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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Cannot belive we cnt get a single male under 30 thats descent to meet tonight. mrs us is stunning and has an amazing figure. and you get all these singel guys moaning !

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Finding someone available us never a problem

Finding someone compatible is much harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot belive we cnt get a single male under 30 thats descent to meet tonight. mrs us is stunning and has an amazing figure. and you get all these singel guys moaning !"

Dam it im over 30 Grrrrrrrr

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Why under 30 us oldies ain't too bad u know lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Why under 30 us oldies ain't too bad u know lol"

Preference

We don't meet anyone UNDER 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference is fine when it works.

If, as now, it doesn't work for you .......... maybe time for a rethink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 5 single guys we arranged to meet, either cancelled at the last minute or failed to turn up, so we only see them at clubs or parties now.

Never had a couple not show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Giggles*

Cheek of the young single men not to want to bed your "stunning" wife!

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle


"*Giggles*

Cheek of the young single men not to want to bed your "stunning" wife! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why don't you contact one of the guys on your veri list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why don't you contact one of the guys on your veri list? "

Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

its not about age this forum and yes i think it is a joke after all the moaning they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not about age this forum and yes i think it is a joke after all the moaning they do. "

Why?

Are they supposed to be available 24/7 and not have a life other than fab just in case a couple or fem fancy a meet? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why don't you contact one of the guys on your veri list?

Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee"
hehehhehhehe ..........mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not about age this forum and yes i think it is a joke after all the moaning they do. "
thought you had said it was guys under 30 that you were unable to find? so surely that does make it about age etc ........

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

bore off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Just goes to show how different people are. We have this thread where the OP only wants to meet under 30s, yet on a recent thread in swinging support an 18 year old was told he'd never get meets for being too young.

Plus ca change, plus cest la meme chose.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"i think it is a joke after all the moaning they do. "

I agree, funny how they never seem to moan on a Friday tho guess they must have pre- arranged meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preference is fine when it works.

If, as now, it doesn't work for you .......... maybe time for a rethink."

sorry dont agree with that

if im looking and i cant find anyone who i like id sooner go without than have a make do shag

never lower your standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preference is fine when it works.

If, as now, it doesn't work for you .......... maybe time for a rethink.

sorry dont agree with that

if im looking and i cant find anyone who i like id sooner go without than have a make do shag

never lower your standards "

Moving your upper age limit from 30 to (say) 35 isn't about lowering standards - it's changing parameters AND when you consider the, let's say, "inaccuracy" with which some members recall their age ......... a few of the self-styled 30 year olds might well turn out to be nearer 40.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just goes to show how different people are. We have this thread where the OP only wants to meet under 30s, yet on a recent thread in swinging support an 18 year old was told he'd never get meets for being too young.

Plus ca change, plus cest la meme chose. "

I don't think anyone on that thread people told the 18 year old that he would never get meets.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't think anyone on that thread people told the 18 year old that he would never get meets."

I may have simplified things a smidge, but there were several people who told him he was too young to be on here and should be out clubbing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I don't think anyone on that thread people told the 18 year old that he would never get meets.

I may have simplified things a smidge, but there were several people who told him he was too young to be on here and should be out clubbing."

ah that they did

I always find those comments odd, as if he should be out on the pull instead of on here where the people who can't pull are

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i think if you want a quick meet chat is your best chance,always works for us.

And as one of those mentioned,i didn't say he wouldnt get meets, i just fail to understand why he is here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bore off "

nice

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't think anyone on that thread people told the 18 year old that he would never get meets.

I may have simplified things a smidge, but there were several people who told him he was too young to be on here and should be out clubbing.

ah that they did

I always find those comments odd, as if he should be out on the pull instead of on here where the people who can't pull are "

Exactly! Fabswingers is an awesome site. We should be happy the younger generation is as happy to use it as ours.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"i just fail to understand why he is here."

If you have no interest in the member, then it's irrelevant why he's here, other than, he's here bi choice the same choice you have

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i think if you want a quick meet chat is your best chance,always works for us.

And as one of those mentioned,i didn't say he wouldnt get meets, i just fail to understand why he is here."

