FabSwingers.com forum: married men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

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By *urton-bi-coupleCouple
over a year ago

burton

get the wife to join in....

its your choice if you want to cheat on her or not, but how would you feel if you found out she was cheating on you?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It is Thursday !

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"It is Thursday !

LOL indeedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

well your here arnt you soo looks like you've made up your own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Buy some good books, pull up a comfy chair, and enjoy.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

Don't start all that again.

Have some respect for ALL users please.

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

get the music playing and join in the chat in the forums, you never know what might happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Get a divorce?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i think i have thank's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

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Only you know what to do .. Do you do what best for you ? Do you do whats best for your wife ? Do you do what make you happy? OR do you think to hell with rest its my life? Do you think grass is green on other side ? Do you think what she dont know will not hurt her. My list could go on and on... its your life theres good and bad in all things in life its just what values you have .. your the one who have to live with it all not us x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

rolls eyes hmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have asked, but shel dont want to, aint life a bummer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is Thursday !

Oh yeah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank's yes its hard, wen you love sumone, don't want to hurt or let them down, but i would realy like to try this, im sure she would love it if we tryd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

You obviously not looking with your eyes open then....there are lots of gorgeous single women, couples and men on here....maybe youre too picky....lol

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

"thank's yes its hard, wen you love sumone, don't want to hurt or let them down, but i would realy like to try this, im sure she would love it if we tryd.

Let's see if I have this right. You have spoken to her and she isn't interested in doing this. However because you want to try it, you have gone behind her back and joined the site. You say that you love her, don't want to hurt her or let her down ........... and yet you are here. Haven't you just done all three, but without her knowledge?

Have you considered the reasons why she isn't interested? Could it be a body image thing, that she isn't confident about herself? Could it be that she doesn't like the idea of seeing you with another woman?

But one thing I would say for certain, if you are found out, your balls are going in the vice and you will possibly lose everything you profess to 'love'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if she was the one doing this ? and you new nothing ... and swinging was not for you? ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i know thank's but i have had to look,if you met shel ud think he's mad y risk it, but it's in me to hav a look, i will have to try and talk more about this, as i feel this could help us find new way's to enjoy our sex life, many thanks for your reply.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

popped in and read..

hearty sigh...

and pops back out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

mmm! good answer.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

All i have to say is is that you want to have ones cake and eat it ,just think when your in the divorce court was that peace of cake really worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"popped in and read..

hearty sigh...

and pops back out.

Sometimes my friend, that's all you can do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

You obviously not looking with your eyes open then....there are lots of gorgeous single women, couples and men on here....maybe youre too picky....lol

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ermmm the amount of single men that say its hard to get a single woman on here to meet them ......does he think single women are gonna fall over each other to meet him lol why dont you just try and spice up your life with your wife or get a life before you distroy both of your lives. my opinion is cheat you diserve to get caught.right ill just sit back now and wait for the bullits to be fired lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

You obviously not looking with your eyes open then....there are lots of gorgeous single women, couples and men on here....maybe youre too picky....lol

ermmm the amount of single men that say its hard to get a single woman on here to meet them ......does he think single women are gonna fall over each other to meet him lol why dont you just try and spice up your life with your wife or get a life before you distroy both of your lives. my opinion is cheat you diserve to get caught.right ill just sit back now and wait for the bullits to be fired lol

Dont think there are any bullets to fire Carrie Ann...we are here to be having fun...not getting hung up with worrying whether people would be upset by what we are doing....

If you are asking those questions, why do it in the first place or is it a fetish to be constantly worried about what other people think and what their opinions are...lmao...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

Actually that was really funny and made me laugh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

Actually that was really funny and made me laugh lol"
If i was single i would not like that as theres loads of fems here a real mix here people cant like same thing but i know we have to take things with a pinch of salt at times here on forum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

You obviously not looking with your eyes open then....there are lots of gorgeous single women, couples and men on here....maybe youre too picky....lol

Dont think there are any bullets to fire Carrie Ann...we are here to be having fun...not getting hung up with worrying whether people would be upset by what we are doing....

