FabSwingers.com forum: Persistent guys who won't take no for an answer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We block too"

Thanks! Relieved I not the only one to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block too

Thanks! Relieved I not the only one to block"

Like you we try to be polite but some people just think that's an in and then pester you sometimes there's no alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no option but to block. There are some right idiots on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block of course, why the hell would you feel bad about blocking someone with no respect for your choices?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

My block list gets bigger every day ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't politeness be misinterpreted as flirting and you 'might still be interested'?

Make it a bit clearer. Some need a clear- your not my type. Or never going to happen. The nicest and well OUG I had was ' I'm sure there's plenty of more women here for you'. I liked that.

clear and polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try to give a polite no thanks but we do block sometimes when we just can't be bothered with them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We block too

Thanks! Relieved I not the only one to block"

Blocking isn't a bad thing, harassment is. If someone doesn't take no for an answer you have no option but to block, be confident in your decision but also ensure that you are clear from the start that your answer is "no" not "maybe".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

We automatically block anyone we now we are not going to meet. Its nothing personal to the person - just good housekeeping as well as preventing the dummy throwing if we say no ( even politely)

We had a recent message we didn't ask for and didn't reply to- and got a string of abuse for doing so - which reassured us blocking if we are not meeting is the right thing to do.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My block list is huge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If persistent just block, although we don't often have to do that thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair we rarely have to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the title of the thread describes is a very good attitude maybe just not in your example

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

"You have no option but to block. There are some right idiots on here!! "

Yep,scary ones who no your full name/address/blood group ect..before you even make polite conversation first!..

Weirdo's..x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had to block on a few occasions because of this. I'm sure they see it as being keen and we should be flattered but it's annoying and a total turn off!!! No need to feel bad about it either OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to block a couple of times! Im never rude or obnoxious though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

If I'm told that their not interested I leave them alone,but,there's so many time wasters I really don't know who I'm messaging sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always try to give a polite no thanks but we do block sometimes when we just can't be bothered with them"

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to get fucked and then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the block button is my firm favourite friend here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have no option but to block. There are some right idiots on here!!

Yep,scary ones who no your full name/address/blood group ect..before you even make polite conversation first!..

Weirdo's..x"

that would scare the hell out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

But for every one guy like this there are ten guys that are sound as a pound. Life is a rich tapestry. Block and move on. I'd suggest messaging a guy like me then you'll know what the awesome ones on fab are like!

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By *otnolongerwifeCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I used to reply to messages, even just to say no thank you, unless it was clear they had made no effort to read the profile at all.

Unfortunately, that just seemed to encourage people to try hard - I would estimate at least 75% would email back, asking why or trying again (usually letting me know about some mysterious bi girlfriend they didn't mention first time round), so now we just delete, and block if they message again.

I know I see plenty of moans about that sort of thing ("doesn't hurt to say no thank you"), but to that I have to say if you knew what a good majority of your peers were up to, you might understand.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

If I'm not interested I just block anyway saves them forgetting they messaged me a few months later down the line

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I block people who message me each week asking if I'm free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

I see what you did there. Well played sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block them if they keep on messeging us.

However some then make a new profile using the very same photos and text and yet again send us a messege !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block them if they keep on messeging us.

However some then make a new profile using the very same photos and text and yet again send us a messege !"

Haha. Who said men are not creative.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I block them if they keep on messeging us.

However some then make a new profile using the very same photos and text and yet again send us a messege !"

That's why we have new profiles filtered out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them!! It's the only way as they appear to have the memory of a goldfish and try it on again a few days later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block them,,its simple

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By *fricanMann2077Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

How about persistent ladies???

I dont block i just eventually say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

clearly this doesnt happen to us single guys, but i can imagine how annoying it can be for the ladies... just block and report, there is no place for trolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

clearly this doesnt happen to us single guys, but i can imagine how annoying it can be for the ladies... just block and report, there is no place for trolling"

Last time I looked at the rules they didn't say anything about reporting desperate men who don't take no for an answer ... blocking is more than sufficient as then they can't even perv your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just press ur finger on the B button.... my list will exceed 200 before the Sept. I've no concerns...plenty of fishing still out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

I see what you did there. Well played sir!

Haha why thank you! God loves a tryer haha x

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

From a mans perspective it's not difficult to know when someone's not interested even if they don't actually say so. Can't explain why others don't get it. Men eh

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

Maybe we're just lucky, but if we send a thanks but no thanks message, that's usually the end of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

Maybe we're just lucky, but if we send a thanks but no thanks message, that's usually the end of it. "
If I get a no I accept it and move onto the next to be rejected by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone replies in the first place saying no thanks I block to save messaging again in the future and annoying them.

If someone doesn't reply or read the message then further down the line you may think they either didn't get the message or it was lost in the inbox flood most women get.

