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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are looking for an attractive bi female to pleasure together. I am bi and missing out on the girl action I crave now im in a relationship with my man. We thought a threesome would be perfect as I get the girl action and he gets to see me with a girl and gets to enjoy her aswell with me. Really thought more ladies would be interested in letting us pleasure them together x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone help us out? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few of these as a single and as a couple and with other guys,i didn't find it too hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lily is bi and loves female company!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you happy for her to play alone as most couples are not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Attractive single bi women. Where are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.....feeling your pain on this search too!

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for an attractive bi female to pleasure together. I am bi and missing out on the girl action I crave now im in a relationship with my man. We thought a threesome would be perfect as I get the girl action and he gets to see me with a girl and gets to enjoy her aswell with me. Really thought more ladies would be interested in letting us pleasure them together x"

Depends on what you call "attractive" I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are talking to two stunning girls at the min. One has just gone on holiday. Hoping to meet up when she gets back but almost seems to good to be true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys. "

Well said

A single meeting a couple needs to feel comfortable and if it comes across as all about the couple they won't do,it's daunting for a single lady to meet a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Somebody that if we was both single we would find attractive and maybe try approach in a bar. We have both got to fancy them it's not just the act for us we want somebody that we really like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are talking to two stunning girls at the min. One has just gone on holiday. Hoping to meet up when she gets back but almost seems to good to be true x"

So why the post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had a few ladies we play with - one or two a few times - just have to chat and find a common ground - maybe meet up and have a girlie coffee somewhere first - its daunting for some single fems to meet a couple and we make it all about her - realy talk about boundaries and fantacies - what you want from the meet etc -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody that if we was both single we would find attractive and maybe try approach in a bar. We have both got to fancy them it's not just the act for us we want somebody that we really like"

What sort of dress size and height?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We looked for couples where just Shaz does the playing but kind of gave up now and just stick to other ways for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody that if we was both single we would find attractive and maybe try approach in a bar. We have both got to fancy them it's not just the act for us we want somebody that we really like

What sort of dress size and height? "

Maybe put your physical requirements on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry we didn't mean for it to come across as selfish on our part. We want to pleasure the girl together our aim would be to make sure she felt special and that she was the one getting all the attention. We realise now it may have across differently. Thankyou for pointing it out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys. "

How rude to say there are so few attractive single ladies???!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys. "

I don't think their post comes across like that, they say they are looking for a girl who they can both give pleasure to, very different from some requests or searches that are blatantly about a show for the hubby.

Good luck OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are talking to two stunning girls at the min. One has just gone on holiday. Hoping to meet up when she gets back but almost seems to good to be true x"

If it seems too good to be true it probably is....so we have found anyway. Good luck guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x"

You see this kind of comment and just think , right here's a couple who think they're all that , and the experience would be all about them .

Sorry , but it's all subjective . Looks , attractiveness , and so on are all in the eyes of the beholder .

Some of the best fun we have had have come with women who don't necessarily come across as up their own arse ....

Having had a wealth of ffm meets ( a quantity of quality if you like ) we have found that a connection comes from more than just a visual perspective .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The really attractive ones seem to visit clubs and parties. Have you tried that option?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somebody that if we was both single we would find attractive and maybe try approach in a bar. We have both got to fancy them it's not just the act for us we want somebody that we really like

What sort of dress size and height? "

Dress size 8 to 12 height no so important. Age youngish. We have an age gap already in our relationship so wouldn't want someone too many years older than gab ideally x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've been looking for a bi woman for years, just for a f on f never mind a threesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys.

How rude to say there are so few attractive single ladies???!!!"

There are plenty of good looking ladies just the majority either want just a guy or just a girl the point we was trying to make is there doesn't seem to be many that we have seen that are interested in both of us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The really attractive ones seem to visit clubs and parties. Have you tried that option? "

We was planning to but it got cancelled but we will try again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys.

I don't think their post comes across like that, they say they are looking for a girl who they can both give pleasure to, very different from some requests or searches that are blatantly about a show for the hubby.

Good luck OP x"

Thankyou for noticing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The really attractive ones seem to visit clubs and parties. Have you tried that option? "

really ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say this without causing offence but just from my perspective.

You're probably looking for ladies around your own age and they are few and far between as I think the confidence to meet a couple for what you're looking for comes with age and experience also.

And from the older ladies in your age gap your age may put them off.

Good luck tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x

You see this kind of comment and just think , right here's a couple who think they're all that , and the experience would be all about them .

