FabSwingers.com forum: Way too hard

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have visited a club on numerous occasions as well as various meets with men but one thing that we have noticed/experienced is that a large percentage of men are way too rough with my nipples. Why do they think I will enjoy them being sucked on like they are trying to drink icecream through a straw. Then of course there is the "porno clit slap" as I like to call it. Porn is not sex ed guys. Just in case you were also getting confused, superman can't fly in real life either.

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Duly noted

By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I'm often surprised at how hard some women want their nipples sucked, but I'm always gentle at first and give more only when asked.

The porno clit slap cracked me up x

By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I tend to start off very gently and see what the lady likes...although that said, I'm really not a fan of being very rough with nipples...just puts me off when I'm asked to tug them hard lol

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but both areas are very sensitive,so one man doing it a little is enough for me.

I'd have to say something before anything happened with anyone. One of the reasons I don't think clubs are for me is I don't keep my mouth shut if someone is taking a liberty. If they didn't listen or back off when I said there would be trouble.

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

This is why a quick chat about likes/dislikes is a good idea before things start.

Some women like that, maybe they're going on past experiences.