But why shouldn't he be? What age is it acceptable to belong to a swinger site? Maybe he's tried going out on the pull and not been too impressed. We should be encouraging the guy to meet via a safe site like this, playing safely with safe people, instead of possibly contracting an STI behind a pub with a wined up woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too far, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for how long have you been trying to arrange tonight? from experience, if you have set ideals about who you are loking to meet, then it's always best to pre-arrange. last minute rarely works out in my experience.

and yes, you often get people wanting you last minute or spur of the moment. us single guys have lives too, and cannot always be expected to jump at any chance thrown at us. oh, and we can also have standards that are just as high as everyone elses.

also, sometimes we might not agree that paying for a hotel to meet a couple local to them, when we can accomodate in a nice house ourselves may not suit us.

we all have gripes

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"for how long have you been trying to arrange tonight? from experience, if you have set ideals about who you are loking to meet, then it's always best to pre-arrange. last minute rarely works out in my experience.

and yes, you often get people wanting you last minute or spur of the moment. us single guys have lives too, and cannot always be expected to jump at any chance thrown at us. oh, and we can also have standards that are just as high as everyone elses.

also, sometimes we might not agree that paying for a hotel to meet a couple local to them, when we can accomodate in a nice house ourselves may not suit us.

we all have gripes"
a week

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"we all have gripes

a week "

Oh man, it sometimes takes me a month to organise a meet on here!! People work, have family commitments, cars in the garage and other stuff. A week isn't instant but it can take a lot longer than that!

When I first joined here I wasn't really in demand so browsed men in my area and either hotlisted or winked at every man I found attractive. If you end up with twenty interested guys then so be it - at least you'll then have a choice. Then you can work your way through them at your leisure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a little disappointing i agree.

but if you have set criteria (as we all do) then sometimes it takes a little more planning than that.

oh, and i often find that the 'decent' single guys can often be busy and may require more than a weeks notice, and may want to get to know someone for longer than a few days before meeting and are often not the ones 'moaning'.


"for how long have you been trying to arrange tonight? from experience, if you have set ideals about who you are loking to meet, then it's always best to pre-arrange. last minute rarely works out in my experience.

and yes, you often get people wanting you last minute or spur of the moment. us single guys have lives too, and cannot always be expected to jump at any chance thrown at us. oh, and we can also have standards that are just as high as everyone elses.

also, sometimes we might not agree that paying for a hotel to meet a couple local to them, when we can accomodate in a nice house ourselves may not suit us.

we all have gripes a week "

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I find the age limit thing a bit silly, for a start people tell porkies. Then you get younguns that spend their lives on the piss and eating junk food and doing fuck all and there are some oldies that live right eat right and keep in shape. Surely if you take people on their actual merits rather than preconceptions the cream will rise to the top, as it were. And it is unreasonable to expect lastminute.com meets from anyone any age married or single. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm well he might be on here not just for a quick shag but to explore more advanced sexual prefrences and fetishes which this site was built for i imagine lol, fair play i can imagine what the majority or suspected majority are like but you dont catch the with photos veris or on the forum or in chat, just shooting out message like a machinegun lol. maybe there should be a number of stickies for older seeking younger, younger seeking older ect... but thats just a suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each young person should have an older mentor allocated to them on here to help them draft messages and accompany them on meets to teach them the finer points of swingery

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

lol

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By *ocksoff3Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"each young person should have an older mentor allocated to them on here to help them draft messages and accompany them on meets to teach them the finer points of swingery"

any takers?

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

As it turned out we ended up with 2 guys lol

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"each young person should have an older mentor allocated to them on here to help them draft messages and accompany them on meets to teach them the finer points of swingery"

Mentor required here please

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Cannot belive we cnt get a single male under 30 thats descent to meet tonight. mrs us is stunning and has an amazing figure. and you get all these singel guys moaning !"

I agree with you. Lots of single men complain they cant get meets yet lots of single men seem to be timewasters also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the age limit thing a bit silly, for a start people tell porkies. Then you get younguns that spend their lives on the piss and eating junk food and doing fuck all and there are some oldies that live right eat right and keep in shape. Surely if you take people on their actual merits rather than preconceptions the cream will rise to the top, as it were. And it is unreasonable to expect lastminute.com meets from anyone any age married or single. Just my opinion "

The age limit may seem silly to YOU but some of us don't like extremes ie playing with those young enough to be our children or old enough to be our parents!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Cannot belive we cnt get a single male under 30 thats descent to meet tonight. mrs us is stunning and has an amazing figure. and you get all these singel guys moaning !"

Bugger, too old again...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Unbelievable!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Unbelievable!"

Indubitably!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I can't believe,I can't believe its not butter is not butter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot belive we cnt get a single male under 30 thats descent to meet tonight. mrs us is stunning and has an amazing figure. and you get all these singel guys moaning !"
maybe it where you live i put swing date up i get over 30 then i get them nasty i will not pick them ......

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