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does anyone else find it hard to sort 3sums or moresums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not keen on 121 with meets.. never have been... but found that since being on a singles profile its a lot harder to get a couole of guys..

or guys that are okay that it wont be just them.. ive had loads that agree to meet then say ohhh but only 121 first time...

well seeing as i tend to meet once and thats it... i don't want that..

but why would you come on here looking for just 121 sex.

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Yes I find it hard as well, it is a sex site not a dating site so don't understand it

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I would always be willing to join another guy for MMF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually leave to one guy to find the other one, this seems to have worked best for me.

and yes i hate that when you ask for a 3sum and they message saying they're up for that and then they only want 1on1. too many guys do this.

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I would have assumed that you would be swamped with replies, but this place never fails to surprise me.

I'm starting to suspect that plenty of the men on here don't actually want to swing, they just want a vanilla fuck. Nothing wrong with that, just worth bearing it in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can establish a better connection during a 121 meet. I am also not opposed to threesomes as long as its FFM threesome, though that is very unlikely to happen but it still says on my profile that I'm looking to meet FF couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i usually leave to one guy to find the other one, this seems to have worked best for me.

and yes i hate that when you ask for a 3sum and they message saying they're up for that and then they only want 1on1. too many guys do this."

not kidding happened again Saturday

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

A trawl through verifications would soon indicate whether MMFs are on the menu....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, lots of guys say they'd consider MFM (or more) but would prefer to meet 1:1 first. I can understand that they probably want to know there's a good bit of chemistry or just suss out whether you're genuine about meeting etc.

It's also really tricky getting the right guys with the right attitudes together in the same place at the same time! And then when you do think you've sorted that, there's always something comes up (either genuine reasons or less genuine excuses when they realise that they're not game for the reality of an arranged meet!) and so plans often don't work out as you want.

Still worth keeping on trying though as when they do work out they're worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem sorting a 3sum and had plenty of offers of moresums but not ready for that yet

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We find it difficult to find a guy who wants to play with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found arranging anything tends to be hard work, and have to a large extent given up as to many people, male and female, will let you down.

However, at clubs on the spur of the moment we have been rather lucky. We don't ever go with the intention of something happening but more often than not it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found one on here quite easily,soon after I joined. It happened by accident really as one of them messaged me and the conversation turned to 3 somes so he introduced me to a man friend of his on here,and we all met up. My other mmf 3 somes weren't arranged through Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just in the process of organizing our first mmmf have chatted to mm couple on here who seem very genuine, have veri's and are local to us.

Hoping to sort it for mid August,so far it looks very promising.

We will keep you informed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranging one on one sex is hard enough so it's twice or three times as hard once you add multiple guys!

I do feel your pain though. When I've been arranging multiple guys for a lady it tends to be, my wingman who I know will be there and maybe if you're lucky one other! and they turn out to be a nervous wreck who can't deliver lol!

It's a numbers game, if you want one, invite 3, for 3 guys 6 and for a gang bang, invite the world!

Like you OP, I prefer multiple guys at a meet, lots more fun than one on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not keen on 121 with meets.. never have been... but found that since being on a singles profile its a lot harder to get a couole of guys..

or guys that are okay that it wont be just them.. ive had loads that agree to meet then say ohhh but only 121 first time...

well seeing as i tend to meet once and thats it... i don't want that..

but why would you come on here looking for just 121 sex."

Why would you come on here looking for 3 somes? I think the answers will be similar.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not more or less difficult than meeting a single person really, maybe it takes more time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not keen on 121 with meets.. never have been... but found that since being on a singles profile its a lot harder to get a couole of guys..

or guys that are okay that it wont be just them.. ive had loads that agree to meet then say ohhh but only 121 first time...

well seeing as i tend to meet once and thats it... i don't want that..

but why would you come on here looking for just 121 sex.

