FabSwingers.com forum: Disrespect

By *asokitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed this, only in the last few days, it must be the weather, simply decline (or accept),

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have always been disrespectful connotations on here from all genders. Women get away with it more than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But surely that's what it means to be a Dom isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i thought us guys just had to click our fingers and your at our service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been told it's a sex site so shouldn't expect anything less. When we pointed out it's a swingers site we were told, in no uncertain terms, that there's no difference. Our ghast has never been so flabbered.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And i thought us guys just had to click our fingers and your at our service

I've not tried clicking my fingers, I've tried clicking the 'buy now' button, and that doesn't work either.

It's just sexually frustrated testosterone. Ignore it girl and come and sit with the white knights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say from a male perspective I have to agree that it is very disrespectful. I would find it hard to believe that any woman is going to be pushing her way to the front of the queue announcing to the world what a slut she is! For us anyone who showed that lack of respect would not get a reply, however be respectful , find out about what we like, get inside our minds and you will bring out the "sluttish side" if we ever were to meet

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

There are woman on here that have 'slut' or 'whore' as part of their profile name; in context with what's written within their profiles it may not be disrespectful to expect the person to act slutty. But, where this isn't the case, then yes, I'd agree, it's disrespectful.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

If i get messages like that i just ignore them, then you get the ones who act reasonably nice then once you have had sex with them they show their true colours, there are men on here who dont respect women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G"

no its more to do with delusional people

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

Service them in what way are we talking about a one way exchange here IE get that in your mouth dear don't forget to swallow and by the way don't forget to shut the door on te way out once you have finished .......if so it sounds like a lot of the looking for a meet tonight messages that pop up on the activity feed written by woman and the odd couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not disrespectful to call a woman a slut ...a whore...a cunt...if that's what she likes...

If you don't like the terms or being treated like one...don't meet or interact with the men that make it clear that's what they want!

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

no its more to do with delusional people

Agreed that too...far too many of them on here. My comment was more aimed at the recent increase though.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

no its more to do with delusional people

Agreed that too...far too many of them on here. My comment was more aimed at the recent increase though.

Mr G"

One bad apple spoiling the fruit bowl maybe. ?

I think thats the first time I've ever used that phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G"

Could be teachers I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

no its more to do with delusional people

Agreed that too...far too many of them on here. My comment was more aimed at the recent increase though.

Mr G"

I haven't noticed a recent increase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just seems that one individual has sparked mass hysteria in the forums and from that is getting the fuel needed to continue the righteous path they strive to be on.. let it sit, it makes no odds!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it too. Blow and go requests.

I'd quite like a fuck if that's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

Could be teachers I suppose."

They are a wild bunch!!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

never could disrespect any woman or man for that matter xx Not way i am xxx

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

no its more to do with delusional people

Agreed that too...far too many of them on here. My comment was more aimed at the recent increase though.

Mr G

One bad apple spoiling the fruit bowl maybe. ?

I think thats the first time I've ever used that phrase. "

Seems like it's more than one sadly, but guess it comes back to the difference between those that see this as a "sex" site where sex is apparently on tap for anyone that wants it, however they want it, and a "swingers" site where it's a chance to meet and swap ideas with likeminded people with a view to NSA sex/fun but where that sex/fun is anything but guaranteed.

Mr G

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"Anything to do with schools breaking up do you think?

Mr G

no its more to do with delusional people

Agreed that too...far too many of them on here. My comment was more aimed at the recent increase though.

Mr G

I haven't noticed a recent increase. "

Maybe I'm just noticing it more then

Mr G

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

Or you could just look at it as providing you with another filter to use if it's not what you are looking for.

Though I do agree it's not dissrespectful if it's been previously talked about and agreed. Not sure it is in a lot of cases though.

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By *asokitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Its not disrespectful to call a woman a slut ...a whore...a cunt...if that's what she likes...

If you don't like the terms or being treated like one...don't meet or interact with the men that make it clear that's what they want!

Agree if they like it in a 1:1 situation.

But when it's in profile and posts it's disrespectful and frankly misogynistic

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By *asokitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"It just seems that one individual has sparked mass hysteria in the forums and from that is getting the fuel needed to continue the righteous path they strive to be on.. let it sit, it makes no odds!!

No its not just one person. It's many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not disrespectful to call a woman a slut ...a whore...a cunt...if that's what she likes...

If you don't like the terms or being treated like one...don't meet or interact with the men that make it clear that's what they want!

Agree if they like it in a 1:1 situation.

