FabSwingers.com forum: Breaking in newbies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a bad couple of experiences with newbs,, has anyone had any success? We seem to attract the wrong sort so stick to confirmed couples now

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i meet quite a few newbies - think the key is to meet for a chat first and take time to explain some basic things about the site and how it works. i have had few problems whilst here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they read the mail be good start but most dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could you just wrte a list so everyone could refer to it?? ts not hard to not be a knob really lol it's a shame really feel like men have been hit with a bit of a brush round these parts lool

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

same here just take your time and be nice it may happen it may not we have all been there dont push them as peeps who have not played before could put them off all together

so just give them time

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

think the thing we all have to rem is we where all newbies at some stage, so have to make some allowances, but you can state you dont wish to meet newbies

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I love newbies. Always nice to welcome them into the fold (and bed) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i might be in need of breaking in, therw doesnt seem to be many dom fems around here to put me in my place lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I still count as a newbie ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be nice"

A little misunderstood , maybe.

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Mmmm couldnt eat a whole one - or could I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could save some for later .

Doggy bag , perhaps lol

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Hm not sure he would go for that idea... but its a thought. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet she would not mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone to break me in ?

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

anyone????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i meet quite a few newbies - think the key is to meet for a chat first and take time to explain some basic things about the site and how it works. i have had few problems whilst here

*nods agreement*

we like our newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

breaking em in or just as decent people :p

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We to have had some great meets with newbies. We have found, just being very clear about things from the start & taking our time on a meet usually is enough.

Really great when you find the ones that realise they love it on a meet with you!

Of course there is the odd one or two that haven't talked it through properly etc etc. But then there's others like that to!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I try to avoid meeting couples who don't seem to know what they want... it's not always newbies I avoid.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I try to avoid meeting couples who don't seem to know what they want... it's not always newbies I avoid."

well i would say the same for single fems and there is a lot who dont know what they want or who they want not you polo or any of the other ladies on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a thought should give newbies a chance to get use 2 the site restricted access

with out the bombardment of mail to them

a lot really dont hang around due it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im still new but jumped right in lol

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Give us a chance we have to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love newbies. Always nice to welcome them into the fold (and bed) xx"

Yoo hoo, I'm a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone????

I really should think before I type

I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?

Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.

I only have eyes for the ladies .

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think it's a bit different being a newbie couple looking to explore uncharted ground in their relationship.... to being a newbie single looking for a leg over.

For the couple it is new in so many ways.... for many singles it's just a new place to try and get some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone????

I really should think before I type

I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?

Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.

I only have eyes for the ladies .

Eyes for the ladies, arse for the men eh! Haha

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

"anyone????

I really should think before I type

I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?

Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.

I only have eyes for the ladies .

Don't worry mate not every tv bi man or gay man will be falling over themselves cause u said that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone????

I really should think before I type

I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?

Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.

I only have eyes for the ladies .

Don't worry mate not every tv bi man or gay man will be falling over themselves cause u said that lol"

No, just 90% haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not .

It was just a way of explaining my earlier post , only when I read it back I realised how it sounded.

Most people make their own assumptions and I needed to clarify myself.

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Ur makin us all sound desperate now lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Ur makin us all sound desperate now lol"

Nothing wrong with a little desperation…. The desperate ones are always more grateful

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"anyone????

I really should think before I type

I meant to say any female.want to break me in ?

Now all you blokes , tv 's etc can stick your tongues back in your mouth.

I only have eyes for the ladies .

oh dear you said it its in stone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a newbie looking to be broken in, but's it's difficult to find people interested when other newbies ruin it for the rest.

I keep trying though, being polite and respectful, maybe i will find someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give us a chance we have to start somewhere"
i was thinking you had started ,. lol xx

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

"Give us a chance we have to start somewhere i was thinking you had started ,. lol xx"

I'm trying Game x

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

its abit diffucult as someone has already said a few dont totally know what they want,sometimes we meet newbies but prefer experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a non-timewasting, mature newbie (and a single guy at that) its the ones who ruin it for the rest of us that really get me steamed up (and not in a good way!) Maybe some of the more experienced folk could work on their newbie-welcoming skills, but its not hard to see why they don't bother - especially if they get nuisance mail from 100 crude idiots every week....

