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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence why they come to me

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I think wining and dining is for dating sites..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful face

Beautiful body

Beautiful soul

Beautiful voice

Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty

To be wined and dined and treated like a princess

Someone who you long to spend time with

Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It depends on the mood, some men are great at sex and rubbish company. Others have the whole package, some are good company with no sexual spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think wining and dining is for dating sites.."

Do you?

I always find that a little bit odd

Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them

To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

That for me is great . Don't want to show up and have sex with someone who is a total douche bag/bore

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I didn't say I wouldn't meet for a drink before deciding to shag them... I would also meet for a social over a bite to eat..

Personally it think the whole 'wine n dine' is a date thing..

Only what I think tho

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

That is classy. I so love your deep thinking on a meet. Too bad you don't go for men haha

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Haha mr casseninova ey? Lol

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"That is classy. I so love your deep thinking on a meet. Too bad you don't go for men haha"

Who?

If you click '+quote' the person your replying to will know

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"That is classy. I so love your deep thinking on a meet. Too bad you don't go for men haha

Who?

If you click '+quote' the person your replying to will know "

Thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the mood, some men are great at sex and rubbish company. Others have the whole package, some are good company with no sexual spark."

Pretty much sums it up

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"

It depends on the type of meet it is and what we're looking for at the time.

In general, we prefer meets with those we we get on socially with and can have a laugh/ chat before and after.

Sometimes, that's not needed and no names etc need to be exchanged. I just want their body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beautiful face

Beautiful body

Beautiful soul

Beautiful voice

Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty

To be wined and dined and treated like a princess

Someone who you long to spend time with

Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty "

Come on, you love those pasties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be wined and dined but conversation is definitely required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beautiful face

Beautiful body

Beautiful soul

Beautiful voice

Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty

To be wined and dined and treated like a princess

Someone who you long to spend time with

Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty

Come on, you love those pasties!"

Chicken bake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does one exclude the other?

Why can't we seek whatever we're in the mood for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the mood, some men are great at sex and rubbish company. Others have the whole package, some are good company with no sexual spark."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can have good sex with guys who can do NSA right.

so long as i'm not left feeling used and enjoyed myself (either he let me take the lead or made en effort for me) then i was happy enough to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think wining and dining is for dating sites..

Do you?

I always find that a little bit odd

Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them

To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them "

This^^^ we love to meet for a social beforehand as it helps everyone relax and feel comfortable together but also gives a no pressure situation where people don't feel they have to play because they are there, if the spark isn't there in real life it's much more comfortable just to continue the social a bit longer and go your separate ways than if you are just straight meeting to fuck at a hotel or house.

And for us just because we aren't attracted to someone doesn't mean we won't invite them to a party we throw or something if we get on socially, others we know may be attracted to them!

But that is the beauty of the site, someone for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen someone say it on here and loved the saying...

Treat me like a princess... fuck me like a porn star

That is all hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beautiful face

Beautiful body

Beautiful soul

Beautiful voice

Funny, Sexy and sensual but also dirty

To be wined and dined and treated like a princess

Someone who you long to spend time with

Not a quick fuck round back of Argos and a greggs pasty "

So you don't have The Pound Bakery near you? Greggs is a bit steep in price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully in support of being wined and dined, or even just being out on the town having a nice time, as part of an NSA sexual relationship. But so many people stand in horror at it, saying 'this is a sex site, not a dating site'. I always get the best sex when there is a good lead up to the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the wining and dining type, never have been and never will be.

Because I'm so shy I prefer socials to be as quick as possible and prefer the potential sex God to be witty, laid back and easy to be around. If he's super chatty that helps because it can be hard work getting me talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"

I think you're over thinking this .... Women have all the pussy and all the power. If they ask a guy to take them to dinner . Guys will do it

If they ask a guy to come straight to their hotel without a drink. Guys will do it.

Fab is run by women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the wining and dining if he's prepared to wait at least 4 hours for it to digest before having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed with the wining and dining. My free time is rare, I want to screw not hear some random guy's life history!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not the wining and dining type, never have been and never will be.

Because I'm so shy I prefer socials to be as quick as possible and prefer the potential sex God to be witty, laid back and easy to be around. If he's super chatty that helps because it can be hard work getting me talking "

Nothing wrong with talking to a pretty face, I could talk the hind legs off a donkey that might be because I'm an ass though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"

Different women go about meets in different ways...

If we were all the same and liked the same thing where would be the challenge in that?

It's up to you, as a prospective play partner, to figure out what it is that stimulates our minds...

Not for us to hand it to you on a plate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be arsed with the wining and dining. My free time is rare, I want to screw not hear some random guy's life history! "

Yep....same here

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I was wondering why you said that as you not had any meets lol

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think wining and dining is for dating sites..

Do you?

I always find that a little bit odd

Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them

To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them "

Fancy a spot of lunch in a nice pub tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think wining and dining is for dating sites..

Do you?

I always find that a little bit odd

Personally I see no harm in meeting for a drink or maybe a spot of lunch to have a chat and decide if you like somebody before you commit to shagging them

To me that's not a date its having a drink while I decide if I want to shag them "

Likewise. If someone's personality doesn't turn me on then their body sure isn't going to do it for me

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Hence why they come to me "

Ooh is there wine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?

Different women go about meets in different ways...

If we were all the same and liked the same thing where would be the challenge in that?

It's up to you, as a prospective play partner, to figure out what it is that stimulates our minds...

Not for us to hand it to you on a plate "

that's a Two-Way street, it's called equality..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be arsed with the wining and dining. My free time is rare, I want to screw not hear some random guy's life history! "

Perfectly put!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

In general I need to be interested in a guy first. But this can be dealt with at a coffee social.

No need for wining & dining

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway


"It depends on the mood, some men are great at sex and rubbish company. Others have the whole package, some are good company with no sexual spark."

really good ponts

but sex for me is always in the mind i dont sext or do mass build ups its all in the banter . hence why i dont do random meets .. i like te face t face tease x

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?"

I am not interested in making any connection with a man I meet. I am just after the filth of the physicality of it, and that in itself is a turn on. If I wanted to get to know someone, I would go to a dating site. I have all of the conversation and stimulation from my friends and family ... don't need that from anyone here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be arsed with the wining and dining. My free time is rare, I want to screw not hear some random guy's life history! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women on here confuse me. They do not want to be wine or dined or even too much conversation. Just the physical of a man. Surely that doesn't give you the best of sex does it? Don't you find it more attractive and sexy when a man can stimulate your mind before giving you the sex you enjoy?

I am not interested in making any connection with a man I meet. I am just after the filth of the physicality of it, and that in itself is a turn on. If I wanted to get to know someone, I would go to a dating site. I have all of the conversation and stimulation from my friends and family ... don't need that from anyone here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only person I enjoy being wined and dined by is Mark ...meets from here are stimulation of the mind via msgs or telephone or kik followed by actions at a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hence why they come to me "

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