But when it's in profile and posts it's disrespectful and frankly misogynistic "

To you maybe...

My suggestion..

Of you don't like it ...don't read it...if you read by mistake...then ignore...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

It isn't a recent thing

. I quite like these men being open about what they want I much prefer that to the ones who hide it behind a veneer of smarm at least if it doesn't suit we can avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of dudes on here may get most of their knowledge of women through porn.... perhaps the type who struggle with the fairer sex in real life. (Do know that's not everyone though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a distinct difference with women who understand what they want and how they wish to push boundaries.

When I think of a slut I think of a girl who by no means enjoys the sex she is having, rather she is allowing anyone and everyone to have her. This is less about the gratification and more abou the attention. The sex where it doesn't matter whom, where or when.

The "slut" type people refer to in here means to me girl who knows what she wants, is not afraid to get it and likes to push boundaries. Sex leans towards the naughtier dirtier and it is this which one enjoys.

This type of "slut" I doubt responds well to these men.

We all respect ourselves to much for men who think we're easy to enjoy the finer side of sex we can offer.

It seems to be we're all a "slut" but we have self worth so really, we're just really naughty girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of dudes on here may get most of their knowledge of women through porn.... perhaps the type who struggle with the fairer sex in real life. (Do know that's not everyone though)

I totally agree with this...porn does have a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of dudes on here may get most of their knowledge of women through porn.... perhaps the type who struggle with the fairer sex in real life. (Do know that's not everyone though)

I totally agree with this...porn does have a lot to answer for"

The downsides of the Internet. It distances people as much as it connects.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

D.I.S.R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

Doesn't work quite so well as a song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recent personal experience of someone who didn't respect my wishes. I'm not making that mistake again so anyone with even the slightest hint of that isn't coming anywhere near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm proud to say that I'm a slut. I say that because I like to fuck other men as well as my husband. However I won't fuck anybody, and I also expect to be treated like a princess.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I think a lot of dudes on here may get most of their knowledge of women through porn.... perhaps the type who struggle with the fairer sex in real life. (Do know that's not everyone though)

The porn excuse holds no weight with me for the simple fact how stupid has someone got to be to believe a paid act is real life its not that simple I think it has more to do with how sex is looked apron and how people who enjoy sex are viewed and labeled by the mainstream media and society in general . with its moral crusade against sex in all other forms than between vanilla married couples .

I'm sure its this brain washing that leads to disrespectful approaches after all the media has brain washed the Sender into the miss guided believe that people who like non vanilla forms of sex are morally corrupt in some way so no need to approach them in the same way as you would I don't know let's use this argument you would the girl next door who volunteers in here spare time as a helper at the local church .

Oh well that's my ten pence worth and final post on the topic .

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By *asokitty OP Woman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Its not disrespectful to call a woman a slut ...a whore...a cunt...if that's what she likes...

If you don't like the terms or being treated like one...don't meet or interact with the men that make it clear that's what they want!

Agree if they like it in a 1:1 situation.

But when it's in profile and posts it's disrespectful and frankly misogynistic

To you maybe...

My suggestion..

Of you don't like it ...don't read it...if you read by mistake...then ignore..."

To me and many others it seems.

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I recommend people read Girl On The Net if they want to understand a bit more about this kind of dynamic. I am by no means suggesting that all these guys are not misogynistic wankers, but different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to have a nice mutual funds naughty sexy time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

What's the difference between a slut and a bitch?

A slut will sleep with anyone

A bitch will sleep with anyone but you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

They just want a freebie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

Lots of women like being called sluts and whores

Look at all the pics with women with such words written across them, I've seen pics of women with cum dump, whore pig and alsorts written on the

I would say these women don't really want respect, they want to be used by guys looking to use

Somebody for everybody on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of men looking for 'filthy sluts' at the moment and expecting women to turn up service them and leave.

Maybe I'm just being sensitive with the heat but it seems that there are a lot of men who do not respect women at all lately.

Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong

Lots of women like being called sluts and whores

Look at all the pics with women with such words written across them, I've seen pics of women with cum dump, whore pig and alsorts written on the

I would say these women don't really want respect, they want to be used by guys looking to use

Somebody for everybody on here

Absolutely right

We like something in between .... Not disrespect , but to cum and go is cool .

We get we want , they get what they want and it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of dudes on here may get most of their knowledge of women through porn.... perhaps the type who struggle with the fairer sex in real life. (Do know that's not everyone though)

Oh well that's my ten pence worth and final post on the topic . "

I hadn't thought of it that way. Think you might have something there.

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