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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi as a single guy i was wondering what should you put in the first message to a couple or single women

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We always find it’s best to make it personal from YOU, if you’re struggling what to say as an introduction, you may well struggle communicating on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as someone who is actively looking you should be more worried about what’s on your profile as that’s the first thing anyone will read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make it personal not copy and paste and PLEASE don't use "darling" "love" "angel" etc etc etc

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

B yourself mate be polite and not pushy

if it's a cpl adress them both not just the lady

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"and PLEASE don't use "darling" "love" "angel" etc etc etc "

What about Hun?

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle


"make it personal not copy and paste and PLEASE don't use "darling" "love" "angel" etc etc etc "

u missed out hun and babe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hung cok

fcuk all nite

bareback only

fone for fun 0720xxx9992x2x2x29x29x29x929

sommat like that should do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"make it personal not copy and paste and PLEASE don't use "darling" "love" "angel" etc etc etc

u missed out hun and babe lol"

i did say etc etc ad infinitum !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hung cok

fcuk all nite

bareback only

fone for fun 0720xxx9992x2x2x29x29x29x929

sommat like that should do it "

Nobbling the competition hey?!!

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Just make it relevant to what they've written on their profile. Most girls will read/delete because they're not interested in you, but don't worry about that as it happens to everyone.

TBH, being able to write anything more original than something along the lines of 'fancy a shag' will give you an advantage since that's the best a lot of the men on here a capable of writing.

And don't forget to build a rapport with the girls you chat to and be willing to meet up at a moment's notice. I've had a couple of meets on here because the girls i was chatting to arranged to meet up with someone but the guy didn't show. Their loss, they did all the hard work getting the girl horny and up for a meet and i stepped in and had all the fun when they bottled it.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

be nice, don't write the same message over and over and try and make sure you not posting the same person 3 times in a week.

not a short reply but I would also say not a long message as well..

good look

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