Sorry , but it's all subjective . Looks , attractiveness , and so on are all in the eyes of the beholder .

Some of the best fun we have had have come with women who don't necessarily come across as up their own arse ....

Having had a wealth of ffm meets ( a quantity of quality if you like ) we have found that a connection comes from more than just a visual perspective .

"

We respect your opinion but we are not willing to invite somebody into our sexual relationship if we both do not find them sexually attractive. When looking at profiles we ask each other if you was single and saw that girl out would you think she's nice and maybe try get her attention. If we both agree then we will reply to a messege or send them one. I don't think there's anything wrong with that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to say this without causing offence but just from my perspective.

You're probably looking for ladies around your own age and they are few and far between as I think the confidence to meet a couple for what you're looking for comes with age and experience also.

And from the older ladies in your age gap your age may put them off.

Good luck tho."

No offence taken we fully agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are talking to two stunning girls at the min. One has just gone on holiday. Hoping to meet up when she gets back but almost seems to good to be true x

If it seems too good to be true it probably is....so we have found anyway. Good luck guys x"

Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys.

How rude to say there are so few attractive single ladies???!!!

There are plenty of good looking ladies just the majority either want just a guy or just a girl the point we was trying to make is there doesn't seem to be many that we have seen that are interested in both of us x"

It is always going to be difficult. That lady will also need to like both of you. That makes your target audience smaller.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You've got to try to be realistic in your expectations, as the odds really are stacked against you:

1) You have to find a three way attraction - very difficult

2) You have to find a woman who is confident and comfortable meeting a couple

3) Geography and schedules have to be on your side

4) Any woman you meet will have to be okay with your age gap

5) You've been on the site five weeks

6) Single bi women are the smallest and most sought after demographic of the site

7) You have no meet veris, without which most of the women who might consider meeting you will be sceptical

8) Your profile doesn't really sell you as a couple to a lady at the moment

This doesn't mean you won't find someone though! You will need to be very patient, and probably work on your profile a bit. Flesh it out, and if you can get along to a social or a club so you can meet some people in person, and get verified as being a genuine couple. This will make things a little easier for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a "not bad looking" single woman, my experience on here with couples has been mixed, and to be frank, has put me off. I was fortunate that my first couple meet from Fab was wonderful, but since then it's gone downhill. Either because they've expected me to be there to entertain them or put on a show for him, or because he has got carried away and started messaging me without her knowledge.

Being brutal, I've also found that while I might be attracted to one half of the couple, it's incredibly rare that i fancy both. And I'm not prepared to drop my standards just for the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u are that desperate to play with a fem why nit have a single profile and meet bi or gay women on their own?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've got to try to be realistic in your expectations, as the odds really are stacked against you:

1) You have to find a three way attraction - very difficult

2) You have to find a woman who is confident and comfortable meeting a couple

3) Geography and schedules have to be on your side

4) Any woman you meet will have to be okay with your age gap

5) You've been on the site five weeks

6) Single bi women are the smallest and most sought after demographic of the site

7) You have no meet veris, without which most of the women who might consider meeting you will be sceptical

8) Your profile doesn't really sell you as a couple to a lady at the moment

This doesn't mean you won't find someone though! You will need to be very patient, and probably work on your profile a bit. Flesh it out, and if you can get along to a social or a club so you can meet some people in person, and get verified as being a genuine couple. This will make things a little easier for you."

Thankyou for the advice. We have spoken to a couple on Skype who verified us and we did intend going to a party with them but it got cancelled. We will hopefully meet with one of the girls we have spoken too when she gets back off holiday just for a drink at first as she lives nearby. We are patient and won't rush. Like we said we almost went with a couple when we first signed up but that's not really what we want so we decided to hold out for what we do want. But like you said we want what the majority want and that there is very little of so going to have to try harder or wait longer x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If u are that desperate to play with a fem why nit have a single profile and meet bi or gay women on their own?"

Because, as they have indicated in their first post and throughout the thread, they want to have an FFM.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"As a "not bad looking" single woman, my experience on here with couples has been mixed, and to be frank, has put me off. I was fortunate that my first couple meet from Fab was wonderful, but since then it's gone downhill. Either because they've expected me to be there to entertain them or put on a show for him, or because he has got carried away and started messaging me without her knowledge.

Being brutal, I've also found that while I might be attracted to one half of the couple, it's incredibly rare that i fancy both. And I'm not prepared to drop my standards just for the experience.

