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When did we all start shaving our balls?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not sure I can pinpoint the exact year that it became more common for guys to shave down below. Certainly when I started swinging in the late 90s it was the exception to see a shaved guy (I used to go to clubs and to a few gangbang type events).

But at some point in the mid-2000s it switched the other way, and suddenly it was the exception to see a male unshaved. It was about that point I started keeping myself better trimmed.

Have to say that during the 'unshaved years' I never had anyone say that they'd rather I was shaved. But nowadays I'd be embarrassed if I wasn't trimmed and my balls weren't nice and smooth.

So when did other guys start shaving?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Did we?

No one told me...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Really can't remember but it's been a long while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about a couple of years ago. Never once thought about it before.

I'd like to find out also historically when did it become commonplace for females to shave their bodies???

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

It's a weird one but I think as people have gotten better groomed in general, then I think it's become more common to keep down there tidy as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hair on them. I like hair on men.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Must be a minimum of 4 years because that's how long I've nearly been on here and they were mostly shaved when I started.

I do prefer them that way too

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Possibly something to do with the increased availability of streaming porn sites, people taking photos and videos? Was reading somewhere that the rise in people trimming and grooming pubic hair has lead to a massive decline in the reported cases of pubic lice AKA crabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be a minimum of 4 years because that's how long I've nearly been on here and they were mostly shaved when I started.

I do prefer them that way too "

think I'm about 3 years.. certainly shortly after joining fab anyway. started trimmed, then just whipped the rest off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve been fucked by 18 blokes since I started swinging two and a half years ago, only 3 were shaved around cock and balls. The other 15 were hairy. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did mine over 10 years ago when I first got into swinging.

I love the feeling of a lady sucking my smooth nut bag too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, I did it once and will never do it again.

Mind you, my hairiness may be the reason no one ever wants to meet me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not think someone wants to get home with pubes in their teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to suck on a slippery sac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been smooth down below for over 20yrs now and would never go back to having hairy bits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate hairy balls, getting a hair stuck in the back of your throat is not sexy! Also hate if a man hasn't shaved for a few days as they're all spiky! Smooth all the way for me please xxx

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By *onnaDaveCouple
over a year ago

.....

All shaving thier balls but growing daft beards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started shaving them the day I found a nest of blackbirds in my pants.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm hairy all over really 'cept me head which is usually a number1 shave. Been thinking on it since being on here but where do you quite literally "Draw the line" as I'm certainly not going through the pain of doing it all over. H likes me hairy gives her something to pull out when I piss her off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All shaving thier balls but growing daft beards lol "

Oi! I don't shave my balls and whose beard are you calling daft!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I started shaving them the day I found a nest of blackbirds in my pants."

Was their enough for a pie?

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By *parkle LoungeWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall

I like shaved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About the same time as teabagging became popular?

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to veet mine, love being smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About the same time as teabagging became popular?

Mrs x"

Sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About same time as woman did, only right to be equal. Having said that, I do prefer some hair on a woman, landing strip or neatly trimmed as opposed to total baldness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possibly because those who like shaven are often far more vocal in their hair (or lack of) preferences.

Those who prefer pubic hair don't tend to make a fuss about it if someone is shaven and would rarely use it as a point to not meet them. Those who like shaven more often than not simply won't tolerate those dirty disgusting creatures that still have hair below their eyebrows (pubic hair is absolutely filthy you know, and everyone who has it is obviously un-clean!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him here, bit odd that I needed to say it but hey. David 'Golden Balls' Beckham had a part to play as an idol methinks. Didn't persuade me, not fully. I'm trimmed but not smooth. The idea being that it makes your cock look bigger, due to no bush. I can't help but think that adults wanting to be bald down below are somewhat slightly (I mean slightly, because everybody will go apeshit now) playing in the pre pubescent child form. Which sounds and appears dodgy, especially as 'paedophiles' or any relative resemblance is such a hot topic, you risk your house being burnt to the ground. Me personally, I like her shaved due to gagging on hair in the past. And this was a long time ago....we've been married for 17 years. Sorry gorgeous, please forgive me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Him here, bit odd that I needed to say it but hey. David 'Golden Balls' Beckham had a part to play as an idol methinks. Didn't persuade me, not fully. I'm trimmed but not smooth. The idea being that it makes your cock look bigger, due to no bush. I can't help but think that adults wanting to be bald down below are somewhat slightly (I mean slightly, because everybody will go apeshit now) playing in the pre pubescent child form. Which sounds and appears dodgy, especially as 'paedophiles' or any relative resemblance is such a hot topic, you risk your house being burnt to the ground. Me personally, I like her shaved due to gagging on hair in the past. And this was a long time ago....we've been married for 17 years. Sorry gorgeous, please forgive me "

She here... I apologise for the husband, he should step away from his phone after the pub!

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By *es deux lapinCouple
over a year ago

dublin

1963

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I did mine.for the first time the other day and I am going to carry on as it feels so much better now x

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

I've done it off and on for years going back to my teens in the 80s but back then always felt guilty afterwards as if it were something wrong...but started doing it more regularly a few years back and have probably been hair free down there for the best part of a year now.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him again. She's bloody right, again. I apologise if I offended any paedophiles. I'm d*unk

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I prefer hair on them. I like hair on men."

Me too - on mine that is. I have trimmed some hair for cycling but it iches like mad so I wouldn't want to do the whole lot. I did try shaving my ball sack once but cut myself, which is another reason why I'm not keen on the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started doing it regularly as far back as 1990.

Did it for going overseas to work in tropical region primarily for comfort in hear and humidity.Just kept doing it ever since.

