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Fab is not a sex service or a charity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do realise that it quite tough for a lot of single guys. But I've seen a few threads by single men (not recently - I'm not pointing a finger at anyone in particular) saying things along the lines of this website being useless, they have more success on other websites, and that there are too many timewasters. It often sounds like they are expecting Fab to be a sex service, and that if this service fails to provide them with sex, then the service has failed. The other thing I find quite strange is when men say 'give me a chance'. Again I understand how this site us top heavy with men. But at the end of the day, people join a swingers/sex website for their own enjoyment, not to give enjoyment to people they have never met. It's not a charity. Then there is the 'people are rude for not replying'. Again people join Fab, for their own enjoyment, so what if they don't enjoy replying to messages from people they don't know? Don't get me wrong, I'm not a selfish person and I am not a rude person, and I would never mess any of our swinging friends about. But let's be realistic about why we joined Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some very good and well made points... hopefully noted!?

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street


"I do realise that it quite tough for a lot of single guys. But I've seen a few threads by single men (not recently - I'm not pointing a finger at anyone in particular) saying things along the lines of this website being useless, they have more success on other websites, and that there are too many timewasters. It often sounds like they are expecting Fab to be a sex service, and that if this service fails to provide them with sex, then the service has failed. The other thing I find quite strange is when men say 'give me a chance'. Again I understand how this site us top heavy with men. But at the end of the day, people join a swingers/sex website for their own enjoyment, not to give enjoyment to people they have never met. It's not a charity. Then there is the 'people are rude for not replying'. Again people join Fab, for their own enjoyment, so what if they don't enjoy replying to messages from people they don't know? Don't get me wrong, I'm not a selfish person and I am not a rude person, and I would never mess any of our swinging friends about. But let's be realistic about why we joined Fab."

I have only been on the site a short time and I totally agree..... it's not just guys but some couples too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of the messages i have received over my time on here also back up what you're saying.

they presume i am up for meeting them for sex, at their convenience, when i've never even shown any interest in them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of people seem not to understand other people hae boundaries and this bothers me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just cos it is easy for women and couples, it is not a service for them? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do realise that it quite tough for a lot of single guys. But I've seen a few threads by single men (not recently - I'm not pointing a finger at anyone in particular) saying things along the lines of this website being useless, they have more success on other websites, and that there are too many timewasters. It often sounds like they are expecting Fab to be a sex service, and that if this service fails to provide them with sex, then the service has failed. The other thing I find quite strange is when men say 'give me a chance'. Again I understand how this site us top heavy with men. But at the end of the day, people join a swingers/sex website for their own enjoyment, not to give enjoyment to people they have never met. It's not a charity. Then there is the 'people are rude for not replying'. Again people join Fab, for their own enjoyment, so what if they don't enjoy replying to messages from people they don't know? Don't get me wrong, I'm not a selfish person and I am not a rude person, and I would never mess any of our swinging friends about. But let's be realistic about why we joined Fab."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So just cos it is easy for women and couples, it is not a service for them? lol."

No we don't consider Fab a service. We consider it a facility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love it here. If it happens it happens. I get enough in my vanilla life. Wouldn't chase no one for a rub, wouldn't lower meself.

Fingers crossed a filthy girl stumbles across me. But it's not the be all an end all. Lots of serious people, it's supposed to be fun. Anyone need a driver.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So just cos it is easy for women and couples, it is not a service for them? lol.

No we don't consider Fab a service. We consider it a facility. "

A facilitator

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Nice post!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've taken plenty of swings and misses in real life and it's the same on here. It's not a charity or sex service but if you're a good guy and genuinely want to meet people with the potential added benefit of sex/play then I think it's a really good site.

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