Maybe we newbies just need to be more into the social side or at least the club scene (or social club scene). It easy to get lost in the sexy possibilities and forget the social relationship/getting on with people.

Still hoping that they'll be a lady or couple here somewhere to whip me into ashape (possibly literally)

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

specking of our first time it went a bit strange and I don't think were confident enough to help out a new couple in to the fold, and it must be so hard if you don't even no what to do.

we talked a grate deal before having a go

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

god bless the newbies !!!!! after all with out em wed have to go back to scarificing goats again at the socials and meetings .......

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"god bless the newbies !!!!! after all with out em wed have to go back to scarificing goats again at the socials and meetings .......

you mean we've stopped doing that???

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

lol, i wish i could meet a noob, aside from building up their courage to do a first meet...it would be fun to initate them into the world of random sex and swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

treat people as ud like to be treated urself!

all folk have different reasons to try swinging, maybe a fantasy or just nervous? As for (breaking in) your talking about a human being with feelings , not an animal, no wonder people nervous apprehensive? Hope u enjoyed being broke in?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"god bless the newbies !!!!! after all with out em wed have to go back to scarificing goats again at the socials and meetings .......

you mean we've stopped doing that???"

ohh sorry i forgot you missed the last meeting of devil worshipers and socials devients .ill forward you the news letter ! hehe !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawn

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"treat people as ud like to be treated urself!

opps so turning up with a bridal and riding crop alil too much then????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've met many newbs and verified them after a successful meet. I have only regretted verifying a newb once, the rest I have met again.

We all had to start somewhere, and I have taken it upon myself to meet and enjoy a few new guys to make sure others aren't disappointed. Its a hard life sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no the jock accent disnae do it! Whips or wotever else?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

couldnt do a scotish accent if i tried lol !!!! which is a shame as meny people have huge weakness for it !

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

"I've met many newbs and verified them after a successful meet. I have only regretted verifying a newb once, the rest I have met again.

I may have missed the point of the OP a bit,are we talking about noobs to this site or noobs to sex sites in general as in people who haven't used the internet to meet up with people for sex?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've met many newbs and verified them after a successful meet. I have only regretted verifying a newb once, the rest I have met again.

I may have missed the point of the OP a bit,are we talking about noobs to this site or noobs to sex sites in general as in people who haven't used the internet to meet up with people for sex?"

Good point! I assumed new to this site but it wasn't made clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met quite a few lovely newbie couples and always had a lot of fun..we love seeing them excited and experiencing their first ime ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hey guys, we're newbies, ish, I guess now, I'm not sure when you lose the tag exactly lol.

But we threw ourselves into it. Some people like the badge of doing newbies, breaking them in, and some of the messages we have have had have made us feel like the new toy on the block.

But like in any situation in life, we want to meet genuine people too, that don't just want another newbie notch on the post.

We attended a party where we knew no-one, and ended up being the life and soul of the party, and initiating a six-a-thon - so please don't judge us all the same - just because we are new - doesn't mean we don't know how to tease, please and have an awesome time!!!

Our cherry poppers, (lol) have invited us back for more and couldn't believe we were new - our other social meet said it's been amazing to meet a genuine couple and cant wait to meet us again - so I also see that you get messed around a bit. And we'll have that to look forward to as well, cos we are not going anywhere!!! Loving it

x x x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Well hey guys, we're newbies, ish, I guess now, I'm not sure when you lose the tag exactly lol.

But we threw ourselves into it. Some people like the badge of doing newbies, breaking them in, and some of the messages we have have had have made us feel like the new toy on the block.

But like in any situation in life, we want to meet genuine people too, that don't just want another newbie notch on the post.

x x x "

When it's right, it's right. Just how it should be.... Good luck guys glad your having soooo much sexy fun. Xxxx.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"I love newbies. Always nice to welcome them into the fold (and bed) xx"

Now why are you so far away?

;)

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love newbies. Always nice to welcome them into the fold (and bed) xx

Now why are you so far away?

;) "

it happens get used it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't mind a newbie in my fold either.

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