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Partner doesnt like mmf?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Stop asking maybe?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

my advice is accept a d respect your partners decision

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Stop asking maybe?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

respect their wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my advice is accept a d respect your partners decision"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two choices really

A Find a new partner who is into the same things as you

Or

B stop pestering the girl to do what she does not want to, respect goes a long way

Otherwise she may take up advice A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up?

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

one doesnt plant an Acorn one morning & expect to find a mighty oak the next .

Subtlety & patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimatums usually work.

Put the pressure on pal, she'll come round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."

Your not asking for advice to spice up your relationship

You have already said he refuses to do MMF

What do you want us to say?

Are you waiting for somebody to tell you how to get her to do somethjbg she clearly don't want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also a sarcastic git!

Make of that what you will.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."

It's good advice. She's said no to that particular activity and to keep asking for it would annoy me in her position. You asked for advice, I applied empathy. Maybe if you stopped asking you could try other ways of spicing it up and eventually she might suggest it of her own accord. Patience, young padawan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."

You said you've asked your partner to take multiple cocks & she's told you to fuck off a few times so no wonder people have said stop asking , nothing about advice on spicing up a relationship.

Fucking hell it's hard fucking work on here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha"

Respect her boundaries and stop pushing her.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Seems obvious - tv m f

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha"

No, there is no advice she or he is not into mmf so it isn't going to happen.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Advice to spice up a relationship and everyone replies with stop asking? What great advice lmao... clearly not forcing it asking for advice.."

To be fair your original post doesn't come across as asking for advice.

Talk to your partner and find out what she would like to try to spice things up and see if you can't find something you'd both enjoy. Best of luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Out of interest op what does your profile text mean?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Maybe they want a FFM instead.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Suggest a mmmmf instead - perhaps she thinks just 2 a bit boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like tomatoes. My mother to this day keeps asking me if I want tomatoes with my dinner. Does my tits right in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't listened to your partner, you haven't listened to these responses. You haven't heard what you want to hear have you.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Well if she's not up for it nothing is stopping you. Greese up your arse and go to a gay club n find a couple of guys to fuck it. Your dreams CAN come true.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If you have "angled it multiple times" and she has indicated that she is not interested...then she is not interested and that should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my advice is accept a d respect your partners decision"

Yup - what thay said ^ - good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest a MMF where your not involved, You might be the problem

Stop asking her. Let her have time to think about it.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Although it drives me mad horny my partner refuses to take up the idea of mmf even though ive angled it differently multiple times, advice if any? Aha"

Get a misses who is up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine someone pressuring you to do something sexual you feel uncomfortable with, not sexy, not fun. If you want to spice up your sex life do something you'd both enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop asking maybe?"

Good advice !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the previous poster.

There are things i just would not do sexually, kids, animals, i find them repulsive and don't see how anyone could get off on them at all. Almost all of us have those same limits and you would not want to try to convince someone to change their view on those.

However, black and white is all you'll ever get on here from usually sarcastic people who don't bother to get to the facts.

I spent decades scared to get on a roller coaster but then i had to go on a little one leading to being braver bit by bit. Now i can do any of them and love the thrill.

Your partner isn't interested but does that rule it out totally? Who knows, that's down to how turned off she is and for what reason. Does she find it a "step too far", is she totally disgusted or is she worried it will cause the end of your relationship because one of you might get too caught up in it?

Maybe she's sexy and likes to play but that's just a step too far (which could change over time), or she's a total prude and won't even have sex with the light on...who knows?...no one on here that's for sure.

Asking people on here for advice about your partner or relationship is pointless because they don't know anything about either.

Just being honest!

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