"

Of course, and neither should you (or them).

But even if you establish a three way attraction, there are a whole host of other potential obstacles to overcome.

On the flip side though, when the stars here do align correctly, a wonderful FFM is just about the best thing ever, so hooray for Fab!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If u are that desperate to play with a fem why nit have a single profile and meet bi or gay women on their own?"

Because we are a couple and me going to meet another girl for sex is no different to me going to meet a guy for sex or cheating. We are on here because it's something we want to do together and im grateful he will do this with me so I still get to have fun with girls. My ex was a girl so if I go off with a girl on a night out or sneak to the toilet with a girl that would still be cheating on my bf and he would treat it exactly the same as an affair with a guy x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You've got to try to be realistic in your expectations, as the odds really are stacked against you:

1) You have to find a three way attraction - very difficult

2) You have to find a woman who is confident and comfortable meeting a couple

3) Geography and schedules have to be on your side

4) Any woman you meet will have to be okay with your age gap

5) You've been on the site five weeks

6) Single bi women are the smallest and most sought after demographic of the site

7) You have no meet veris, without which most of the women who might consider meeting you will be sceptical

8) Your profile doesn't really sell you as a couple to a lady at the moment

This doesn't mean you won't find someone though! You will need to be very patient, and probably work on your profile a bit. Flesh it out, and if you can get along to a social or a club so you can meet some people in person, and get verified as being a genuine couple. This will make things a little easier for you.

Thankyou for the advice. We have spoken to a couple on Skype who verified us and we did intend going to a party with them but it got cancelled. We will hopefully meet with one of the girls we have spoken too when she gets back off holiday just for a drink at first as she lives nearby. We are patient and won't rush. Like we said we almost went with a couple when we first signed up but that's not really what we want so we decided to hold out for what we do want. But like you said we want what the majority want and that there is very little of so going to have to try harder or wait longer x"

Yes, very sensible not to get into a couple meet because what you really want is an FFM. That would be completely unfair on the couple on question, and would undoubtedly spoil the experience for all of you.

Just be genuine in your interactions and honest and considerate with whoever you discuss meeting with, and you can't go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a "not bad looking" single woman, my experience on here with couples has been mixed, and to be frank, has put me off. I was fortunate that my first couple meet from Fab was wonderful, but since then it's gone downhill. Either because they've expected me to be there to entertain them or put on a show for him, or because he has got carried away and started messaging me without her knowledge.

Being brutal, I've also found that while I might be attracted to one half of the couple, it's incredibly rare that i fancy both. And I'm not prepared to drop my standards just for the experience.

Of course, and neither should you (or them).

But even if you establish a three way attraction, there are a whole host of other potential obstacles to overcome.

On the flip side though, when the stars here do align correctly, a wonderful FFM is just about the best thing ever, so hooray for Fab! "

We looked at your pics and you are a good looking woman and we wouldn't want you to drop your standards if you didn't like both of us then there's no point in doing anything. The sane reason we havnt met a couple as we are not interested in another guy. Can we also state again that our aim is to please a girl together making her the most important thing. Also any needs or fantasies she may have we would do our best to accommodate x

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Literally gone from being bi-curios to loving some female fun myself after last night, hubby is very happy to do ffm and I'm more than willing too after last night, sorry quite irrelevant to this post probs but was ready the ffm stuff and now feel horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Literally gone from being bi-curios to loving some female fun myself after last night, hubby is very happy to do ffm and I'm more than willing too after last night, sorry quite irrelevant to this post probs but was ready the ffm stuff and now feel horny "

Haha that's fine. Glad you enjoyed the girl action. I never thought I'd be in a relationship with a guy but can't imagine ever been without him now. Strange how things work out x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"As a "not bad looking" single woman, my experience on here with couples has been mixed, and to be frank, has put me off. I was fortunate that my first couple meet from Fab was wonderful, but since then it's gone downhill. Either because they've expected me to be there to entertain them or put on a show for him, or because he has got carried away and started messaging me without her knowledge.

Being brutal, I've also found that while I might be attracted to one half of the couple, it's incredibly rare that i fancy both. And I'm not prepared to drop my standards just for the experience.

