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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You got your sexual health tested? If ever?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May had everything checked and am fine

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Christ. March

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three weeks ago, clean bill of sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months ago. Next one due next month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got your sexual health tested? If ever?

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Last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about 4 weeks ago... all good here

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Wexford

May and all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I give bloody they check it, I think anyway, so every 6 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to the walk in Saturday. I've not been since end of March so I'm overdue.

Thawt I'd just give everyone else a reminder too.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

At the start of the month ... the THT were doing free testing at the VA bi night so it seemed ridiculous not to take advantage.

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 months ago. All good

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

I'm due a check up. Last one a couple of months ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. "

I do even when I've not been busy and you know you're clear... It's all about tests.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. "
no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way"

Condoms and barriers for oral too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go every four weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I give bloody they check it, I think anyway, so every 6 months "

They do sti checks when you give blood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.

no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way"

Do you not go for tests then?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Going again Monday

Nice getting the All Clear text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due now actually

...good shout op. Gonna sort mine out today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way"

Guessing you never have any sexual contact then?

Wow...that is safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. "

Yeah regular

I work in a sex club which is why I get tested every 4 weeks

I do lots of gang bangs etc while at the club and not all guys there are respectful, even though is a condom only club some guys do try and sneak it in uncovered

Everybody who is sexual active should be awear they are not 100% safe its nieve to think because you use condoms your immune to such things, your not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks ago and all clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months and all clear and I've been a saint since then .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

Condoms and barriers for oral too? "

I got laughed at and jeered on another post (bareback) when I suggested this.....It was actually staggering how many thought I was having a laugh and told me that if I didn't think that was an acceptable risk on here that I should leave as it's a "swing site". I raised the question about when and how often people who only have safe sex...ie with condom get checked as they can transmit through oral methods..... (note most on it were bi and actively seeking that demographic). The ubiquitous 'fab' straight comments also prevailed lol.

I get tested every 4 to 6 weeks.... All clear 10 days ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were tested 3 weeks ago, full speed ahead

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Tested a month ago and get checked regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monday checked regularly and all clean and healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May for me, all clear

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Had mine last month. Clean again as always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last month all clear and throat swabs to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

October

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x"

That shocks me

I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody go to admit to a negative result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody go to admit to a negative result "

Not me. I had a chlamydia scare about 4 years ago but was a false alarm

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x

That shocks me

I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

Guessing you never have any sexual contact then?

Wow...that is safe! "

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

About 2weeks ago and dragged an ex with me

I don't like pointy things in my arm

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Monday checked regularly and all clean and healthy"

Monday just gone? That was a quick result. My blood's normally take a couple of weeks to get the results back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x

That shocks me

I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can

"

That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all

Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year. no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

Guessing you never have any sexual contact then?

Wow...that is safe! "
I only have sex with one man and have done for a long long time, 6 monthly checks are always clean for us both, we don't play with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody go to admit to a negative result "

Puts the screw in the works ...asking that in the middle of a thread with people admitting to being tested but could be read as having contracted...lol

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.

no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

Do you not go for tests then?"
I meant I don't get nervous because I know I haven't done anything to put myself at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x

That shocks me

I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can

That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all

Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x"

Yes you can and to be honest you should

They can only do tests that suit your needs if your honest

They have heard it all before they really don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

November, and since I have been on bread and water since then , I am good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.

no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

Do you not go for tests then?

I meant I don't get nervous because I know I haven't done anything to put myself at risk. "

But the fact you go for tests means you know there's a risk you may have something

If you was 100% sure there was no way at all you had anything why would you get tested

If your sexually active there is a risk, as adult we know that and that's why we go for tests

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Anyone else always feel a little nervous that they may be carrying something nasty before the tests and while waiting for the text clear?

I always do. I've been a busy girl this year.

no because I never do anything to put myself at risk, safe all the way

Do you not go for tests then?

I meant I don't get nervous because I know I haven't done anything to put myself at risk.

But the fact you go for tests means you know there's a risk you may have something

If you was 100% sure there was no way at all you had anything why would you get tested

If your sexually active there is a risk, as adult we know that me that's why we go for tests "
we do it to make sure theres no chance of anything lying dormant from when we used to meet others which we were advised to do

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"About 2weeks ago and dragged an ex with me

I don't like pointy things in my arm "

Oh and all negative of course.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x

That shocks me

I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can

That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all

Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x"

Why not? I do. It's best to be honest about everything to get the right advice and tests. I've never come across a judgemental sexual health professional, plus they'll make sure you get extra packages of condoms and lube if they know you have lots of sexual partners.

Tested at the end of May and all good

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

At the walk in place Iuse they havn't asked me any questions about what I get up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May, all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

June 5th

Thought I should

All clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I went though.. felt really on edge as she said so how long have you been with your partner.. 10yrs ..well you have had children and they would of checked you then so why do you want it done again Just because I do so do it lol x

That shocks me

I have never heard of such a thing, to be asked why you want a check is not even part of their job, its their job to ask questions to give you the best test to suit your needs and assist you in any way they can

That's what I though.. was horrible I went bright red and was like ummmm ummmm just want to be safe that's all like to get check that's all

Couldn't really say oo I sleep with other people etc x

Why not? I do. It's best to be honest about everything to get the right advice and tests. I've never come across a judgemental sexual health professional, plus they'll make sure you get extra packages of condoms and lube if they know you have lots of sexual partners.

Tested at the end of May and all good "

She new I was comfortable saying.. but new that I wanted all the test etc so I was happen with that... how do you say I have been with my partner 10yrs married 4 year but I sleep with other people and he knows

All test come back clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump!

Friday's get yourself tested reminder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 months ago. All clear.

Which given the situation I found myself in, which was beyond my control, is a fucking miracle

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Last month, all clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 7 months ago. All clear.

Which given the situation I found myself in, which was beyond my control, is a fucking miracle"

I think I hear what you're saying. Had that too. Glad you came out safe as well xx

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

We had ours last week and the all clear text 3 days later our clinic also offers the hep vaccines ( a and b, or just one or the other can never remember which) so we've had them done too, he'll we even walked out with something like 40+ condoms

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We had ours last week and the all clear text 3 days later our clinic also offers the hep vaccines ( a and b, or just one or the other can never remember which) so we've had them done too, he'll we even walked out with something like 40+ condoms "

Wish mine did, tight sods gave me 8skyns

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst


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Wish mine did, tight sods gave me 8skyns "

That's a bit mean of them !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sat in the clinic right now.

God I need a wee!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Go get yourself a wee then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go get yourself a wee then! "

I have to hold it for the sample pot.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Go get yourself a wee then!

I have to hold it for the sample pot. "

Little wee for the toilet and a little wee for the pot,everyone is happpy then. Hopefully you're now relieved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

June; all good and I haven't done anything since so it's still all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about two months ago and all good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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She new I was comfortable saying.. but new that I wanted all the test etc so I was happen with that... how do you say I have been with my partner 10yrs married 4 year but I sleep with other people and he knows

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You will be surprised with how common swinging is and how not surprised sexual health advisors are when they hear it. It is best to be honest with them that way they can do all the right checks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that was interesting and quite fun.

It turns out the lady I saw is writing a paper on trans people and sexual health. We had a really interesting conversation while I was in there, swapped emails etc.

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