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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there I'm Mark, I'm a 23 year old single guy looking for friends and fun. I have been on the site a while now and I have approached many couples and individuals on this site, however I haven't had any responses. I always aim to respect the wishes of other and to never try and come across pushy (if they don't message back I tend to leave it at that). So I just want to ask on some advice? Is there anything more I can do? Or is it Im not pyshically attractive, I have made all the pics public for the day so you can have a look and let me know what you think. Would be great to hear from you guys. Maybe could receive a wink or a couple private messages. Don't be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love your hair mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) When you say you've approached many people, are the people you've approached looking for someone like you? Have you read what they're looking for and you feel like you can bring something to the table, or do you just message anyone where you're in their age range?

2) What's the content of your initial messages? Is it a copy & paste job (really easy to spot if you've been here long enough) or do you tailor a message to a specific profile?

3) Look at your profile from a single woman or a couples point of view... what would grab your attention if you read it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ratio

It's about 60 to 1

Single guy profiles to lady's / couples

So assuming we all want a meet,any couple lady you message will have 59 other messages at the same time

Odds of it being read at all are like winning the lottery.I used to Be in a couples profile and we literally needed an admin department to deal with the inbox.

Try attending local socials rather than just relying on messages

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im sure you will get lots of attention now hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tick most of my boxes

Shame you're not closer. You seem like a sweet guy though, don't get discouraged x

P.s. great hair style and, summarise not summaries : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a good profile, probably you're too young for a lot of people on here and there's nothing you can do about that.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Not everyone is looking for someone 420 friendly.

To many cock photos. Need some suited and booted. Variety is always good.

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