"

All my MFF experiences have been either with couples I originally met as part of a couples meet and the dynamics worked so I went on to meet them on my own or with two other singles where we'd all met one on one before and again the dynamics were right so one or the other of us arranged a threesome. I have never met a couple on my own as the third person right off the bat; there are so many things to consider beforehand that it's easier to go with the methods I already know work for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a "not bad looking" single woman, my experience on here with couples has been mixed, and to be frank, has put me off. I was fortunate that my first couple meet from Fab was wonderful, but since then it's gone downhill. Either because they've expected me to be there to entertain them or put on a show for him, or because he has got carried away and started messaging me without her knowledge.

Being brutal, I've also found that while I might be attracted to one half of the couple, it's incredibly rare that i fancy both. And I'm not prepared to drop my standards just for the experience.

All my MFF experiences have been either with couples I originally met as part of a couples meet and the dynamics worked so I went on to meet them on my own or with two other singles where we'd all met one on one before and again the dynamics were right so one or the other of us arranged a threesome. I have never met a couple on my own as the third person right off the bat; there are so many things to consider beforehand that it's easier to go with the methods I already know work for me."

That's understandable. We ideally would hope that when we are lucky enough to find a girl and enjoy some fun that it will then possibly become a regular thing between the three of us. We want somebody that we can maybe go out for drinks with aswell as have bedroom fun with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys. "

That's very true, a lot of couples it's just about what they want. They do not want to return the favour and have their female half pleasure the couple or the single female and her male friend .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just going off your profile and this thread I'd say your chances of finding what you are looking for are slim to no chance on here. Clubs would be your best option.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Just going off your profile and this thread I'd say your chances of finding what you are looking for are slim to no chance on here. Clubs would be your best option."

Is there a reason why you say that? Speaking for ourselves, we've not found clubs/parties that great for meeting single women, whereas Fab has been great.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys.

How rude to say there are so few attractive single ladies???!!!"
It might be rude but it is true i'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou all for your comments criticism and advice. We have learnt that it is going to be hard to find exactly what we want but have had private messages from a few couples in the same boat and despite some negative comments we have actually had a few bi females contact us aswell just from reading this forum x

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

5 years on and still trying

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Thankyou all for your comments criticism and advice. We have learnt that it is going to be hard to find exactly what we want but have had private messages from a few couples in the same boat and despite some negative comments we have actually had a few bi females contact us aswell just from reading this forum x"

Well done! As they say, it pays to advertise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 years on and still trying"

Really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou all for your comments criticism and advice. We have learnt that it is going to be hard to find exactly what we want but have had private messages from a few couples in the same boat and despite some negative comments we have actually had a few bi females contact us aswell just from reading this forum x"

you keep going on about what it is that you want...

it should be about what all 3 of you want, as at the end of the day you are looking for a special kind of 3some, not you two and one other...as a single bifem I have given up looking for the perfect couple where they both consider my needs as well as their own, and not as a kind of afterthought as is usually the case...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thankyou all for your comments criticism and advice. We have learnt that it is going to be hard to find exactly what we want but have had private messages from a few couples in the same boat and despite some negative comments we have actually had a few bi females contact us aswell just from reading this forum x

you keep going on about what it is that you want...

it should be about what all 3 of you want, as at the end of the day you are looking for a special kind of 3some, not you two and one other...as a single bifem I have given up looking for the perfect couple where they both consider my needs as well as their own, and not as a kind of afterthought as is usually the case...

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Because at the minute it is just us two we havnt met a potential third person yet. Of course it's a three way thing and everyone has to be happy and agree on what they want from it. We would definitely only meet socially first to discuss everything and make sure that we can also provide what the girl wants x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x"

hahahaha and this imo is why you have issues finding one...to drop ones standards' oh my...hilarious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read this thread with some incredulity.It is very strange that the OP couple cannot seem to find a woman (local ish)who enjoys giving pleasure to a MF couple,,I can't be the only one,surely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x

hahahaha and this imo is why you have issues finding one...to drop ones standards' oh my...hilarious..."

Sorry for not wanting to jump into bed with anyone and having a little respect for ouselves. It's our choice at the end of the day on who we share our relationship with x

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

My hubby doesnt play and is happy to be a spectator does this make us eligible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x

hahahaha and this imo is why you have issues finding one...to drop ones standards' oh my...hilarious..."

Interestingly though a single female further up the thread said pretty much the same thing and nobody has laughed at that. And why would they? What's wrong with wanting to find someone attractive if you're going to have sex with them??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hubby doesnt play and is happy to be a spectator does this make us eligible?"

If your happy and he his happy then yes x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x

hahahaha and this imo is why you have issues finding one...to drop ones standards' oh my...hilarious...

