF and Couples hard to find without the BiFem aspect

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Can I ask why, not just you but pretty much every couple on here not want to meet a guy for mfm? do you know what I think? Well I think it is cos the guy don't want to see hus partner enjoying another cock along with his? And he's probably insecure or the fact it's just a man pretending to be a couple lol. I'm amazed tbh all the females I bet would love to try it once I just believe that the man could not stand it. But oh yeah I get 2 pussys to play with yes I understand bi girls but I mean If your happy to have a girl join you how much can you do as a ffm? I know from experience myself that it either suckin the man's Dick while been linked by another female or the female been fucked whilst having a girl on her face without too much detail lol e t c but find it hard to believe that it's pretty much every couple on here lol. How does that work? Think some guys are all for themselves and happy to have another female but if the girls in a relationship with a guy then surely she likes cock so I think it's time that the males relaxed and got over themselves and figure out sooner rather than later it ain't just for them? Now it may sound like a rant but it by no means meant to offend either of you. I just wanted another opinion? Hopefully from a couple? X "

The majority of couples on here ACTUALLY look for other couples. That we get another guy and girl at the same time. We do something look for guys, but tend to avoid those who portray any type of negative attitude...

For us, clubs are the easiest way to find guys when Anita fancies one (or three).

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

For us, clubs are the easiest way to find guys when Anita fancies one (or three).

Cal"

Obviously what we do have in common with the OP is that we also don't read our posts and remove the mistakes before posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi I love the fem to fem play and 2 cocks so couples is our preference, there are lots of couples out there looking for single guys, patience is the key, all the talk from the OP with regards to men not wanting other men in the room etc, yes there are couples around like that, but everyone has preferences....

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

We have the same problem looking for another couple we don't mind single guys but have been let down on a few occasions so couples are a bit wary of single guys

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We mainly search and meet other couples or single men.

We're not against meeting single women, far from it.

Just find it easier to connect with single ladies at parties rather than through here or other websites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not for us, my guy is perfectly happy with himself and the size of his cock (me too!) one of our fave things is mfm we do enjoy ffm but I'm much more picky when it comes to ladies (GoodGirl) ....we find almost every couple we have met the lady has been bi and that tends to be why they have started to "swing" starts of just ff fun then I guess the guy at some point decides what's good for the goose is good for the gander and they then search for couples so they can both play...if we were here as a couple just looking for females we wouldn't have had half as much fun as we have

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By *uicyJay1Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It's because there husbands have got the right idea!! Lol I used to try sway my girl into it but she was too selfish, wanted me all to herself

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Cheers for pointing out my insecurities, i shall take a long hard look at myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of the couples we've met also meet single guys. So I dont think it's that rare.

We are happy to meet single men, I love a good mfm. However, couples are who we spend most of our time really looking for. We both like to play, and since Marc is straight an mfm is really mostly for me, though he does enjoy seeing me have fun.

We also like to meet single women, but it's very difficult to do and we tend to meet them more in clubs or at parties.

Anyway, I don't think your premise is correct since lots of couple are seeking single men. I think the main issues are that there is plenty of competition for single men, only certain types of single men are really in demand for couples (ones who are happy to play with a couple and not just looking for a single woman and "settling" for a couple), and most couples get into swinging either to meet other couples or because the woman wants to play with other women and the man is happy to watch/join in.

I hope that answered you question.

-Courtney

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

"Cheers for pointing out my insecurities, i shall take a long hard look at myself."

Don't look too hard though as you might start comparing yourself to every single guy on fab!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is the majority of straight men on here texting bi couples that only want to meet bi people. Saying hi I'm bi.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because that who they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're looking to meet single females and single guys. I have no problem inviting another guy to join us as its all about the fun

I find this too.....I see little truth in the OP message.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

With us I found the perfect guy, I have eyes for no other guy. I have had relationships with girls and miss the female touch so look for females and won't play with a couple unless the female is bi don't get me wrong it's a bit of fun with another guy but it's not what I lust after

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