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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are great ideas for some make shift restraints for a woman. Leather belt, scarf, rope?

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

A fairly thick rope, using a larks head around the wrist or ankle, works well.

If pulled it tightens, great for role play, but, if the rope is stiff enough, it will open when the limb relaxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Electrical Tape..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been restrained with luggage straps before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Electrical Tape.."

Ooooo idea!! But might have to start with sonething a little softer.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Nice cork belt is good.

A silk tie works very well.

A ladies stocking work brilliantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hands! Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice cork belt is good.

A silk tie works very well.

A ladies stocking work brilliantly."

Great ideas, might try the out.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Ties are good

The material ties that they put around pillows in hotels are also quite useful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie wraps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. A pair of soft boot laces.

One around the base of the thumbs and the other around the "neck" of her big toes . . . anything more is unnecessary.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Silence is golden but duck tape is silver

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

It probably doesn't count but I have used whoppie slings and soft shackles from my hammock camping kit. The dyneema rope is wonderfully soft.

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"It probably doesn't count but I have used whoppie slings and soft shackles from my hammock camping kit. The dyneema rope is wonderfully soft."

Amsteel whoopie slings are wonderfully soft, and easily adjustable.

I wonder if they are a bit too strong for their size? Most restraints could be wriggled free from, not amsteel.

Lots of trust, and no dodgy tickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neck ties and hold ups.

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By *icelymarkedplusoneCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Don't forget the medical shears. Just in case

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados


"A fairly thick rope, using a larks head around the wrist or ankle, works well.

If pulled it tightens, great for role play, but, if the rope is stiff enough, it will open when the limb relaxes"

Please please please do not follow this advice. The wrists are very delicate parts of the body and contain some quite delicate bones, not to mention nerves and blood supply to the hands. These can be easily damaged with too much pressure.

Rope is awesome stuff, but please take just 5 minutes to search YouTube for 'Shibari wrist cuff' to see how to do it safely. In short you need to lock the rope off half hitch so that it CAN'T tighten when pulled upon.

-Matt

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"It probably doesn't count but I have used whoppie slings and soft shackles from my hammock camping kit. The dyneema rope is wonderfully soft.

Amsteel whoopie slings are wonderfully soft, and easily adjustable.

I wonder if they are a bit too strong for their size? Most restraints could be wriggled free from, not amsteel.

Lots of trust, and no dodgy tickers "

Quiet a lot of my lines are 5mm so rated to hold static loads of upto 2200kg.

With careful positioning the soft shackles can be difficult to get out of but are escapable. They also have the advantage of not being self tightening.

In some situations an icelock (either commercial or homemade) can be incorporated as a time release or an intentionally week link included. You just have to give some thought to the risks and what level of backup plan is required, obviously those needed for a group play situation would be different to solo bondage sessions.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I should add that if need be HMPE ropes can be cut with the right shears.

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

When I say thick rope, I'm talking about THICK, at least 12mm dynamic. A short loop larks head would not close tight enough before the knot restricts further tightening.

A lady once handed me paracord to tie her with, much too small diameter.

As for a soft shackle, I may see if I can wriggle a hand out of one tonight.

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Clingfilm - emm once did a photo shoot using this & has loved it ever since

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon


"Clingfilm - emm once did a photo shoot using this & has loved it ever since"
would love to the photos of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget the medical shears. Just in case "

Hell . . in a panic simply go for the chain saw!

But that user is spot on, ALWAYS have an emergency kit handy that includes very strong shearing type scissors . . Murphy will do his utmost to spoil your fun with cramp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equestrian bandage. Surgical tape.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"When I say thick rope, I'm talking about THICK, at least 12mm dynamic. A short loop larks head would not close tight enough before the knot restricts further tightening.

A lady once handed me paracord to tie her with, much too small diameter.

As for a soft shackle, I may see if I can wriggle a hand out of one tonight."

Making custom sized soft shackles is quiet easy and there are good instructions on the web. The hardest part is getting the stopper knot right and then tight enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

knickers are good for pinning someones head to the bed. and just using your legs to pin down arms.

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands


"Clingfilm - emm once did a photo shoot using this & has loved it ever since

would love to the photos of this. "

they were on some special interest site afew yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are great ideas for some make shift restraints for a woman. Leather belt, scarf, rope?"

Depends if you like her or are going to be killing her.

I have a paslode nail gun that comes in very handy

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Neck ties or the tie from a bath robe

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"A fairly thick rope, using a larks head around the wrist or ankle, works well.

If pulled it tightens, great for role play, but, if the rope is stiff enough, it will open when the limb relaxes

Please please please do not follow this advice. The wrists are very delicate parts of the body and contain some quite delicate bones, not to mention nerves and blood supply to the hands. These can be easily damaged with too much pressure.

Rope is awesome stuff, but please take just 5 minutes to search YouTube for 'Shibari wrist cuff' to see how to do it safely. In short you need to lock the rope off half hitch so that it CAN'T tighten when pulled upon.

-Matt"

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