Interestingly though a single female further up the thread said pretty much the same thing and nobody has laughed at that. And why would they? What's wrong with wanting to find someone attractive if you're going to have sex with them?? "

Exactly x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Thankyou all for your comments criticism and advice. We have learnt that it is going to be hard to find exactly what we want but have had private messages from a few couples in the same boat and despite some negative comments we have actually had a few bi females contact us aswell just from reading this forum x

you keep going on about what it is that you want...

it should be about what all 3 of you want, as at the end of the day you are looking for a special kind of 3some, not you two and one other...as a single bifem I have given up looking for the perfect couple where they both consider my needs as well as their own, and not as a kind of afterthought as is usually the case...

"

Isn't it natural for them to be talking about what they want? If you think about it logically, it's impossible for them to know what a possible third might want, as they haven't met her yet. What they want is the only aspect they are certain of. And what they want does not preclude being exactly what a potential third also wants, nor does it mean they won't be respectful and considerate of a third.

If you are considering inviting a new person to share your sexual relationship, you are playing with fire if you don't know what you want from the experience.

And I'd wager there is no single woman out there who wants to risk meeting a couple where they are not 100% certain of their feelings beforehand. Goodness knows we hear enough horror stories on Fab from women who meet couples who clearly don't know what they want, and it consequently turns into an awkward or ugly situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've read this thread with some incredulity.It is very strange that the OP couple cannot seem to find a woman (local ish)who enjoys giving pleasure to a MF couple,,I can't be the only one,surely. "

5 years they have looked for you. Where was you x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"We seem to be attracting a lot of couples with really attractive females that we would be interested in but we're just not interested in another guy. We have spoke to two girls individually who hopefully we will meet up with at some point. Probably our fault aswell as we want quality over quantity so make we are being a bit picky but we regard ourselves as a good looking couple so don't want to drop our standards just to get the experience we want x

hahahaha and this imo is why you have issues finding one...to drop ones standards' oh my...hilarious...

Sorry for not wanting to jump into bed with anyone and having a little respect for ouselves. It's our choice at the end of the day on who we share our relationship with x"
totally, but attitude counts for a lot too. i find personalities the most attractive..but thats me..and you asked for feedback on why it might be difficult for you..i was merely stating my opinion on what you said, that might but some people off. i do find it funny that couples dont think we compute or listen to, the tone used, when asking to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read this thread with some incredulity.It is very strange that the OP couple cannot seem to find a woman (local ish)who enjoys giving pleasure to a MF couple,,I can't be the only one,surely.

5 years they have looked for you. Where was you x"

Well,,,5 years ago I wasn't on Fab and,according to your profile,you were 14 and 25 respectively and I was married.

I guess the time just wasn't right back then.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry we didn't mean for it to come across as selfish on our part. We want to pleasure the girl together our aim would be to make sure she felt special and that she was the one getting all the attention. We realise now it may have across differently. Thankyou for pointing it out x"

I didn't find it selfish at all. You want a nice..atractive female that you both can chat too and all have fun. Nothing wrong with that. Stick you your guns and do what suits yourselves x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry we didn't mean for it to come across as selfish on our part. We want to pleasure the girl together our aim would be to make sure she felt special and that she was the one getting all the attention. We realise now it may have across differently. Thankyou for pointing it out x

I didn't find it selfish at all. You want a nice..atractive female that you both can chat too and all have fun. Nothing wrong with that. Stick you your guns and do what suits yourselves x"

We will thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just going off your profile and this thread I'd say your chances of finding what you are looking for are slim to no chance on here. Clubs would be your best option.

Is there a reason why you say that? Speaking for ourselves, we've not found clubs/parties that great for meeting single women, whereas Fab has been great."

Clubs have always worked for me. Weeds out the fantasists and dreamers which seem to be over taking this site. Gave up arranging meets from here along time ago and now only use it to see what's going on in clubs and keeping in touch with folk I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a semi attractive single bisexual lady, it would take a lot for me to meet a couple, all down to the following factors which I've experienced in the past...

1) A three way attraction is hard to find.

2) The male half can get quite pushy and can be a tad sneaky.

3) Practicalities, like availability, distance. Not only is it hard to arrange between two people, but three can be chaotic!

My suggestion is to not push it - develop a friendship first. Give the lady the freedom to talk to you both, together and apart - though I far prefer to talk to the female half.