If you are asking those questions, why do it in the first place or is it a fetish to be constantly worried about what other people think and what their opinions are...lmao...xxx

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mmmm i gotta a real urge to slap garfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

You obviously not looking with your eyes open then....there are lots of gorgeous single women, couples and men on here....maybe youre too picky....lol

Dont think there are any bullets to fire Carrie Ann...we are here to be having fun...not getting hung up with worrying whether people would be upset by what we are doing....

If you are asking those questions, why do it in the first place or is it a fetish to be constantly worried about what other people think and what their opinions are...lmao...xxx

mmmm i gotta a real urge to slap garfield

Bring it on Girl...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

Actually that was really funny and made me laugh lol If i was single i would not like that as theres loads of fems here a real mix here people cant like same thing but i know we have to take things with a pinch of salt at times here on forum x"

Fucking hell are you married??

Kinda proves the guys point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"get the wife to join in....

its your choice if you want to cheat on her or not, but how would you feel if you found out she was cheating on you?"

Pretty much what she said...although i know some ppl who play alone with the non swinging partners permission.

Fact is if you go behind her back its cheating,even on a swinging site.

Why not share fantasies,see what secret things turn her on,it's how many ended up here,including ourselves.It will spice up your sex life,and who knows where it might lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x"

Bugger...wish i was closer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

Rolls eyes, most definately and takes note of name. promised not to call anyone a twat this week so he is lucky

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x"

i can understand your _iew Katie,but my objection is as much practical as moral.Whilst i don't want to be responsible for anothers pain,i also don't want to get dragged into anothers drama.It happens and i don't need it.i also have pretty strong _iews on the whole my wife is frigid brigade(which i better not airl ol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x

I don;t geddit...you are just looking for sex on here right? So is the other fella...don;t make things more complicated than they need to be

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i have asked, but shel dont want to, aint life a bummer!

You asked!

So,heres the conversation

Do u want to try swinging?

Seriously i wonder at ppl i really do.What does turn her on,start from there.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x

I don;t geddit...you are just looking for sex on here right? So is the other fella...don;t make things more complicated than they need to be"

It is exactly to avoid complications that we do not play with marrieds.Many on here have written in other threads of the problems when the spouse finds out.And believe me they always know.Oh and the fact if they can't satisfy one woman i doubt they are going to satisfy me.

Damn i said i wasnt going to air my _iews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have asked, but shel dont want to, aint life a bummer!

You asked!

So,heres the conversation

Do u want to try swinging?

Seriously i wonder at ppl i really do.What does turn her on,start from there."

Ha ha yeah...I would have thought that the woman would then say "urghhh you dirty bastard...don't come near me no more!!!"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i have asked, but shel dont want to, aint life a bummer!

You asked!

So,heres the conversation

Do u want to try swinging?

Seriously i wonder at ppl i really do.What does turn her on,start from there.

Ha ha yeah...I would have thought that the woman would then say "urghhh you dirty bastard...don't come near me no more!!!""

Well i said ohh yes please,dont be sexist

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i have read ops post and replies and what strikes me is the constant reference to what HE wants . HE wants to swing ,HE thinks it would be fun for them ect ect . how very selfish especially when the ops wife has said no to it !! op claims that he loves wife more than anything ...obvious just not more than swinging and getting what HE wants.

if op wants to swing then thats is his descion .however, not for one second can he profess hes doing it for them and how much he loves ! loosing and hurting his wife comes a poor second to his own urges .... THAT says it all to me

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Give him a break guys he's on here for reason we may not like it but it's his buisness

Plent will play wiv u mate even if ur married an you'll get sum that won't

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

may-b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What other people do is not any of my business: full stop. I choose not to play with married men for a simple reason: they can't come out to play when I want. As this is about MY fun, why on earth would I choose people who can't play with me, or can only do a quickie between meetings?

Blimey, it takes me a couple of hours to sort, clean and put the batteries in my toys!

I don't even get upset when married men contact me - even though when my profile is visible it states "no married men please". Come on now...if they don't respect their wives, why on earth would I expect them to respect me? Delete, block and play with the legions of single men on this site.

I do laugh though at the moral high ground people try to take on a site aimed at promoting promiscuity!