I usually find a simple no thanks and then a block so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see 'No thank you' in my head is like

Challenge accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

clearly this doesnt happen to us single guys, but i can imagine how annoying it can be for the ladies... just block and report, there is no place for trolling

Last time I looked at the rules they didn't say anything about reporting desperate men who don't take no for an answer ... blocking is more than sufficient as then they can't even perv your pics

true but for me i see it as if they are doing ti tone they are most likely doing it to many and i dont see that they have a place on here with that behaviour

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I rarely get approached by females diret other than by a wink or fab to a photo so I mainly message women back. Never had to block anyone therefore even the bi and tv guys who seem to try their luck by approaching a straight man like myself!

I was in a lapdancing bar last week and kept being approached by girls calling me gorgeous! I have to say I didnt really like it as they wernt sincere and only after my cash. I can understand therefore women not liking persistent approaches and compliments by insincere guys who only want a quick fuck.

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

Maybe we're just lucky, but if we send a thanks but no thanks message, that's usually the end of it. If I get a no I accept it and move onto the next to be rejected by

Lol. I'm with you there

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"To be fair we rarely have to block. "

We only have one on our block list , we find asking for a phone number so we can chat on our fab phone puts many off especially couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block, i'm pretty sure they just spam everyone in the area with the same message also and have no idea who they've actually messaged.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Had this on my single profile,if i said no thanks once and they carried on instant block.

Profile notes are good for this.

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block them if they keep on messeging us.

However some then make a new profile using the very same photos and text and yet again send us a messege !

That's why we have new profiles filtered out.

Yes we do too but they then messege us after that time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on.

It unnerves me when someone's pushy on here as it makes me wonder how pushy they'd be in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block and move on.

It unnerves me when someone's pushy on here as it makes me wonder how pushy they'd be in real life

Did you know that you have just been awarded the coveted 'Bottom of the Year' award!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persistence overcomes resistance

Some men love the challenge of the chase

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me if a couple or a lady has said no it means no.

However sometimes I have been told no, then something has happened situationally and it has been either a let's have sex or a bit of a play

which is fine - I know I am not everyone's cup of tea but for the ones that I am brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block of course, why the hell would you feel bad about blocking someone with no respect for your choices?"

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By *ondiniumCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

We've never had to block anyone on a personal basis, but I think we did a generic block of specific status types that we were unlikely to meet so that seems to have worked well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't politeness be misinterpreted as flirting and you 'might still be interested'?

Make it a bit clearer. Some need a clear- your not my type. Or never going to happen. The nicest and well OUG I had was ' I'm sure there's plenty of more women here for you'. I liked that.

clear and polite. "

Strange some guys take a clear message "Like sorry not looking for single guys and please to save yourself time read profiles" the answer is that we as a couple are desperate and fat...

What does that say about some people on here... A polite straight forward message comes back in abuse and even if you report and block - they (can be also couples) close profile and just open next 1....

So just delete the message or messages and don't answer

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Block em. It's what the button is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

Just block and move on. The most annoying part is when they keep using new profiles but use the same pics so that you know it's them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones who send a message three days after I've said no thanks, and it's so obvious that they don't even remember (or care) that they sent the same message before. They're the ones who fill my block list.

Way to make a girl feel special, guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just ignore usually.

To be honest we find couples worse and have blocked more then single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood people having ping pong messaging arguments and feuds, just block as soon as you feel trouble brewing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block too

Thanks! Relieved I not the only one to block"

I block them.......and have blocked women who don't gloat my boat for exactly the same reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, move on and forget. Concentrate your energies who you'd actually like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just ignore usually.

To be honest we find couples worse and have blocked more then single guys."

True. I guess it's a complacency thing.

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I've no problem with people responding with a polite "no", but I've recently been blocked by someone that I messaged once. They deleted the email and blocked me.

The message was extremely polite and not pushy or abusive in any way.

It's hard enough for a genuine guy to make friends on here, we're always getting accused of being rude. But it does work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1: Politely decline.

2: Refer them to profile for illumination.

3: Ask them to respect my personal choice.

4: Block the knobbers.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Can't politeness be misinterpreted as flirting and you 'might still be interested'?

Make it a bit clearer. Some need a clear- your not my type. Or never going to happen. The nicest and well OUG I had was ' I'm sure there's plenty of more women here for you'. I liked that.

clear and polite. "

We are always clear and polite....doesn't stop some people though.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"1: Politely decline.

2: Refer them to profile for illumination.

3: Ask them to respect my personal choice.

4: Block the knobbers. "

5: Report anyone who starts to become abusive. It might work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them - if they have been rude or offensive report them which will get them removed from the site as happened to some weirdo who was stalking us.