Let her feel comfortable. She might be shy - wouldn't you be?! - meeting an already established couple on her own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my fair share of ffm both as part of a couple and as a single. The fun at the time was great but as a single female it has often ended up with the woman of the couple being jealous. I know this is definitely not always the case I think maybe I've just been unlucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for an attractive bi female to pleasure together. I am bi and missing out on the girl action I crave now im in a relationship with my man. We thought a threesome would be perfect as I get the girl action and he gets to see me with a girl and gets to enjoy her aswell with me. Really thought more ladies would be interested in letting us pleasure them together x"

we've never found them hard to find...had a fabulous time with a gorgeous woman last night at a party and will see her again. that's where we tend to meet most of our female friends. it's easier for them to see and get a handle on our dynamic that way and that we're not looking for a performing seal...it also as you say givrs us a good insight into a petson we are inviting into our relationship . We usually take things further from there...being proactive about getting out there rather than purely using this site works very well for us...

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech


"5 years on and still trying

Really x

"

Unfortunately yes, I've met plenty for girlie fun and few couples but never a single female, admittedly we not as productive as we could be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speaking as a semi attractive single bisexual lady, it would take a lot for me to meet a couple, all down to the following factors which I've experienced in the past...

1) A three way attraction is hard to find.

2) The male half can get quite pushy and can be a tad sneaky.

3) Practicalities, like availability, distance. Not only is it hard to arrange between two people, but three can be chaotic!

My suggestion is to not push it - develop a friendship first. Give the lady the freedom to talk to you both, together and apart - though I far prefer to talk to the female half.

Let her feel comfortable. She might be shy - wouldn't you be?! - meeting an already established couple on her own."

Thanks for the advice. In our situation it's the female whos really wanting the girl on girl stuff so no chance of jelousy from our female or pushing from our guy. The girl has to feel comfortable we understand that and we can imagine how it must feel joining a couple in a relationship x

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.


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All my MFF experiences have been either with couples I originally met as part of a couples meet and the dynamics worked so I went on to meet them on my own or with two other singles where we'd all met one on one before and again the dynamics were right so one or the other of us arranged a threesome. I have never met a couple on my own as the third person right off the bat; there are so many things to consider beforehand that it's easier to go with the methods I already know work for me."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are lucky enough to have met some real nice girls in our time either off here or through Linda chatting in the pub lol but what we do now is offer Linda to a cple for a thresum and in return the female of the other cple visit us seems t work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Him here) We are in a similar situation, albeit we are seeking a soft swing relationship, which is even rarer to come across. We have lived this fantasy on here previously but have now started a new account and lost the verifications. I have no desire to fuck another woman in front of my wife, as this is the one 'special' thing we have between us and losing that would ruin our very own exclusivity to eachother. Our choice I know. Yes, it makes it difficult to find a match BUT not impossible. It's not for everyone and I get it's very niche but fucking isn't the be all and end all of everything here. The social, fun, teasing aspect of it all appeals to us and we only get off if the other girl is getting off too. We have stacks of toys, binds, blindfolds, gags etc and armed with a filthy mind and scenarios, it's important that no one leaves until fully satisfied and drained lol. Patience is key, it may not appeal to the masses but everybody has kinks and desires, ours is to play as a threesome, no holds barred apart from the actual fucking. Strange yes but ultimately everybody still cums and lots too. So, any deviant Kinky girls who want some relaxed bi fun with my wife and some added oral and toys from me, drop us a message lol. We are more than happy to oblige

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Can anyone help us out? X"

At clubs, we often get accosted by single ladies who want to join in. Not sure why this happens, but it does regularly.

Cal

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By *alacious RedWoman
over a year ago

croydon


"There are very few truly attractive single ladies on fab. And they can take their pick of who they wish to play with.You have to ask yourself what makes you stand out from the crowd? Your post comes across as if it is all about your needs and not what the lovely single lady would like. They are not sex toys. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hard too find a genuine bi female for FF only fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had problems getting a bi male for Bruce and i

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can anyone help us out? X

At clubs, we often get accosted by single ladies who want to join in. Not sure why this happens, but it does regularly.

Cal"

Can you recommend a club nearby x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Maybe all the bi ladies aren't 'attractive'?

Or don't like knowing they will be judged on their looks before anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hard too find a genuine bi female for FF only fun "

this i have in abundance - have a few ladies i can play with alone if i wish - im very picky though and some of these i have met at clubs - the fems we play with as a 3sum we have met through messaging mostly

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