Why would you come on here looking for 3 somes? I think the answers will be similar. "
swinging by definition isnt 121 sex though.... 121 is nsa but wouldnt call it swinging.. if i wanted 121 id not be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not keen on 121 with meets.. never have been... but found that since being on a singles profile its a lot harder to get a couole of guys..

or guys that are okay that it wont be just them.. ive had loads that agree to meet then say ohhh but only 121 first time...

well seeing as i tend to meet once and thats it... i don't want that..

but why would you come on here looking for just 121 sex.

Why would you come on here looking for 3 somes? I think the answers will be similar. swinging by definition isnt 121 sex though.... 121 is nsa but wouldnt call it swinging.. if i wanted 121 id not be on here "

We're back to definitions again. What is swinging? And one persons definition is different to another's. We can all coexist.

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By *dcumlover2Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

I would have no problem meeting you and however many other guys you want, think its the fear factor of another guys cock that put most off or it could be the fact they just want a shag and nothing else

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

Ive arranged a lot of mmf, its just a matter of finding the reliable men in the first instance, once you have them request are easy to arrange for a girl, just need a little bit of notice for it to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always looking for willing ladies to join me and a friend for mmf in London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to get mmfm, mmfm type meetings. So many guys on here just want a 121...

Why don't they go on POF or something? They seem frightened to get naked with another man there...

Worst of all they often agree to meet then back out silently at the last moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to arrange twosomes so threesomes are just a distant dream right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem like an understanding woman

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I find it hard to get mmfm, mmfm type meetings. So many guys on here just want a 121...

Why don't they go on POF or something? They seem frightened to get naked with another man there...

Worst of all they often agree to meet then back out silently at the last moment. "

I would happily meet couples and single females with another guy present and often have

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i gave up looking for more than one man at a time. Not many are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found the same thing OP. It was relatively easy to find a man/ men as a couple. Now I'm single I haven't even tried because I know it will be pretty much impossible.

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By *rm159Man
over a year ago

hamilton

Happy to b in a mmf for fun times have done a cpl times any ffurther local contact me

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I'm happy to be part of mmf, but find more soles a bit intimidating. I expect it would be easier if I had already had mmf with them, before adding more.

I find it incredibly difficult to organise an mmf, the las was last September.

So if anyone in Glos is interested...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hard to get mmfm, mmfm type meetings. So many guys on here just want a 121...

Why don't they go on POF or something? They seem frightened to get naked with another man there...

Worst of all they often agree to meet then back out silently at the last moment. "
yup thats what ive had today...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Clubs are probably the best way to get a threesome or larger.

You have a greater chance of finding 2 or more regular swingers who are comfortable in group situations.

Nita

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"We find it difficult to find a guy who wants to play with us "

I'd play with you, if you'd have me

Just need to warm up to the more bit, but I'm determined to get there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs are probably the best way to get a threesome or larger.

You have a greater chance of finding 2 or more regular swingers who are comfortable in group situations.

Nita"
i usually use clubs but used to always be able to find a guy or two... now they just want 121 and not share

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Clubs are probably the best way to get a threesome or larger.

You have a greater chance of finding 2 or more regular swingers who are comfortable in group situations.

Nita i usually use clubs but used to always be able to find a guy or two... now they just want 121 and not share"

Depending how big a group you want and what sort of play you want... you could try joining two couples.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I have a tag partner Si who helps me out in shoots with various women & this team up also works good at swinging parties etc so if you are ever in Essex look us up.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I'm looking for a threesome on buts its so difficult . Best of luck op in getting yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm looking for a threesome on buts its so difficult . Best of luck op in getting yours"
ive had loads.. my thing is all of a sudden it seems a lot of single guys dont want to meet when its not 121 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried searching for mm couples that team up to meet?

I have been approached a few times in that kind of way? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried searching for mm couples that team up to meet?

I have been approached a few times in that kind of way? x"
yeah they never seem to match what im looking for x

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