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By *mjdWoman
over a year ago

oswestry

"Block and move on.

It unnerves me when someone's pushy on here as it makes me wonder how pushy they'd be in real life

I think this too and it does worry me also I do block if I get a one liner like do u want my cum? a guy wouldn't say that to u in a pub face to face -well I hope not!!

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By *tongueMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Block report

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By *tongueMan
over a year ago

wrexham

yes agree. I ask them to wink at me if not interested as it takes seconds. I then block so not to pester them in the future.

I think thats fair.

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Blocked a few on here but I'm pretty good at ignoring the new messages once I know who sent, if people are persistent enough to send messages more than once after being ignored then the block button looks appealing

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Talking to a personal friend who is on here, (we purposely haven't connected online), she answers all messages out of politeness.

She told me that she has very rarely had any persistence or abuse, other than one who kept asking for bb and one who wanted to tie her to a tree! Both were blocked.

A polite but firm response just seems nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking to a personal friend who is on here, (we purposely haven't connected online), she answers all messages out of politeness.

She told me that she has very rarely had any persistence or abuse, other than one who kept asking for bb and one who wanted to tie her to a tree! Both were blocked.

A polite but firm response just seems nicer"

bb? Forgive my innocence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block if they get abusive if we say no or sometimes want to meet just one of us and again we don't meet separately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why the block button exists - we had said no to someone but they wink daily - so stopped deleteing the wink and as soon as the 30 days or whatever was up they would wink again - so we blocked- gawd get the hint people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and filters you do the searching instead of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So frustrating!!

I obviously need to start using my block button!

Hubby say I'm too nice to them, then they start taking the piss!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

When visible I have filters. I also read the profile before the message and as my profile states I won't respond to anyone outwith what I'm looking for, I don't!

Result? Seven years on site and not one nanosecond of annoyance from a message.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The site offers tools for a reason....,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I bi guy I am interested in blokes. sadly very few have more then 'Don't know what to put here' or 'I'll fill in later'. They have no pics but want to see yours. They demand what I wear when I CD. They are rude and impatient. In over a year I have had one meet with a TS/TV who is very polite and many more real life meets. Now I come here to chat and for my own amusement only. I found a lovely lady a few weeks back only for her to be driven off by the large number of idiots who think it is a meat market. Us nice polite professional guys with completed profiles, face pics and manners no longer stand a chance with single fems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block them after saying no thank you the first time. Can't be persistent if they can't message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely block, but if just clicking on profiles having a nosey and see a profile with minging pics then i block so i dont have the misfortune of ever clicking and witnessing the sight again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I bi guy I am interested in blokes. sadly very few have more then 'Don't know what to put here' or 'I'll fill in later'. They have no pics but want to see yours. They demand what I wear when I CD. They are rude and impatient. In over a year I have had one meet with a TS/TV who is very polite and many more real life meets. Now I come here to chat and for my own amusement only. I found a lovely lady a few weeks back only for her to be driven off by the large number of idiots who think it is a meat market. Us nice polite professional guys with completed profiles, face pics and manners no longer stand a chance with single fems!"

Actually that's not true. You'll stand out more

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

bb? Forgive my innocence

Bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bb? Forgive my innocence

Bareback"

Thanks : )

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

It surprising how many people don't understand 'Fuck off' though blocking is much easier and not quite so offencive!

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

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Block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets not forget its a site where people are looking fun,ask yourself how you'd like to be treated,but,I know just how vile people are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely just say not for me then please no more messages. All said in one bit . If he/she/they persist block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely just say not for me then please no more messages. All said in one bit . If he/she/they persist block "

Honestly, so many assume that I automatically want to meet them just because I have read their message.

If I don't delete it then they are even more certain, go's forbid I reply then it's a dead cert and they are all already planning meet no 2.

Guy's I just like to be polite and respectful, try to message back when possible.

It doesn't mean I want you!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I come across this every day with men who continually message me when I make it clear I am not interested...I am never rude but it still doesn't help and have had to block a few unfortunately.

What do others do about this?

Blocking is the best answer. Just block anybody who carries on emailing you after you have said no.

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over a year ago

used to be polite most of the time..sadly not so polite anymore...in fact, i was quite polite just now and got 'sad fat cunt' in return...so no, no more polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...block and move on ..

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

"Can't politeness be misinterpreted as flirting and you 'might still be interested'?

Make it a bit clearer. Some need a clear- your not my type. Or never going to happen. The nicest and well OUG I had was ' I'm sure there's plenty of more women here for you'. I liked that.

clear and polite. "

I totally agree with you. Last single woman I met here was like sorry no chance in hell. Gave me three reason for a no. I replied cheekily but politely. By the end of the night we were having hours of fun in my flat. So I do agree with your comment. It just needs to be more clearer

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