As they say...nowt as queer as folk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank's

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"All i have to say is is that you want to have ones cake and eat it ,just think when your in the divorce court was that peace of cake really worth it

Well said, is it really worth risking what you have,. if you think it is then maybe you should get a devorce,

me personally wont entertaine a married man, as i strongly dissagree with cheating, as i wouldnt like it done to me.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

We don’t agree with cheating, however, what you do is your business, the subject shouldn’t really be up for discussion with anyone other than your wife / partner

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

We don’t agree with cheating, however, what you do is your business, the subject shouldn’t really be up for discussion with anyone other than your wife / partner

Another well said comment xx

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

to me if a guy is married and plays without her then its cheating no matter what, you say you love your wife yet your on this site trying to spice up your sex life with her......... well do it with her and not on here as it would be just you spicing up yours, talk to wife see where gonng wrong with sex life and sort it out with her

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

some will meet married men,others wont-its just personal choice really.OP why dont you join a club near you,just to see if you like the idea of swinging and hopefully your wife will come round to the idea ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x"

Agreed

probably wasnt the best questions to ask on here, people are going to judge you, there are a lot of married people on here, some are honest about it, some not so honest, some have couples profiles and the guys still have secret single males profiles too...if you have to ask if it is a good idea i think you already know the answer you just want someone to tell you its ok to cheat and no one will tell you that im afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi, thank's for the advise how would i find out about a club near me?

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Least the guy was honest and upfront and I wish him well don't matter wot his reasons are for bein on here he should get support not negative vibes

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By *mack my bumMan
over a year ago

Hayle

"hi, thank's for the advise how would i find out about a club near me?"

Google swinging clubs in ur area m8

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi, thank's for the advise how would i find out about a club near me?"

Have a look at clubs section,it lists clubs and you can read peoples re_iews x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I can see the OP hasn't actually cheated yet. So far all he has done is join a website and have a look around and post a forum thread.

To the OP. Have another chat with your wife maybe not so much about swinging but about fantasies and such. Maybe try some new things and experiment. You might find that during the discussions she may open up gradually to the idea of swinging. Don't push it though.

If she really is not interested in swinging I suggests you think seriously long and hard about whether swinging alone is really worth the risk. It usually isn't.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

well not like u have to take all our advice but i think its daft if ur guna do it behind her back if she dont wana do it,maybe u need to talk about it with her again and tell her how u feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how many people on here have said they wont meet married guys , but still go out dogging or to gangbangs others have organised , can they be sure the guys arnt married then ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".Oh and the fact if they can't satisfy one woman i doubt they are going to satisfy me.

Damn i said i wasnt going to air my _iews

lol I have actually found that I can not work out why the married men I play with are not being kept in bed by the wife at home..

I dont really want dragging into a drama, been there had that done to me.. ( I didnt even know I was the other woman it wasnt swinging related) Also been cheated on.. but I am on here for fun, for people to help Master and I do what we like to do..

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how many people on here have said they wont meet married guys , but still go out dogging or to gangbangs others have organised , can they be sure the guys arnt married then , "

Oh I am sure they inter_iew them thoroughly beforehand, check the ring finger etc lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least he has the balls to admit he is married . . .how many men on here are married or living with a longterm partner who has no idea what they get up to ??

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"he should get support not negative vibes"

Why?

People posted "their opinion" which is what the OP asked for, as per:

"wot to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s only one thing worse than a cheat, and that’s the people who knowingly help them cheat

If your going to cheat keep your head down and get on with it, some people don't care if anyone may get hurt as long as they get their rocks off, just don't try to justify it or ask what people think in an open forum, more often than not you'll not like the answers

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"There’s only one thing worse than a cheat, and that’s the people who knowingly help them cheat

Exactly one reason why i for one will try and advise him its not a good idea.

Why not concerntrate on the negative what is possibly posative anout a cheater.

