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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've known people have first meets where they are blindfold and naked waiting on the bed for someone. Which horny as it sounds I think it's really trusting and could go terribly wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never trust a bearded man

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have been lucky to have met a few ladies like this. I never underestimated their trust in me...it made it special for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet Blindfolded ? yes. Blindfolded and tied? No way! Talk on the phone beforehand so you can establish what you are both wanting to happen.

Do whatever turns you on. Go through the risks in your head, if they are worth the thrill then go for it!

Have fun! M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never trust a bearded man "

Speak for yourself, I'm very trustworthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, we've never seen this scenario advertised unless there is someone else as well as the recipient present .

This is probably for safety reasons .....

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never trust a bearded man

Speak for yourself, I'm very trustworthy "

This isn't what I heard

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Never trust a bearded man "

Well this one anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never trust a bearded man

Well this one anyway "

How was your party yesterday btw?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known people have first meets where they are blindfold and naked waiting on the bed for someone. Which horny as it sounds I think it's really trusting and could go terribly wrong. "

I met a lady who was tied to her bed and blindfolded on our first meet , but we had chatted for ages and her husband greeted me at the door , then went to play on the computer , put the kettle on and said his wife was ready for me upstairs

It was my best meet ever !

A couple of years back now

sadly I had to leave the site suddenly due to work !

Love to find that couple again

They were from Worksop

Please get in touch if you recognise this ?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Never trust a bearded man

Well this one anyway

How was your party yesterday btw? "

Wonderful thankyou,I'm still working through opening all my birthday presents and those guy's you sent over for me are now safely stored in my cellar for future use

You daft devil,when it really is my birthday no-one will believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a first meet with a man where he waited naked and blindfolded on a hotel bed. I let myself and helped myself to his body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been lucky to have met a few ladies like this. I never underestimated their trust in me...it made it special for both of us "

It's unbelievably trusting. Im not that trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never trust a bearded man

Speak for yourself, I'm very trustworthy

This isn't what I heard "

It's all lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never trust a bearded man

Well this one anyway

How was your party yesterday btw?

Wonderful thankyou,I'm still working through opening all my birthday presents and those guy's you sent over for me are now safely stored in my cellar for future use

You daft devil,when it really is my birthday no-one will believe me "

It was my evil plan like that you feel lonely and come to me... I'll lend you my shoulder to cry and chop chop chop I'd quickly flick your beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will try most things once me but I draw the line at wearing fisher mans chest waders full to the brim with custard....... Cost me a bloody fortune did that at my local super market for all those tins, and then then there was no one home when I did finally manage to squelch my way down that blimmin street to wear she claimed to live. I think I had been hadock off and given a red herring...... Oooooow I would have so loved to have been able to put her in her plaice............ They get worse these puns, lol I best shut up before any one beleives me and think that I am being serious here, besides I don't even like custard, only CODDING I love it ......... Ok I will get my coat then

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Never trust a bearded man

Well this one anyway

How was your party yesterday btw?

Wonderful thankyou,I'm still working through opening all my birthday presents and those guy's you sent over for me are now safely stored in my cellar for future use

You daft devil,when it really is my birthday no-one will believe me

It was my evil plan like that you feel lonely and come to me... I'll lend you my shoulder to cry and chop chop chop I'd quickly flick your beans "

Chop chop chop?! Yep definitely not to be trusted

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I will try most things once me but I draw the line at wearing fisher mans chest waders full to the brim with custard....... Cost me a bloody fortune did that at my local super market for all those tins, and then then there was no one home when I did finally manage to squelch my way down that blimmin street to wear she claimed to live. I think I had been hadock off and given a red herring...... Oooooow I would have so loved to have been able to put her in her plaice............ They get worse these puns, lol I best shut up before any one beleives me and think that I am being serious here, besides I don't even like custard, only CODDING I love it ......... Ok I will get my coat then"

