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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit of advice/help required.

Is it bad etiquette when invited to a gang bang to enquire who is attending? I live in a fairly small town and not everyone wants to be known as a bi sexual swinger for obvious reasons. When I received an invite to attend I replied that I was very interested subject to further info and knowing who was attending. Long story short, I was told I was being a petulant child for asking and then blocked. Opinions welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit extreme to be called a petulant child for asking a question like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would want to know who was going to anything we attended too, I don't see anything wrong with what you asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course you need to know! What if you turn up and they all look like shoe horns? Then you gotta fuck a load of shoe horns so you don't look rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of advice/help required.

Is it bad etiquette when invited to a gang bang to enquire who is attending? I live in a fairly small town and not everyone wants to be known as a bi sexual swinger for obvious reasons. When I received an invite to attend I replied that I was very interested subject to further info and knowing who was attending. Long story short, I was told I was being a petulant child for asking and then blocked. Opinions welcome."

First thing you ask about any party is who is going.....

Chances are their guest list was either non existent or full of trolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course you need to know! What if you turn up and they all look like shoe horns? Then you gotta fuck a load of shoe horns so you don't look rude "

Your posts make me lol!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think they were being a petulant child by blocking,they probably didn't have anyone else

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

When we attend private parties (of any kind) we like to have a idea of who's attending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound like you've been blocked because you asked a question that they wanted to avoid answering!

Instead of worrying that you've missed out - be grateful that you've possibly escaped a difficult situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems a bit extreme to be called a petulant child for asking a question like that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course you need to know! What if you turn up and they all look like shoe horns? Then you gotta fuck a load of shoe horns so you don't look rude

Your posts make me lol! "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you were deffo right to ask who is attending as your boss neighbor or the girl from your local tesco who cant hold her water might be attending that n its always good to see if there is anyone you fancy going to be blocked n bitched at by the organizer is pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is perfectly reasonable to ask who else is attending. I always tell folks once i have the attendees confirmed.... I suspect they didn't have any others going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you were deffo right to ask who is attending as your boss neighbor or the girl from your local tesco who cant hold her water might be attending that n its always good to see if there is anyone you fancy going to be blocked n bitched at by the organizer is pathetic "

That happened recently when a lady arranged to visit, I got a text minutes before the scheduled time to say that she recognised my vehicle outside my house and that as I do work for her company she could not meet. Had only seen body pics so still don't know who she was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask who's going when attending events, over the years I've met some truly awful people who I wouldn't give penicillin to if they were a walking clap clinic, so the thought of being in their presence would just boil my piss!

So I ask and that way I can dodge a bullet if necessary

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