Occasionally a wee smattering of hair but nothing in profusion.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"about a couple of years ago. Never once thought about it before.

I'd like to find out also historically when did it become commonplace for females to shave their bodies???"

Apologies if it's been posted here already, but there is evidence for women at least trimming and shaping their pubic hair as far back as the Imperial Roman times. Whether or not that includes shaving things like armpits and legs, I don't know. If they were trimming their ladyparts then, it could be safely assumed that this wasn't a new practice. It would seem that people have sometimes preferred not having an organic sexual flossing for quite a while.

(I'm an archaeologist)

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

As for men trimming down, no idea I'm afraid! It can't be a recent phenomena, though. There's always one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started shaving it all off about 3 years ago when I found a way to stop the horrible shaving rash. Before that it was neatly trimmed.

Now I shave it all off sack, crack and chest. It feels better and looks cleaner in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started shaving it all off about 3 years ago when I found a way to stop the horrible shaving rash. Before that it was neatly trimmed.

Now I shave it all off sack, crack and chest. It feels better and looks cleaner in my opinion. "

I also trim down my arm pits and leg hair with clippers but don't shave them smooth.

I think in the last 5 years or so men have been expected to take care of there personal grooming a lot more than before this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure when but omg get rid of the pubes...not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, been doing it a couple of years now, thought it would spice up the sex life after seeing it on porn, boy was I mistaken , still do it though as it feels really clean. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer hair on them. I like hair on men."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just adding my 2 cents here. How could anyone expect a meet with long curly pubes?! Urine, seamen and sweat just to name the uglies lurking in that forest lol you can wash but nothing is more hygienic than keeping it short and sweet. Maybe it's my era, kids these days can't believe we had mobile phones with antennas on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2001. I remember the first time as it was just before our marriage preparation meeting with the vicar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started shaving below around 1999,I liked to get my ex wife to shave herself,and then she once commented why don't you do it opened my eyes really so I did, wow loved it from the very beginning and not looked back since.

Looks cleaner more hygienic in my opinion and give the impression my cock is bigger lol.

So a winner all round for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been doing my shaft and balls for a number of years now. It feels lovely when I cup my balls when wanking, and glide my fingers up and down my shaft.

Especially with baby oil

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By *azzyxMan
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I have always shaved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've been shaved down stairs between 15-20 years now, wouldn't have it any other way

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About a week after I joined fab and looked at all the photos of the men

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Couple of years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started shaving below around 1999,I liked to get my ex wife to

Looks cleaner more hygienic in my opinion and give the impression my cock is bigger lol.

"

Looking cleaner isn't the same thing as being cleaner. Plus now with all the micro-tears on the skin around your genitals, you are much more likely to catch and/or transmit something...

Also the risk of ingrown hairs. Nice. I bet they look so much more hygienic when they are oozing pus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a week after I joined fab and looked at all the photos of the men "

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer hair on them. I like hair on men.

"

When I say I like hair on men, I mean trimmed hair.... Really not into the whole smooth look. But it's horses for courses isn't it... What a boring world if we all did the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they got hairy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"About a week after I joined fab and looked at all the photos of the men "

Cos it's got me plenty of meets anyway. Last one Friday

Whose "baaaaing" now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a week after I joined fab and looked at all the photos of the men

Cos it's got me plenty of meets anyway. Last one Friday

Whose "baaaaing" now? "

Well not me, because I'm not a sheep and don't follow the masses. I probably wouldn't get on with someone who insisted on complete hair removal below the eyebrows so I wouldn't want to waste my time trying to impress them by trying to become something that I'm not comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 years ago for me. It was a situation of choice.....I played summer sports and obviously you sweat a lot.....nothing worse that betty swollocks so I shaved the lot off....had issues with ingrowing hairs and pimples but now I just keep myself nice and smooth.....the ladies seem to like it as well.....us guys like shaved pussies.....haye chewing my through 1/2oz of golden Virginia to get to the promised land lol

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

When I found a grey pube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"us guys like shaved pussies.....haye chewing my through 1/2oz of golden Virginia to get to the promised land lol "

Speak for yourself, I'd much rather have a garden to play in than a patio, if you catch my drift...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was single until 2004. Men always had pubic hair in those days. When we joined the swing scene 10 years later, I found things had changed. Not only was I expected to be shaven, but men were too. Used to it now.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

When I realised I'd grown a full blown bollock-beard and it might inhibit my chances of getting, erm, "fully-blown".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i must have started pretty early, definitely mid 90's for me when an ex wanted to suck my balls to see what it was like. The only problem was she didn't want hair in her mouth so we shaved them, just became a habit after that.

Now it doesn't feel clean down there if it's not shaven.

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

When FHM told us to circa 2000

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Once guys realised it preformed the optical illusion of making your dick look bigger

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

After the first time someone choked on a stray hair. Health and safety don't you know. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started shaving mine this morning. Not finished yet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always just trimmed but for some unknown reason last Thursday I just thought I'd shave the lot off for the first time.

Early days but so far I love it and most likely I'll keep it that way.

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

I started in 98!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally keep it really low and when the weather starts to get Bald is the way forward!!

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By *hrisandcuddlesCouple
over a year ago

bishop auckland

Much prefer smooth balls only because I love sucking them....don't want a mouthful of hair! Soon as I met Chris I shaved him and he has been ever since.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

when i was about 8 years old started shaving down there, early developer i was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since 1990! let it grow occasionally but always go back to shaved and do not like hairy boys or girls.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I prefer guys with hair on their balls

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