No way would i knowingly go with a married man, and if i did unknowingly, and i found out i would hunt him down and chop his balls off, for draging us into something we so strongly dissagree with lol x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"if i did unknowingly, and i found out i would hunt him down and chop his balls off"

Good gawd

you've been warned peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at least he has the balls to admit he is married . . .how many men on here are married or living with a longterm partner who has no idea what they get up to ?? "
your right ,, lol xx do need some balls in forum at times x

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"popped in and read..

hearty sigh...

and pops back out.

think ill follow you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really would never meet with a married man, i would hate my man to do that to me. if he wasn't happy with me tell me move on.. but this in every respect is cheating.. either together or not at all. why do people these days get married again? she obviously doesn't want to try respect that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer married guys !!

You know they will keep it a secret, then dont want to fall in love me or get infactuated with me like some of the single guys have I have met in the past. Give me a fit married guy anytime.

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By *ony on the poleMan
over a year ago

west london

If you want to try Swinging, do your wife and yourself a favour, be a man and end your marriage now, it's obviously not working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thankyou for the reply above.. cheating is wrong and the few women that find it ok to sleep with married men your just as wrong..

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

quiet a number of men on site are married but play and the wife dont know to me thats def cheating, i nearly got caught out once on that he was saying all the nice things about being single then all of a sudden cant chat family about, i caught on quick and said wife about is she and that was that..... was going to meet him but i didnt as i too wont meet married men

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over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

Try and meet a married woman or couple, they tend to be less judgemental and better looking than the single women on here

Fucking hell are you married??

Kinda proves the guys point!"

what did you thing "couple" stood for? ....... tits????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think many married men see swinging as not an affair because most of the ladies on here are looking for nsa sex...

I personally dont have any problems with married people playing on here... with or without consent of other partners.. I am not here to be a moral judge on how others live their lives..

Harsh but I am here to live my life in a way I see fit.. not judge others.

Katie.x

I don;t geddit...you are just looking for sex on here right? So is the other fella...don;t make things more complicated than they need to be"

gotta agree with Jemima best stay well clear of such situations wherever you can for both valid reasons that she states.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

You love the thought of swinging? You love the thought of thinking you can get loads of shags with other women - You are obviously lacking something major in your relationship if you say you don't want to have an affair - why would you want to? In my opinion you don't want to swing, you just want to get your end away without giving any consideration to your wife. I think you need to take a hard look at your relationship. Z

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over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

We don’t agree with cheating, however, what you do is your business, the subject shouldn’t really be up for discussion with anyone other than your wife / partner

indeed, tis a recipe for disaster.

Another well said comment xx"

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over a year ago

"hi? im a married man, i dont want to have an affair, but love the thought of swinging? wot to do?

When push comes to shove you'll do what you want anyway, no matter what anyone here says.

I only know that I love my partner and would never do anything without her knowing because I know it would hurt her if she found out.

The fact that she may never find out wouldn't come into it, just the thought of doing something I know would upset and hurt her would be enough to prevent me from doing it.

As I said "you'll do what you want" but if you do decide to put your own carnal desires above your "love" for your wife and her feelings prepare to face the consequences, but don't expect much sympathy or backing from the site.

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over a year ago

"What other people do is not any of my business: full stop. I choose not to play with married men for a simple reason: they can't come out to play when I want. As this is about MY fun, why on earth would I choose people who can't play with me, or can only do a quickie between meetings?

Blimey, it takes me a couple of hours to sort, clean and put the batteries in my toys!

I do laugh though at the moral high ground people try to take on a site aimed at promoting promiscuity!

As they say...nowt as queer as folk!

Great post Sassy.

The problem with 'high horses' is that they are often ridden by the insecure who jump on every opportunity to look down on and dictate to people. The thing about a high horse is that when you fall off it, it's a long drop.

For everyone on here condemning the Op or any other 'cheat', I'm sure I could find a ten to one ratio of people who would condemn you for your 'immoral' choice of being a swinger.

Live and let live eh.

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over a year ago

The only thing in your favour is that you have it on your profile, that way those of us that wont play with cheaters will pass you by without checking you out. Does annoy me incredibly when it doesnt say on someones profile, I chat to them for a few weeks, text then just as we are about to meet, they let me know they are living with someone but there is not sex between them, so what, im here for NSA not sympathy shags. And i dont appreciate my time and my money being wasted on cheaters, especially when there are plenty of single guys on here, somewhere

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