I'll hold it whilst you put it on

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I will try most things once me but I draw the line at wearing fisher mans chest waders full to the brim with custard....... Cost me a bloody fortune did that at my local super market for all those tins, and then then there was no one home when I did finally manage to squelch my way down that blimmin street to wear she claimed to live. I think I had been hadock off and given a red herring...... Oooooow I would have so loved to have been able to put her in her plaice............ They get worse these puns, lol I best shut up before any one beleives me and think that I am being serious here, besides I don't even like custard, only CODDING I love it ......... Ok I will get my coat then

I'll hold it whilst you put it on "

That's your coat by the way!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Never trust a bearded man "

Oki Doki ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will try most things once me but I draw the line at wearing fisher mans chest waders full to the brim with custard....... Cost me a bloody fortune did that at my local super market for all those tins, and then then there was no one home when I did finally manage to squelch my way down that blimmin street to wear she claimed to live. I think I had been hadock off and given a red herring...... Oooooow I would have so loved to have been able to put her in her plaice............ They get worse these puns, lol I best shut up before any one beleives me and think that I am being serious here, besides I don't even like custard, only CODDING I love it ......... Ok I will get my coat then"

Just wear a cod piece next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee and a chat first. Spot of lunch somewhere.

Though I have done the whole blindfold on bed (them) and I walk up the stairs thing. Was incredibly horny but it was after a good month of messaging, chatting on the phone, skyping.

Was great fun but done responsibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will try most things once me but I draw the line at wearing fisher mans chest waders full to the brim with custard....... Cost me a bloody fortune did that at my local super market for all those tins, and then then there was no one home when I did finally manage to squelch my way down that blimmin street to wear she claimed to live. I think I had been hadock off and given a red herring...... Oooooow I would have so loved to have been able to put her in her plaice............ They get worse these puns, lol I best shut up before any one beleives me and think that I am being serious here, besides I don't even like custard, only CODDING I love it ......... Ok I will get my coat then

Just wear a cod piece next time."

I would but it aint a gudgeon and dont quite pearch right on mi tackle

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I've known people have first meets where they are blindfold and naked waiting on the bed for someone. Which horny as it sounds I think it's really trusting and could go terribly wrong. "

I couldn't do that, not in a million years would I trust anyone to ask me to do that on a first meet.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Me, social, set up the boundaries. Then leave instructions, never restrained or blindfolded, but always eyes down. Hey that's me though.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I've known people have first meets where they are blindfold and naked waiting on the bed for someone. Which horny as it sounds I think it's really trusting and could go terribly wrong. "

It varies for us, it depends on who we're meeting and what we're looking for from the meet.

We've had a first meet like in the OP and it has been one of our best & memorable meets to date. Would we do or want it, all the time, no.

Equally we've had social only meets in a pub/coffee shop and had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known people have first meets where they are blindfold and naked waiting on the bed for someone. Which horny as it sounds I think it's really trusting and could go terribly wrong. "

I did it on a second meet but with no blindfold...

I was upstairs in bed, naked, and he let himself in, got undressed in the bedroom and slid into the bed beside me... a very horny scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Though I have done the whole blindfold on bed (them) and I walk up the stairs thing. Was incredibly horny but it was after a good month of messaging, chatting on the phone, skyping.

Was great fun but done responsibly. "

That's how I do it xx

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By *ophie SteveCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We play this way when entertaining a single guy and have been lucky enough to have some very welcome and pleasing visitors!

However, Steve is always there to ensure safety and we've learnt to vet carefully beforehand. No bad experiences so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do the blindfold thing. I'm often asked to leave the front door open and that I should be on my knees or naked on the stairs waiting and ready. Umm... No! That could easily go badly wrong! Once I'm happy I like the person, I meet them at the door, give them a hug and drag them upstairs (once they've taken their shoes off of course).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a first meet with a man where he waited naked and blindfolded on a hotel bed. I let myself and helped myself to his body. "

How much did you get for his kidneys?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Social meet for a coffee in a public place first time for me

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